Why do you think so called "smart" men struggle with women?

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Struggle? Everybody struggles with women at some point....women are fickle...she might not like u cuz u got the wrong color hat on or sum dumb shyt like that....not everyone is gonna like u...that's life...truly smart or intelligent ppl would figure out their shortcomings and make changes....also a lot of broken ppl out there...u know the story...chick looks good...mentally she's a mess...they try to run game and u see thru it etc...its a number of different reasons outside of iq levels...wouldn't say it's over thinking...a lot of things in dating is nonsense...sometimes ur "intelligence" saves u from a lot of shyt....downside is that crazy broad might have gave u some p*ssy if u ain't call her out on her shyt....but u saved urself from ur car getting keyed, dv charges, unwanted kids....u made the right decision but as a result ur dikk dry...average dude would fukk the crazy broad then bytch and complain when she makes his life hell....smart dude avoids all that and moves on to the next broad...
 

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There's a difference between book smarts (fluid intelligence) and streets smarts (crystalized intelligence).

The first deals with logical patterns, facts, theories and dat good shyt. The latter deals with experience, intuition and learned knowledge.

Both are essential to game. OP is talking about dudes who lack street smarts IMO. A lot of "urban" chicks usually swing for guys with street skills because they're more relatable.

However, studying psychology is one of the best subjects in learning about people. Women in particular.
 

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Bc women are emotional...the way u get good with women is manipulating how they feel

Book smart cats keep approaching women with the logical mindset aka 1 + 2 = 3, when women aren't logical and attraction itself isn't always logical....

Hell, by being LOGICAL , you would logically THINK that treating women w respect means they'll treat u good back...when we all know that ain't the case...

Basically ,they have low Emotional Inteligence, which I think can take u farther in life than book smarts...

Also there's other good sidebar explanations in here...def feel like some women are intimidated by them
Real shyt here. Understanding conceptd, theories and textbook material ain't the same as understanding a woman let alone different women and their mindsets.
 

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The qualities that make men successful with women, by in large aren't reliant on intelligence.

You can be smart but have low self esteem, be a coward, not have a great sense of humor, and carry yourself awkwardly. Intelligence is going to change that.

It also comes to priorities. Society at large promotes career and financial success first, and the women will come. Life is easier for a rich man with no game, than a broke man with game. Rich breh can figure it out or settle for an average chick. Broke man will stay broke even if he can pull a baddie.
You really wrote this with all black text? Come on breh.:hhh:
 

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What do you mean?
Overthinkers usually, which turns into procrastinators. Studiers rather than doers. Obviously not everyone fits that mold but it’s just a generalization. A lot of success in life comes down to just making immediate action rather than thinking things through, but you’ll notice this mostly in dealing with social situations with women and becoming independent financially. Study long study wrong.

I could expound a lot better and accurately if i wasn’t on my phone though.
 

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Struggle? Everybody struggles with women at some point....women are fickle...she might not like u cuz u got the wrong color hat on or sum dumb shyt like that....not everyone is gonna like u...that's life...truly smart or intelligent ppl would figure out their shortcomings and make changes....also a lot of broken ppl out there...u know the story...chick looks good...mentally she's a mess...they try to run game and u see thru it etc...its a number of different reasons outside of iq levels...wouldn't say it's over thinking...a lot of things in dating is nonsense...sometimes ur "intelligence" saves u from a lot of shyt....downside is that crazy broad might have gave u some p*ssy if u ain't call her out on her shyt....but u saved urself from ur car getting keyed, dv charges, unwanted kids....u made the right decision but as a result ur dikk dry...average dude would fukk the crazy broad then bytch and complain when she makes his life hell....smart dude avoids all that and moves on to the next broad...

THIS!!!
 

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Overthinkers usually, which turns into procrastinators. Studiers rather than doers. Obviously not everyone fits that mold but it’s just a generalization. A lot of success in life comes down to just making immediate action rather than thinking things through, but you’ll notice this mostly in dealing with social situations with women and becoming independent financially. Study long study wrong.

I could expound a lot better and accurately if i wasn’t on my phone though.

Damn you right :beli:
 

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I was just wondering this.

A lot of men who struggle with women would consider themselves smart.

Yet for whatever reason they can't figure out women.

Why is that?

If a person was truly smart wouldn't they have the ability to understand women just like they understand concepts in the work field or school?

Because we attempt to apply logic and reason to the situation...
Females are the antithetical existence of logic and reason.
Thereby causing our joy-ending confusion, sadness and celibacy.
:mjcry::snoop::to:
 

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I was just wondering this.
A lot of men who struggle with women would consider themselves smart.
Yet for whatever reason they can't figure out women.
Why is that?
If a person was truly smart wouldn't they have the ability to understand women just like they understand concepts in the work field or school?
I have no problems with women who are smart.
I have problems with hot looking women. I get all clammy and nervous. I'm talking 9s, 10s and 11s. 1s to 8s, I'm okay.
 

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Cuz they’re too busy reading articles about women instead of actually getting to know one.
 

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If you can’t dress that smartness Up to be visually appealing you won’t pull unless you got money.

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If you have a career, car, place that ain’t your mommas, You need to be looking good if you’re not already. You can wear basic clothes, just make sure they’re ironed and fit and go with each other and compliment your body and face

If you can’t have decent conversations with people, you lost. Talking like a nasally incel doesn’t help either. Know when to shut up too

Dating is shallow. It’s shallow as fukk. Get a nice haircut and maintain yourself.

If you not one of these nikkas who can pull walking outside in a swearshirt, grey sweatpants and flip flops with a barely average face, suck it up, you have work to do.

Even if you don’t like lying to women and “selling dreams”, you need to talk like you are
 
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