Why does a man do this?

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Why is it that a man will always stare at you as a woman but won't even come up and talk to you? Like literally just stare and even at times tell other men he likes you but will spend months not even saying anything to you. Just curious.


Not sure why

its interesting because I went out Friday and most of the black men was staring at me but women and other races of men approached me. Not sure If this happens to you tho
 

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Not sure why

its interesting because I went out Friday and most of the black men was staring at me but women and other races of men approached me. Not sure If this happens to you tho
The brothers probably saw you talking to those other races of dudes and wrote you off as a bedwench
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Why is it that a man will always stare at you as a woman but won't even come up and talk to you? Like literally just stare and even at times tell other men he likes you but will spend months not even saying anything to you. Just curious.

Only children or awkward/creepy men do that.
Chances are you dont want to be with either so keep it moving :yeshrug:
 
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You mean the same shyt women do? They are just abiding by the rules of "everything is exactly the same between the two genders" that have been established. I certainly hope you aren't soft shaming him OP. :mjpls:
No I don't. I was just asking out of curiosity. Women are told that it's desperate to approach men.
 

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Its hard but I feel relief after I approach so I won't have the what ifs and full of regret. It is better to not be filled with regret cuz it hurts. Approaching is hard but it shouldn't be the only tool to get p*ssy. You meet women from circle of friends, approaching in the day and night time. In the daytime, you will see alot of women say they got a boyfriend. That is why I usually approach at night near clubs and bars cuz most of these broads are single.

Rejection isn't bad, however, I will say this. If you have low self-esteem and alot insecurities and never felt wanted you should not approach. Why? You are gonna get rejected alot and you will go down a rabbit hole of a vicious cycle of pain and lower self-esteem. Instead, find out what makes you insecure. Like get money and get in shape or get a hobby. If you never felt wanted when you get rejected alot it will bring further pain. My cousin went through that. I tild him to get in shape and get money and do not focus on woman for a while. He has to build himself up in order to get that confidence that if he gets rejected he knows his worth. He is a 25 year virgin and never been in a relationship. So he never felt wanted and has no experience. So when he went out to approach he got rejected 99.99% of the time. And his self-esteem got worse and worse that approaching became a chore. So he has to make himself better. In all dudes with no experience have to build themselves up. Then they should go out and approach.
 

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No I don't. I was just asking out of curiosity. Women are told that it's desperate to approach men.

Men are told they are soft bytches for being nervous about approaching women and they are also subject to ridicule if they are not successful in their approach. I actually have no problem with their being different rules for the sexes. I just think that both sides should be considerate. Men are forced to be a considerate to a degree, as they are generally the ones who approach. I think often times that women are not considerate (or maybe genuinely unaware), because there is a certain level of entitlement that comes along with being the approached.
 
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Men are told they are soft bytches for being nervous about approaching women and they are also subject to ridicule if they are not successful in their approach. I actually have no problem with their being different rules for the sexes. I just think that both sides should be considerate. Men are forced to be a considerate to a degree, as they are generally the ones who approach. I think often times that women are not considerate (or maybe genuinely unaware), because there is a certain level of entitlement that comes along with being the approached.
But 99.99% of the time, men turn you down or use you for some sex if you do the approach. Plus women are told that you'll never know if he truly would have wanted you if you approached.
 
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