Why does the coli hate single mothers so much? Read OP

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You can't use shame for men the same way you can for women. For women words alone will invoke great emotions and provoke a reaction.

For men, actions and results are the only things tangible.

If a bum ass dude can sit in his girls house and play Madden all day while she works and still get food clothing, sex, and shelter, he's gonna do it. It doesn't matter how many times his boys clown him, they're not fukking him, feeding him, or clothing him. He'll just shrug it off.

As long as bum nikkas keep getting their needs met the behavior isn't gonna change.

This is one of the dumbest things I’ve ever read on this site. And that is saying something. U just don’t want to hold men accountable. Men are allergic to accountability which is why I can’t take them seriously when they accuse women of being like that.

A grown ass man can’t even be accountable for the health of his own dikk which would also prevent unwanted pregnancy btw. But got the nerve to neck yap about a bum bytch on the same steez. They two peas in a fukked up dysfunctional pod.

A ratchet chick who is a horrible woman could care less about “shame”. And lol @ u for even thinking that would make her pause in her tracks. She is Just like a bum nikka, so trying to shame 1/2 of the world’s population for something BOTH parties are guilty of is the dumbest shyt ever and a major reason why we have the breakdown in gender issues today.

The common sense take away is that it is the responsibility of good people to avoid bad men and women. It’s not the responsibility of WOMEN to avoid bad men solely, but also the responsibility of men to avoid bad women too.

Overlooking grown ass men not being able to control their dikks does absolutely nothing for society or to help men become better people. Which is part of the reason the entire world has so many cultures fukking over people in so many ways.
If u not part of the solution, u part of the problem. And dudes have been 1/2 of this problem since the beginning of time, but hate sharing accountability.

 

[Tommy Sheppard]

There's several studies that discuss how single parenthood negatively affects kids. You can google them yourself if you're really interested. You don't even have to look at scholarly articles to see it. They're countless negative stories posted here and on news websites related to single mothers or kids raised by single mothers.

that’s not what you said, you said most single parents are terrible parents, that’s what I’m referring to.

 

[semicko82]

Breh I know a lot of single moms whether I’m related to them or they’re friends etc. the vast majority of them had children while in a relationship/marriage and it just didn’t work out. Very few just up and had a baby with some dude they were just fukking. You’d think black women were asexual and reproduced off sunlight the way some of these nikkas talk

I guess it's different in Texas, most of these will lay up with a dusty dude just to have a kid, and you would think I'm talking about women in their teens to early 20s. Nope. These are women in their 30s. Women who should know better.

 

[AuntAnniesPretzels]

Women should get more of the blame because they have a disproportionate amount of power in the mating world. Men have sex with who they can. Women have sex with who they want

If you have a company and things go sideways who do you think is going to get most of the blame the CEO or the worker bees?

 

[Spectre]

Why does it have to be out of spite? Why can't it be common sense? I don't hate on girls choosing savage dudes, but it will tell me she makes bad decisions. If a girl has a history and doesn't bring nothing to the table in the present her value is pretty much zero. And it's disrespectful. Some of these girls have baggage and expect you to pick up the tab.

If single mothers built themselves up, and some do, they would have much better results, but instead y'all are pretending like they aren't looking for a provider. It's 2019, y'all should know the situation with some of these women.

Ciara and Megan bring value to the table, they aren't apart of the conversation.

Ciara went after guys like Future despite his multiple baby mommas.

Lol I meant Megan Good. Her husband is a complete 180 from the dudes she dated.

Notice they chose savages and finally settled for the good guys.

Hence coli spite. I get it tho

 

[Noriega]

I just think single parent households are detrimental to the black community

Why have a kid with someone u not finna stay with

 

[semicko82]

Aye cut that stupid shyt out...condoms are free especially in NYC, NJ, and PA

All a nikka gotta do is go to the Health Department or a clinic


And they DON'T

Don't give me that bullshyt...there's a lot of stages before we get to the abortion decision shyt

And thus the thread should end...nobody "hates" them...we just aren't interested in pursuing a relationship with them

Not only condoms but there is all types of birth control.

 

[Ya?]

Not only condoms but there is all types of birth control.

Because people don’t want to use it.

 

[semicko82]

Because people don’t want to use it.

Truth

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

For me personally, it all comes down to the character of the man they chose to have a baby by. I respect a single mother who at least has a baby by a good man far more than a married women who started a family with a dikkhead

If the man was so good why would he leave the mother to be a single mom?

I feel like that's a loaded statement you made

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Ciara went after guys like Future despite his multiple baby mommas.

Lol I meant Megan Good. Her husband is a complete 180 from the dudes she dated.

Notice they chose savages and finally settled for the good guys.

Hence coli spite. I get it tho

Is it not disrespectful in that some women with baggage think they deserve a good man when they initially ignored them?

Again, Ciara brings something to the table. Why are we pretending that single mothers aren't desperate, bring baggage, and bring nothing of value to the table? Whyare we pretending these women don't settle?


If single mothers actually focused on themselves and brought value this coli hate wouldn't be the case. Look at social media. You got single mothers bringing their kids to the club Kids smoking weed, daughters twerking.

 

[King Poetic]

I will only blast the single moms who had children with no good nikkas, who u knew was no good from the start

I’m sorry, but for ALOT of u single moms that’s lurking, members on this board u digged your own grave period... don’t complain that u can’t find a what I say the main requirements u should have and that’s a RESPONSIBLE, HONEST, FAITHFUL, HARD WORKING MAN.... no one told u to spread your legs for UNRESPONSIBLE, CHEATING, LYING ASS , NO JOB HAVING, DIRTY dikk EDDIE AND WILLY....

and now at 30,35,40 years old u want a solid man because your coworkers Tonya and Latasha have a honest, hardworking man , well sorry I’m pretty sure u had many opportunities but that man wasn’t good enough at the time..

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Yet no mention of the bum ass nikkas that's still running up in them

Onus on her. Why she letting the bum nikka run up on her. Unless the nikka putt on facade they should know when a nikka ain't on shyt

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Ciara went after guys like Future despite his multiple baby mommas.

Lol I meant Megan Good. Her husband is a complete 180 from the dudes she dated.

Notice they chose savages and finally settled for the good guys.

Hence coli spite. I get it tho

I think most people do that. When I was younger I went after girls who were easy. I didn’t want a relationship and I was choosing girls I would’ve never had one with

 

[AuntAnniesPretzels]

If the man was so good why would he leave the mother to be a single mom?

I feel like that's a loaded statement you made

Good men don’t abandon their kids but sometimes two good people can date and not be compatible. Single moms are just moms who aren’t married or in a relationship