Why does the coli hate single mothers so much? Read OP
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god shamgod
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The majority of the coli males believe single mothers were hoes who got their swerve on and were thotting it up.then got knocked up by a dude and now are looking for some sucka to take care of their kid(s)
That’s how out of touch with reality these sheltered lames are. Some single mothers had relationships got knocked up then things went left , some were sprung on a dude who took advantage of that, some were just irresponsible.
That’s how out of touch with reality these sheltered lames are. Some single mothers had relationships got knocked up then things went left , some were sprung on a dude who took advantage of that, some were just irresponsible.
HellRell804
Banned
This is one of the dumbest things I’ve ever read on this site. And that is saying something. U just don’t want to hold men accountable. Men are allergic to accountability which is why I can’t take them seriously when they accuse women of being like that.
A grown ass man can’t even be accountable for the health of his own dikk which would also prevent unwanted pregnancy btw. But got the nerve to neck yap about a bum bytch on the same steez. They two peas in a fukked up dysfunctional pod.
A ratchet chick who is a horrible woman could care less about “shame”. And lol @ u for even thinking that would make her pause in her tracks. She is Just like a bum nikka, so trying to shame 1/2 of the world’s population for something BOTH parties are guilty of is the dumbest shyt ever and a major reason why we have the breakdown in gender issues today.
The common sense take away is that it is the responsibility of good people to avoid bad men and women. It’s not the responsibility of WOMEN to avoid bad men solely, but also the responsibility of men to avoid bad women too.
Overlooking grown ass men not being able to control their dikks does absolutely nothing for society or to help men become better people. Which is part of the reason the entire world has so many cultures fukking over people in so many ways.
If u not part of the solution, u part of the problem. And dudes have been 1/2 of this problem since the beginning of time, but hate sharing accountability.
Lmao u got all the way in his feelings?
How exactly do we hold deadbeat dads accountable?
You want nikkas to form posses and round em up in the street? Beat em down?
Can't not do business with them because them nikkas don't work.
Refuse to hang with them? Productive nikkas don't hang with them anyway because we have jobs and shyt to do.
I've called nikkas losers and deadbeats to their face. You know what happened? Them nikkas blocked me and went back to playing 2k all day.
So what is your solution? How are men supposed to step in and solve the problem of women positively reinforcing bad behavior?
We know women are allergic to accountability but these deadbeat men u speak of aren't out here raping anyone to make their multiple children by multiple women.
That’s his point.
She should’ve known that dude was an aint shyt nikka from the beginning. The type to abandon his seed. People tell you who they are, she just ignored the signs...
Mindfield333
Superstar
I’m gonna play devils advocate and ask what about divorce?I just think single parent households are detrimental to the black community
Why have a kid with someone u not finna stay with
That’s reasonable, sometimes shyt don’t work out but what about the single moms/deadbeat dads who created a kid off a one night stand/ FWB type thing
Mindfield333
Superstar
hmmm that’s some real specific info that your more than likely not gonna get... so I tend to reserve my judgment bc iont know folks story
Same girls who went for the scamming nikkas in high school through college/early 20s suddenly want a office working breh with good credit and benefits
boundlessglobe
Rookie
They only hate the single mothers that don’t want to fukk them. A lot of guys think that just because they’re childless that automatically makes them superior and a single mother should be grateful that anyone is giving her attention.
, you sound young and naive but I got you a dap
PhillyzFinest
All Star
It just comes from this idea that someone else had "the best of her" and now you're getting the "mother version" of her.
A woman before kids do freaky shyt
a relationship where a man has resources and assets to take care of things.
My wife was super fun before she had kids. It used to be head in the car coming home from the bar.
Now its phone calls about "how to baby proof the house" and links to IKEA sets
I can deal with it. I remember the fun times.
But if she were single, I can't imagine she'd be up for doing the same stuff she used to do. Imagine a single breh having to make IKEA runs
it's not fun.
I don't think its hate. I just think it's that rotten feeling you get when you're like "someone had the best of her" and now in order to be with her I have to be the responsible party. Not fair
Sad but true.
A woman before kids do freaky shyt
- Sex in the backseat of the car
- Head in the movie theaters
- Random meetup wild sex multiple times per day
a relationship where a man has resources and assets to take care of things.My wife was super fun before she had kids. It used to be head in the car coming home from the bar.
Now its phone calls about "how to baby proof the house" and links to IKEA sets
I can deal with it. I remember the fun times.
But if she were single, I can't imagine she'd be up for doing the same stuff she used to do. Imagine a single breh having to make IKEA runs
it's not fun. I don't think its hate. I just think it's that rotten feeling you get when you're like "someone had the best of her" and now in order to be with her I have to be the responsible party. Not fair
Sad but true.
Pure Water
Veteran
Most people ain't tryna fukk they mom. Also, a large percentage of dudes who grew up with just their mother may actually feel some type of way. Obviously they don't hate their mom, but they hate the fact that she was a single mother and deprived them of a full household experience. And before you say well they should also put blame on their dad, I'm going to guess they hate what their dad did too.
THIS.