Why don't girls go for 'nice' guys?

[Blackout]

a lot of things "nice guys" do are things most people do anyways out of social contract and general everyday respect. Except those people don't expect sex out of it. fukk "nice guys".

Those are fake nice guys.

No need for quotations.

Real nice guys know that being nice is thankless.

 

[The Electric Lady]

One tyhing ive learned about women is that they can say they want a nice dude but will fukk with an fukking thugged out idiot in a second thus negating all things that they just said... cant take them at their word when they cant even be honest with themselves....

so.........

That's because nice-ness is not the only barometer for attraction, and bad boys usually have an air of confidence and individuality that so-called nice guys usually don't have.

Those are fake nice guys.

Real nice guys know that being nice is thankless.

Yes, and those are the nice guys we're talking about.

 

[Wild self]

That's because nice-ness is not the only barometer for attraction, and bad boys usually have an air of confidence and individuality that so-called nice guys usually don't have.

So you been with the so called "bad boy" before?

 

[The Electric Lady]

So you been with the so called "bad boy" before?

Nope. But I get why some girls go for that. You also have to realize that not all women are the same and go for totally different things.

 

[ORDER_66]

That's because nice-ness is not the only barometer for attraction, and bad boys usually have an air of confidence and individuality that so-called nice guys usually don't have.



Yes, and those are the nice guys we're talking about.

Bullshyt....

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

A nice guy to me is someone who is chivalrous and caring but doesn't fall in love with what his eyes see before gaining a closer inspection. Someone who falls in love quickly is a fool to me. I appreciate compliments now and again... but it's a turn off when a man loves you before he has even gotten to know you. The stare of lust without pure love is stomach churning to me. The look in his eyes tells me that to him I'm a sexual object; how can I be more when he doesn't know me? That's where the problem lies.

why would you expect more if he doesn't know you?? you think he went out with you because you have a nice brain??

the problem with dating is women KNOW men and men KNOW women... and we parade around like we don't know each other. we dealt with women all our lives.. seen every angle from girlfriends, to friends, to family, to stories from your boys, your dad, uncles, cousins, homegirls.... same with women... you know us inside and out


and we get on these dates and PRETEND we don't know that shyt


women want a nikka with little bad streak.. they want a little domination.. they want a man to be a man.. they want this and they want that... they know it, we know it... they lie and say they just want a smart man with a good job who will accept me for me... bullshyt...

men want a dime with a freak ass side... we say we don't care about looks, we need a woman who got a career, we need a church girl... we need this, we need that... we lying too.. we will throw that church girl in the bushes for meagan good tonight and not think twice about it... women know it, we know they know it



dude seen you and was like damn i wanna fukk (like 99% of all men start off) and maybe if you talked to him and seen what you had in common, you'd build upon more and he'd learn to love other things

all the men you've dated who didn't act like him, didn't turn out any damn better, or you wouldn't be dating in the first place... so who cares what they pretended to care about, when in the end, they ended up being just like every other nikka you dated


then when a woman or man just says fukk it.. i'm gonna be and do me exactly how i want... then they get deemed a slut, whore, dirty dikk and whatever else... cause they aren't conforming to society and PLAYING these "nice guy, bad boy, good girl, bad girl" roles... that nobody really even wants to be anyway

 

[Blackout]

One tyhing ive learned about women is that they can say they want a nice dude but will fukk with an fukking thugged out idiot in a second thus negating all things that they just said... cant take them at their word when they cant even be honest with themselves....

so.........

That's funny and I see it too.

A bunch of hypocrites.

Call them out and they will say other lies about how he is confident and shyt like there aren't dudes who aren't thugs that are confident.

 

[Blackout]

Yes, and those are the nice guys we're talking about.

How can they be nice of they are only faking being nice to get p*ssy.

Calling them nice guys is factually wrong lol.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

It's because Nice Guys want the p*ssy just like every other man, but they think they can lie an con their way into some action, and girls subconsciously can sense that
Nice guys would always lose. But they are kicking themselves that they can't be forthright and honest about their feelings toward a women

Being blunt and straightforward is the purest form of masculinity

So back in July, my cuzzn wanted me to take him across town to see this thot.
I was tired from work and really didn't feel like doing all that driving.
He told me carissa would be there *girl I've hit multiple times* so I said I would.

We get there and I lie back on the bench and look at the stars.
She asks SO WHATS THE REAL REASON YOU CAME. I said SO TONY CAN MESS WIT HIS OL GIRL. I AIN'T COME TO SMASH BUT IF WE DO ITS ALL GOOD.

I smashed raw in my backseat then let my cuz hit the other girl too.

I love being direct and not caring how they react.

 

[The Electric Lady]

Bullshyt....

Oh yeah? Bad boys often say what they want. I don't want to be with no dude who can't express his own opinion on matters.

That's funny and I see it too.

A bunch of hypocrites.

Call them out and they will say other lies about how he is confident and shyt like there aren't dudes who aren't thugs that are confident.

In a lot of those cases, the girl may lie to you to not hurt your feelings. She'll say she wants a "nice guy" because you identify as that, to not put you down and hurt your feelings and take up with the "thug" dude because hey, he's Mr. adventure. also, a lot of guys jealous of "thug" guys can be very self absorbed and delusional. all you see is a "bad boy" but the women who are with them may see other things they may like. These women like men, you don't. Who are you to judge who they're attracted to? Girls don't belong to you.

 

[Kenny West]

op kept it a billi

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

The problem in this scenario and i can say in a lot of cases is you were expecting him to do this or that, something special, magical etc. When u should have been trying to get to know him as well. If u felt this way then u should have communicated this with ur date, talk about ur interests, lead the conversation to what u want to know and see if he follow ur lead.

But of course u sat there quiet and let him babble on because im sure u wasn't paying for the date so u wasn't losing nothing but time and here u are writing a book when u could have just explained all this to ur date. U went to the date already turned off and feeling one way and didn't let him know so i blame u for this one. The same way some women have the patience to stick with a guy that beat them up, u should have the same patience with a so called "nice" guy.

To close i don't buy ur story, its just another excuse, every guy not gun be like me that got experience, a good mouth piece etc but im not that special and i cant be every woman's pick, u got to give these guys a chance and not do it out of pity and conclude that's the reason girls don't date nice guys. U need to go all in focus on the good things, help each other with ya'll flaws and u should see an increase in the quality of life u lead.

 

[Blackout]

In a lot of those cases, the girl may lie to you to not hurt your feelings. She'll say she wants a "nice guy" because you identify as that, to not put you down and hurt your feelings and take up with the "thug" dude because hey, he's Mr. adventure. also, a lot of guys jealous of "thug" guys can be very self absorbed and delusional. all you see is a "bad boy" but the women who are with them may see other things they may like. These women like men, you don't. Who are you to judge who they're attracted to? Girls don't belong to you.

I don't want a chick who likes thugs so there will be no reason for her to lie to me because I won't even approach her with interest once I find that she is interest in thugs lol.

What is going on is chicks lying because they really want thugs because they are fun and dangerous but don't want to be looked down upon for it.

 

[UpAndComing]

So back in July, my cuzzn wanted me to take him across town to see this thot.
I was tired from work and really didn't feel like doing all that driving.
He told me carissa would be there *girl I've hit multiple times* so I said I would.

We get there and I lie back on the bench and look at the stars.
She asks SO WHATS THE REAL REASON YOU CAME. I said SO TONY CAN MESS WIT HIS OL GIRL. I AIN'T COME TO SMASH BUT IF WE DO ITS ALL GOOD.

I smashed raw in my backseat then let my cuz hit the other girl too.

I love being direct and not caring how they react.

Great story breh . People don't realize, blunt/directness opens alot of doors

 

[The Electric Lady]

How can they be nice of they are only faking being nice to get p*ssy.

Calling them nice guys is factually wrong lol.

But they label themselves as nice guys and they are the main subject of the thread. I'm using quotation marks for a damn reason. More than that, as I said before, most men who identify as "nice guys" are bustas. Being nice is the bare minimum of social decorum. How that make anyone special? Can you play guitar? Do you speak multiple languages? Trying to improve yourself? Can you make art? Is there anything interesting about you beyond the nice-ness? That's why a lot of girls fukk with so-called bad boys. Because they're interesting. I don't see you dating the quiet nerdy girl in the library, do you? Why do you think that is? Now use that comparison in relation to why women go for men with more colorful personalities.