Why don't girls go for 'nice' guys?

[OCCAMS_RAZOR]

Oh and btw the only reason you found his attraction to you uncomfortable was because you weren't attracted to him. If you were attracted to him you probably woulda wet yourself. When a girl wants the D you literally can't do anything wrong. Females are pretty simple.

That's the tentative conclusion I came to. Dudes, who don't have a lot going for them love to delude themselves into thinking that they can control some aspect of the outcome.

'Oh maybe if i hadn't picked my nose I'd be in her panties right now ... '

'Oh maybe ... Oh maybe ... '

Utterly pointless. Exert your mental energy improving your life rather than pointless concerns such as these. No girl is worth all that effort, I don't care who she is.

 

[capt_saveahoe]

Nice guys are nice because they do not understand women due to never getting attention from women. Attractive guys know that being "nice" doesn't really do much in attracting women, they just do them and the women keep coming.

Most nice guys are over compensating for their lack of desirability.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

No offense but all men will first be attracted to your beauty.

Just because he wqa gasp enamored and liked you it bothered you because he seemed desperate.

He could have been the same nice guy but sat their quietly and gave off a mysterious vibe and then deleted your number and you would have been wet.

If you were attracted to him you would have found what he was doing cute.

 

[Wild self]

No. If you bothered to listen to No Scrubs lyrics, a scrub is a fukking loser. Most self-acclaimed "nice guys" are just that, losers. THey have an overly inflated view of themselves, and really aren't actually nice. Most of them seem to think they're OWED a woman, girlfriend, or sex because they're nice to girls. a lot of people are nice. That doesn't mean we should fukk or date. What do nice guys have going for them besides being "nice"? They're fukking losers. That doesn't mean I want to date a gangsta playboy either. Just a regular dude who doesn't act like the world owes him something. He doesn't even need to be swagged out. He can be poor, so long as he has aspirations and goals for the future rather than just coasting by life like a sad little fukk ass buster.

So you pretty much want a rough neck like Chris Brown, or the other term in the TC, "Tupac in a business suit." Your definition of a loser is a guy that isn't swagged out, tall, or flashes in front of people all day.

 

[The Electric Lady]

So you pretty much want a rough neck like Chris Brown, or the other term in the TC, "Tupac in a business suit." Your definition of a loser is a guy that isn't swagged out, tall, or flashes in front of people all day.

...............You didn't read a damn thing I said.

 

[Wild self]

...............You didn't read a damn thing I said.

So what type of dude are you attracted to, anyway?

I know that I ain't owed shyt in life, so kill that "you a nice guy" nonsense.

 

[The Electric Lady]

So what type of dude are you attracted to, anyway?

I know that I ain't owed shyt in life, so kill that "you a nice guy" nonsense.

I never called you a nice guy. I'm not even talking about you, what the fukk. When did this turn into something about you? The topic is about nice guys and I'm commenting on why most of the ones I've met who identify as them turn out to be losers.

Men I like: confident men who treat people with respect and aren't losers who have no goal to improve themselves. He can be tall, short, rich, poor. It helps if he's sorta nerdy, so I can get my geek on, but also a gentleman.

There's a difference between a guy who self identifies as a "nice guy" as if that's what he has to offer to the world and me, and a man who just happens to be a nice guy and doesn't let it define him.

Real talk, men who bytch that girls don't like "nice guys" tend to be bytch made. Prove me wrong.

 

[Wild self]

I never called you a nice guy. I'm not even talking about you, what the fukk. When did this turn into something about you? The topic is about nice guys and I'm commenting on why most of the ones I've met who identify as them turn out to be losers.

Men I like: confident men who treat people with respect and aren't losers who have no goal to improve themselves. He can be tall, short, rich, poor. It helps if he's sorta nerdy, so I can get my geek on, but also a gentleman.

Ok, that is something that I can get along with

 

[Jahmal]

There is a difference between being a nice guy and being a good guy

 

[The Electric Lady]

a lot of things "nice guys" do are things most people do anyways out of social contract and general everyday respect. Except those people don't expect sex out of it. fukk "nice guys".

 

[ORDER_66]

One tyhing ive learned about women is that they can say they want a nice dude but will fukk with an fukking thugged out idiot in a second thus negating all things that they just said... cant take them at their word when they cant even be honest with themselves....

so.........

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I tried to ignore this thread but front page is a lil dry tonight



First, I don't believe there's a such thing as a "Nice" guy or a "Good" guy, everyone has faults

Secondly, most women want a confident guy. Most outwardly confident guys just happen to be douche's and most women just happen to be idiots who fall for their bullshyt

Lastly, most women have no idea what they want. Most say they want a man thats smart, attractive, stable, has a personality... a decent guy but they will curve or friendzone him for whatever petty reason or for whoever is the douchiest dude in their vicinity

 

[Mikael Blowpiff]

This forum is turning into Reddit by the second.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Women want confidence, its like Tony Chachere. All of em are different when it comes to the amount tho...

It really does matter if your ballin, broke, ugly or cut. If you aint got any confidence its only a matter of time before she moves on.

 

[OCCAMS_RAZOR]

Most nice guys are over compensating for their lack of desirability.

why 'over-compensating' though? language like this really confuses me sometimes. if a guy is nice to a girl and she doesn't reciprocate, whether it be romantically or platonically, then why should the guy feel like he's in the wrong? shouldn't the onus be on the girl to be more appreciative of nice ppl. the world would be a much nicer place if people weren't such manipulative a$$holes. i've tried being an 'a$$hole', being 'aloof' and even though it might give me results, I just don't like it. it doesn't leave me feeling good. i don't feel fulfilled.

i mean, am i abnormal or what?

i like being nice to people. and it's usually not because i want something in return, because i seldom do, it's more because i just like the feeling. i like doing nice things to people regardless of whether or not they'll reciprocate because it makes me feel good. overall, i prefer to associate with people who have a similar attitude.