why dont women propose to men?

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why would that make you look desperate

im not talkin about some dudes n yall just datin

im talking about the feeling is mutual for the most part

to me if a woman propsed to me i would feel honored

made me feel like im on my job

If the feelings mutual then he should have no problem asking me...that's like asking someone to be,my man ..if he wants me he should propose to me...I need a man that goes after what he wants..and doesn't need to be lead there...
 

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i aint even tryna be funny

lowkey we gotta be the breadwinner, backbone, and we gotta pay for a ring wtf damn a big ass task

lol i think the woman should atleast have the decency to get on one knee and let the man of their dreams that they choose them

i wonder what the marriage number would be then lololol


put some pressure on the ladies for a change
what yall think?
My ex proposed to me back in 08'. i didnt see no big deal with it. If anything i respect her for it
 

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If the feelings mutual then he should have no problem asking me...that's like asking someone to be,my man ..if he wants me he should propose to me...I need a man that goes after what he wants..and doesn't need to be lead there...

but would you propose to him?
like i said he on his job
it shouldnt be a problem right?

My ex proposed to me back in 08'. i didnt see no big deal with it. If anything i respect her for it

damn thats wassup
i would respect my girl too if she proposed
and would make me wanna go harder for her
 

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but would you propose to him?
like i said he on his job
it shouldnt be a problem right?



damn thats wassup
i would respect my girl too if she proposed
and would make me wanna go harder for her

If he is on his job then we can discuss it. No I will not ask I have a very aggressive attitude and that would make me feel like the man....controlling /weak women normally ask their man to marry them...
 

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b/c we prefer MEN *hint the word* to be be the hunter.

If he is on his job then we can discuss it. No I will not ask I have a very aggressive attitude and that would make me feel like the man....controlling /weak women normally ask their man to marry them...

i dont think its about showing aggression or being controlling

i think its about respect honestly

im just sayin because why would you feel insecure about askin a man to marry you?

if he gonna be the main provider and backbone why not show him the respect by asking him?

once again only if the feelin is mutual as in feelings for each other

if the main reason women want marriage is to show commitment
why not show yousr as well?

i honestly would feel honored if a woman proposed to me
 

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i dont think its about showing aggression or being controlling

i think its about respect honestly

im just sayin because why would you feel insecure about askin a man to marry you?

if he gonna be the main provider and backbone why not show him the respect by asking him?

once again only if the feelin is mutual as in feelings for each other

if the main reason women want marriage is to show commitment
why not show yousr as well?

i honestly would feel honored if a woman proposed to me

Me proposing to him has nothing to do with respect...and if he is going to be my king he needs to act like it...if I accept his,proposal that shows my willingness to commit...I am a very strong woman I need an even stronger man...a man that needs me to do things like propose wouldn't even last with me...I don't believe in asking people to do shiit they don't want to do...the only way imo to be certain he didn't feel pressured into doing something he didn't want to do is allow him to take the lead...if he asks I know that's what he wanted otherwise there would be doubts in my mind that if I didn't ask him would he be fine with never marrying...most men honestly would be fine...
 

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I don't know if anyone has said it yet but many dudes will see a proposing women as emasculating.

Like back in the day I think it was wierd if a broad asked a man out.
 

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Me proposing to him has nothing to do with respect...and if he is going to be my king he needs to act like it...if I accept his,proposal that shows my willingness to commit...I am a very strong woman I need an even stronger man...a man that needs me to do things like propose wouldn't even last with me...I don't believe in asking people to do shiit they don't want to do...the only way imo to be certain he didn't feel pressured into doing something he didn't want to do is allow him to take the lead...if he asks I know that's what he wanted otherwise there would be doubts in my mind that if I didn't ask him would he be fine with never marrying...most men honestly would be fine...

thats my point though
if yall got to that point why would it be a problem?
im sayin if its witta nikka where all that other shyt aint even a question
like you know what he about so you shouldnt be worried imo

if you didnt say nothin about marriage would you expect him to marry you?

why do you wanna get married?

i just wanna know cuz you a female
and most of these females at my job too silly to give me answer without tryna come at me
 

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thats my point though
if yall got to that point why would it be a problem?
im sayin if its witta nikka where all that other shyt aint even a question
like you know what he about so you shouldnt be worried imo

if you didnt say nothin about marriage would you expect him to marry you?

why do you wanna get married?

i just wanna know cuz you a female
and most of these females at my job too silly to give me answer without tryna come at me

If he is my man he wouldn't need asking...and I am a great woman which is why I have no problem being asked...

Marriage...kids..sex...are a few of the topics I ask a man when we first start dating...I don't even date men without an interest in marriage in the near future...but that is no guarantee that he is ready when I'm ready ..which is why I prefer he asks...

I want to get married because I want to have children...and I want to set an example of a stable family foundation...I do not believe in having a child out of marriage...if it happens so be it but I'm not trying to have a baby with a boyfriend...I feel two people choose to get married it at least shows a willingness to attempt to be committed to a family instead of being boyfriend and girlfriend forever...
 

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If he is my man he wouldn't need asking...and I am a great woman which is why I have no problem being asked...Marriage...kids..sex...are a few of the topics I ask a man when we first start dating...I don't even date men without an interest in marriage in the near future...but that is no guarantee that he is ready when I'm ready ..which is why I prefer he asks...

I want to get married because I want to have children...and I want to set an example of a stable family foundation...I do not believe in having a child out of marriage...if it happens so be it but I'm not trying to have a baby with a boyfriend...I feel two people choose to get married it at least shows a willingness to attempt to be committed to a family instead of being boyfriend and girlfriend forever...

or asking him?

but like you just said you want to get married, you dont want a wedding out of wedlock, you are a good woman

then whats the problem with you asking him to marry you?
 

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How often do you get asked out by a woman?

thats my point my nikka

especially if you nikka thats on his job
nothing wrong witta woman askin a guy out
but naw they so entitled its crazy
every female im sitting around right now on some entitled shyt
at the same time be complaining they so lonely lol
 
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