Why Great Husbands Are Being Abandoned

[010101]

Wrong.

Wrong or right
fukk marriage and fukk religion
KayCool*

 

[Poitier]

Wrong or right
fukk marriage and fukk religion
KayCool*

You might as well say fukk your life and civilization then, too

 

[010101]

Pre Homo Sapiens were monogamous by in large....nikka please

IIGHT cool all I know is I ain't so fukk it
Ok buddy*

 

[Londilon]

nope
Women go through menapause, sex drive level changes as they get older. No one is the same person they were years ago, you can choose the "right partner" today but 5, 01, 15 years from now they may not be the right partner.

Those are physical changes not mental/personality changes and should not change how you feel about someone, just changes how sexual you might be.
You could lose a leg and still be in love with the person you are in a relationship with. Some of your nikkas in here don't know how to separate physical from mental. That is why some of you nikkas in here might choose the wrong woman. You can't think past the physical. I bet most of these nikkas stay on instagra thirsting after hoes.

 

[Poitier]

IIGHT cool all I know is I ain't so fukk it
Ok buddy*

Stay off the pcp and Ray Kurzweil websites, alright buddy

 

[010101]

You might as well say fukk your life and civilization then, too

fukk your life and fukk civilization
Bye *

 

[MikelArteta]

You are the Queen of shaming tactics... "all women are grenades ...At best they are duds?" You are advocating for men to not even talk to women...

Real talk, you sound real homo...

.... the truth hurts... I understand

in correlation to marriage where its a 50/50 shot of success, is it the equivalent of a live grenade and a dud grenade. A live hand grenade and a dud look exactly alike one another, but you cannot differentiate them without doing damage to yourself. Women are the same way; the bad ones look the same as the good ones do, act like they do, talk like they do, etc. From where we men sit, how can we tell them apart? so why would a man get married its a 50/50 shot you will be sitting in divorce court one day.

I mentioned that marriage is a bad risk. She trotted out the "not all girls are like that" line, which I nicely handled with the hand grenade analogy (here's a box of hand grenades, choose one you think is a dud, then hold it and pull the pin and see if you were right or not). There's no way to know WHAT kind of girl you have until you're committed and it's too late to avoid being destroyed. Therefore, there can be women who are "not like that", but unfortunately it's irrelevant. Not all hand grenades are "like that" (meaning they explode), and there ARE duds... but because the duds can look just like the live ones, you'd have to be crazy to pick one and commit to finding out.

She rolled her eyes and basically said that if you don't know the girl by THEN (marriage time), then you're clueless. I replied that women can be master actresses, and you can only get to know the "real them" if they allow you to see it before the wedding, which many do not. And girls acting good look identical, in all respects, to girls who are REALLY good. So, there's just no way to know until it's too late.

 

[010101]

Stay off the pcp and Ray Kurzweil websites, alright buddy

You always know best
Thank you for the wisdom*

 

[Londilon]

Are they marrying older men who are stable and mature with careers, or rushing into marriages with uneducated military guys who are much more likely to fail?

Exactly.

The former happens far more often than the latter since a lot of military find women overseas to marry. Also the military provides education for their people and there are many programs that help military get jobs and homes after they complete their service. That is a big reason why so many men sign up for military.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

The former happens far more often than the latter since a lot of military find women overseas to marry.

Well, I gotta also add that the average age for divorce are these 30 year old goddesses you wax ecstatic about, so I don't know why you're acting smug about anything.

But you think that older women have something to offer that younger women don't, so far be it for me to judge.

And people tend to marry more their own age, I've seen it happen far more that way.

 

[MikelArteta]

Those are physical changes not mental/personality changes and should not change how you feel about someone, just changes how sexual you might be.
You could lose a leg and still be in love with the person you are in a relationship with. Some of your nikkas in here don't know how to separate physical from mental. That is why some of you nikkas in here might choose the wrong woman. You can't think past the physical. I bet most of these nikkas stay on instagra thirsting after hoes.

generalize, I don't have instagram, nor do I partake in juggling women left and right.

Menapause is not just a physical change same with elevated and lowered sexual drives. What I'm implying is that people change all the time, are you the same person you were 5 years ago? Doubtful! I'm not even attracted to the same women I was 5 years ago.

Even in the church divorce rates are high, even with pre marital counselling, and a foundation built on the word the divorce rate is high, the whole choosing the "right person" is a crock of ish.

 

[Taadow]

I read the article...and it sounds like it's saying that in a marriage the man and woman
BOTH have to be willing to want to make a life together, instead of just living two seperate
lives while being "together".

Makes sense to me...

 

[Colicat]

in correlation to marriage where its a 50/50 shot of success, is it the equivalent of a live grenade and a dud grenade. A live hand grenade and a dud look exactly alike one another, but you cannot differentiate them without doing damage to yourself. Women are the same way; the bad ones look the same as the good ones do, act like they do, talk like they do, etc. From where we men sit, how can we tell them apart? so why would a man get married its a 50/50 shot you will be sitting in divorce court one day.

You must have little to no confidence in your discernment abilities.... you sit on the internet and complain about having a partnership with a woman because all of the women you have picked cheated on their bitter resentful boyfriend.....

But you cavort and canoodle with dime paawgs so it doesn't' matter that they are souless asswipes.... Hey, you can always blame your perpetual loneliness on the 50% divorce rate

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I personally think people expect too much from marriage and their spouses.

You will make good wife one day

 

[Londilon]

Well, I gotta also add that the average age for divorce are these 30 year old goddesses you wax ecstatic about, so I don't know why you're acting smug about anything.

But you think that older women have something to offer that younger women don't, so far be it for me to judge.

And people tend to marry more their own age, I've seen it happen far more that way.

Where did I say I only date 30 year olds I'm in my 20s breh? I said I date women around my age not half a decade younger than me.

BTW if the average age of these women are 30, then they had to have been married in their early 20s. Which is the age you nikkas said is the best age to grab these women. Women who have not experienced the world enough to know what they want. Now that they hit 30 they see that marriage really wasn't for them and they don't want to be married to a 40 year old at 30.

All I said was I want a woman who knows what they want and has experienced life more than just fresh out of college.