Why Great Husbands Are Being Abandoned

[Dwolf]

most relationships peaked shortly after 3 yrs.

What happened?

 

[MikelArteta]

So basically dont mess with women at all because its to much of a risk.

never said that
I'm talking about marriage, see if i'm in a relationship with a woman and she "changes", she falls out of love, she cheats, I can just exit without any ramifications.

Now if I'm married?

 

[Remote]

I'm pretty sure that 90% of the responders did not read the entire thing.
But I did.

Interesting piece.
I've never heard of Randi Gunther.

According to her bio she's been a marriage counselor for 40 years.

The trend of men becoming more...."emotionally available" over the last few decades is probably true.
Whether this is a situation of women getting what they wanted and not being happy with the results....well I think women have to answer that for themselves.

 

[marcuz]

What happened?

just general boredom with nothing keeping us binded together like marriage or kids.

 

[Malta]

The trend of men becoming more...."emotionally available" over the last few decades is probably true.

Not me, I'm aloof and distant

My affection means more since most people view me as cold

 

[Remote]

Not me, I'm aloof and distant

My affection means more since most people view me as cold

Malta got a heart of gold
...but with a hole

 

[Dwolf]

just general boredom with nothing keeping us binded together like marriage or kids.

Heh.

 

[13473]

women are women. we like to file for divorce and start over. these men need to choose better.

 

[Malta]

Malta got a heart of gold
...but with a hole

People I love know it without question doe.

 

[Colicat]

choosing the "right" women is all subjective, its like a dud grenade and a live grenade until you pull the pin you won't know which is real and which is fake are you going to take the chance?

So go ahead and make the choice that you've always wanted... choose the single barrel shotgun.... choose a man....

 

[Londilon]

men marry base off looks and not character

No, dumb men base off only looks.

Real nikkas know that looks aren't going to make a marriage successful.

 

[ORDER_66]

get married breh's.....

 

[Londilon]

Women are leaving "great" husbands because they want to be able to fukk around like they did when they were single and young. They still wanna get that last bit of dikk in as cougars and not feel badly about it. If they already have kids, alimony, and child support, why not play the field more after you get divorced? It's sexually empowering when women do it, right?

What age do you think these women got married?

 

[skeetsinternal]

i can't cosign this

 

[Ghostface Trillah]

But as @Malta astutely pointed out, this is the society we've created in general: A "greed is good", "spit on the next man to get what you want", "its all about me", "caring about others is for losers", etc society. So why act surprised with this mentality translates to marriages? The couples profiled all sound like a bunch of overprivileged, spoiled brats who never know what they want, just that they want something more. Limiting that mindset to women isnt realty.

The psychologist seemed a bit too agenda-driven anyway, so who knows how valid her analysis of the couples is. Old white people love pimpin tradition and the "good ol days", and bellyaching about the fact that life was so much better when certain groups had less freedoms and the ability of choice that they do now.

No way am I letting men off the hook but we're talking relationships and divorce. Women control both of those things as they initiate the majority of divorces. Society is filled with its all about me-isms but who takes that into a union with another person? The woman who needed the man to get on a knee with an expensive stone and beg her to put up with her, give her a nice wedding, etc...or the guy trying to get those things to give her?