Why Great Husbands Are Being Abandoned

marcuz

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@marcuz you don't get to dictate what other men should and should not do. Just do you, if you see no sense or benefit in marriage, don't feel pressured to marry cause you will be a terrible partner. No one is forcing marriage here, don't be a doormat. Some folks find that it works for them, some don't.

Your worst fears about marriage are getting fat and withholding sex. I can tell you really haven't been in any meaningful longterm partnership (where you can also bald, get fat, and withhold sex). When you get fired, go through serious illness, or experience the death of a parent, that is when your partner's real skills are needed. And this just may not be something that you find valuable, so just move on.

how am i dictating what other men are doing, i dont have that kind of power. those arent my "worst fears" of marriage, im giving examples of how quickly women can change after they get their business contract.

i find loyalty valuable, and considering 70% of divorces are initiated by women, that seems to be something you gals lack.
 

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So you nikkas are tellin me you've never seen one successful marriage in your life? You've never seen one successful married couple and said to yourself, "I want to have something solid like that for myself one day"? Man, some of yall just sound bitter man. Real talk.
 

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So you nikkas are tellin me you've never seen one successful marriage in your life? You've never seen one successful married couple and said to yourself, "I want to have something solid like that for myself one day"? Man, some of yall just sound bitter man. Real talk.
if you had to play russian roulette with a 50% chance of losing, would you pull the trigger?
 

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how am i dictating what other men are doing, i dont have that kind of power. those arent my "worst fears" of marriage, im giving examples of how quickly women can change after they get their business contract.

i find loyalty valuable, and considering 70% of divorces are initiated by women, that seems to be something you gals lack.
When you say "men should just", you can't decide for all men. Just do you.
It sucks that you haven't been able to come across many loyal people in your life. But to be fair, who would want to remain loyal to such bitterness? The same few cats here have been bitter for so long! No confident, happy, and secure girl wants to be that negativity.
 
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