Formerly Black Trash
Philosopher, Connoisseur, Future Legend
A lot of women online are trash
"Why I Do Not Want to Split Rent or Mortgage With My Man"
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Kilgore Trout
Banned
Hoe babble 
Patrick Kane
Superstar
I didn’t even read past the title of this thread. These heauxs talk about how they want a man and not trying to raise a child, but if I’m paying all the bills, than bytch YOU are my child. FOH, I’m looking for a partnership, these chicks looking for sponsorship
And you see how she talks about "sharing her body" and then says she doesn't want her man expecting her to cook but she'll make sure he's fed
whatever that means. All while he's busting his ass paying the lion's share of the bills and I guess that's his contribution for being in a relationship with someone as special as she is 
shyts crazy bruhs. Whatever happened to just genuinely wanting to build a partnership? Give and take, seeing what works for you two as a couple and working towards common goals financially, emotionally and mentally? Communication to build/strengthen a bond? Being selfless with someone who should be considered special to you? (this is your significant other, after all) None of this was mentioned by her (or maybe it was, I stopped reading
) but how are you going into a relationship with a SELFISH mindset? With all her projections, she's already lost because any real nikka will see past her bullshyt and laugh her off to the bushes.
Patrick Kane
Superstar
Too many I, Me, and My's for my taste. There is a reason why you're single and it's most likely because you're selfish and narcissistic. A serious relationship/marriage is not about you, it's about the other person. It's about the giving of yourself to your partner/spouse which is why most marriages fail in this "it's all about me" generation.
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Patrick Kane
Superstar
matter of fact, i dont even know any serious couples who dont split the rent and bills 
Ol’Otis
The Picasso of the Ghetto
If I was married I wouldn't mind paying all the bills
The issue with her is simply that she literally wants to avoid doing anything hard at all, and she's trying to justify it with feminism, thus making feminism look bad in the process.
I get not wanting to cook all the time if youre busy with your job.
I get not wanting to stress out over bills.
But it's strange to think you can be in a relationship and not have to take on any reslonsibility at all. Like, you literally want to keep all your money, never spend it, not do any shores whatsoever... if she divorces, does she expect to take have his money then?
I get not wanting to cook all the time if youre busy with your job.
I get not wanting to stress out over bills.
But it's strange to think you can be in a relationship and not have to take on any reslonsibility at all. Like, you literally want to keep all your money, never spend it, not do any shores whatsoever... if she divorces, does she expect to take have his money then?
I swear, I don't know what it is about this article, but this shyt irked me.
In finance, we have these terms "front office" and "back office". Front office are the revenue generating roles, the roles that pay the bills. The back office is "operations" and the functions that support the front office. There is a clear separation between the two and it's very hard to make lateral moves from the back office to the front.
I would actually be the type of husband to take care of all our household expenditures. And if that is her expectation than fine. But you better believe, if I'm in that "revenue generating" role, my expectation is that she's in charge of "operations". Whether she wants to work or not is of no consequence to her primary role, running the operations of the house and providing support to the "revenue generator".
The author can
Talking about sharing expenses is contributing to black wealth disparity statistics. Let's talk about the single black woman statistic in which she is being an active participant.
In finance, we have these terms "front office" and "back office". Front office are the revenue generating roles, the roles that pay the bills. The back office is "operations" and the functions that support the front office. There is a clear separation between the two and it's very hard to make lateral moves from the back office to the front.
I would actually be the type of husband to take care of all our household expenditures. And if that is her expectation than fine. But you better believe, if I'm in that "revenue generating" role, my expectation is that she's in charge of "operations". Whether she wants to work or not is of no consequence to her primary role, running the operations of the house and providing support to the "revenue generator".
The author can
Talking about sharing expenses is contributing to black wealth disparity statistics. Let's talk about the single black woman statistic in which she is being an active participant.
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JerseyBoy23
Veteran
I ain't saying she's a gold digger...
