Why I Don’t Respect Married Men

[Henri Christophe]

Stop it. You nikkas ain't lobbying for law changes. 100% of GMBs campaign is LAUGHING at married dudes who got shytted on. Don't try and change your narrative now

Removing your bias as a happily married man (which I salute),

Would you encourage marriage to young brehs the same way older women encourage younger women to get married?

Not broke struggling brehs... Would u encourage marriage to young brehs with resources?

why? Or why not?

Genuine question.

 

[Benefited]

By telling men to focus on their purpose instead of women?

Yes,because whats the point in focusing on yourself,bettering yourself,becoming a success. Just to be out here spreading your seed and laying among demonic women you barely know on a nightly basis,just to get your dikk wet

This man actually said "I'm all for having families,but you don't have to get the courts involved in your business to have families". Does he not realize that the courts will be in your business when you end up having children out of wedlock and the relationship doesn't work out?yet he is advocating being sexually promiscuous among black people. This is horrible advice for successful blacks and poor blacks alike.

Marriage won't financially cripple a broke black man who has nothing, like CHILD SUPPORT and children out of wedlock does FAR MORE commonly in our community. Most nikkas don't have it like that where they should be afraid of marriage,but they could get it like that if they went into relationships with women with a business plan in mind like real alphas do. Not thinking of strategies to get your dikk wetted by different randoms whos past and mental states you know little about,and may not find out about until its too late. Supposedly succesful nikkas taking chances with women they meet on plenty of fish and tinder calling themselves alphas and mocking men for not thinking with their dikks,this shyt is tragic all around. A huge problem in our community.

 

[Benefited]

No he's helping these cats by knowing how to filter out who's down for you compared to a time waster.

They are all time wasters if you have no intention on building a kingdom with a woman and have a real family. Which he doesn't seem to promote.

 

[Henri Christophe]

I remember watching a Diddy interview recently and they asked him about his son dating because his son has a girlfriend right now and they asked how he would feel about his son getting married one day



Puff shut that question down so fast




nikkas with resources aint playing that marriage shyt

 

[semicko82]

Yes,because whats the point in focusing on yourself,bettering yourself,becoming a success. Just to be out here spreading your seed and laying among demonic women you barely know on a nightly basis,just to get your dikk wet

This man actually said "I'm all for having families,but you don't have to get the courts involved in your business to have families". Does he not realize that the courts will be in your business when you end up having children out of wedlock and the relationship doesn't work out?yet he is advocating being sexually promiscuous among black people. This is horrible advice for successful blacks and poor blacks alike.

Marriage won't financially cripple a broke black man who has nothing like CHILD SUPPORT and children out of wedlock does FAR MORE commonly in our community. Most nikkas don't have it like that where they should be afraid of marriage,but they could get it like that if they went into relationships with women with a business plan in mind like real alphas do. Not thinking of strategies to get your dikk wetted by different randoms whos past and mental states you know little about,and may not find out about until its too late. Supposedly succesful nikkas taking chances with women they meet on plenty of fish and tinder calling themselves alphas and mocking men for not thinking with their dikks,this shyt is tragic all around. A huge problem in our community.

It's dudes with no purpose who are getting women pregnant and leaving them high and dry. We finally got a black men telling other black men to focus on their goals. He also promotes wearing a condom.

 

[surv2syn]

Removing yall bias as happily married men (which I salute),

Would you encourage marriage to young brehs the same way older women encourage younger women to get married?

why? Or why not?

Genuine question.

IMO, you are not really an adult (mentally) until around 28. for some people its younger, some its older. you have to be responsible. when you are young, there are a lot of influences. I got married at 26 had my first child at 28. I was an anomaly in my hood because everyone was having babies at 18-21. I did dodge a few bullets tho

you have to be ready for it to a degree because you arent going to be prepared fully and your first few years will be rocky. part of me was still in the streets for those first few years and you are always gonna interact with other women. I never looked at any other woman beyond anything physical though. I dont care how fine someone may have been, if they were like "you gonna leave your wife?"

I was like






















once you get into raising children, it will slow you down if you are a good parent because your time will be occupied if you have the right mindset. you wont have time to be in the streets like that. also if you are about your B.I. and getting them finances straight....that will add another level of maturity. even after I got married I went through the strip club phase, dropping like 5 stacks a night at least twice a week.

I dont recommend young brehs getting married. Enjoy your single life in your 20's. Date a variety of women. See whats out there. Learn women and their tendencies. Know that when you do choose one, cant be a thot. They have to have some sort of direction and level of intelligence. Not saying you cant find diamonds in the rough but my last girlfriend wasnt ready. She was into a lot of superficial stuff and in the streets more than I was so I had to dump her.

You will know when you are tired of all the bullshyt then you go and settle down. One caveat tho.....if I wasnt planning on having children then I wouldve never got married. I wanted a family but didnt want to be a "baby daddy" or have "baby momma drama" because for all you brehs that have baby momma's out there, I'mma say it like I tell my wife. She is lucky I didnt have one because THATS MINES FOREVER.....

even if she was the baby momma and we in separate relationships.....I'm still fukkin you because you gave me that seed so that connection will always be there even if we dont like each other. child support and dikk is a package deal

I recommend a good marriage age to be late 20's. young brehs just aint equipped mentally to deal with all the shyt like work, finances, side bytches, etc.....you need seasoning before taking a big step like that.

 

[surv2syn]

also, as far as I know, financial problems are still the #1 cause of divorce and not cheating.

my homie got divorced because him and his wife were polar opposites. he is a frugal nikka and she is very bad with finances. the last straw was when she pulled in the driveway with new BMW she just purchased without consulting with him about it.

 

[Henri Christophe]

also, as far as I know, financial problems are still the #1 cause of divorce and not cheating.

my homie got divorced because him and his wife were polar opposites. he is a frugal nikka and she is very bad with finances. the last straw was when she pulled in the driveway with new BMW she just purchased without consulting with him about it.

#GMB


A bytch gon have to propose to ME if she wanna get married.... And Ima still tell her ass no

 

[Benefited]

I remember watching a Diddy interview recently and they asked him about his son dating because his son has a girlfriend right now and they asked how he would feel about his son getting married one day



Puff shut that question down so fast




nikkas with resources aint playing that marriage shyt

So he makes a video shytting on marriage,and you think he is directing it to the Diddys of the world.?

Most nikkas ain't Diddy,and the ammount of child support they are likely to lose listening to this guy at face value,would be more harmful than anything they would lose in a potential divorce. I'll tell you right now that child support is more imminent if you are living this lifestyle he promotes,moreso than a divorce.

And one is more crippling to the average man in our community. Black men are being crippled and handicapped with child support payments,and stuck. Yet this guy is promoting families without being in a marriage

Theres simple methods to get out of having to give a woman half your shyt in a divorce,but when it comes to those child support checks?Ain't no way around it.

 

[surv2syn]

#GMB


A bytch gon have to propose to ME if she wanna get married.... And Ima still tell her ass no

yeah breh, marriage aint for everyone. its just not. I am just saying for those thinkin about it, dont let the dude on the video deter you because he aint doing it right and probably never was. if he think all married nikkas is bytch nikkas, cant imagine the amount of L's he has taken to this point to even have that mindset.

 

[semicko82]

Another statistic that always raised red flags with me was that 70% of women ask for a divorce.

It's a cold game indeed

 

[surv2syn]

So he makes a video shytting on marriage,and you think he is directing it to the Diddys of the world.?

Most nikkas ain't Diddy,and the ammount of child support they are likely to lose listening to this guy at face value,would be more harmful than anything they would lose in a potential divorce. I'll tell you right now that child support is more imminent if you are living this lifestyle he promotes,moreso than a divorce.

And one is more crippling to the average man in our community. Black men are being crippled and handicapped with child support payments,and stuck. Yet this guy is promoting families without being in a marriage

Theres simple methods to get out of having to give a woman half your shyt in a divorce,but when it comes to those child support checks?Ain't no way around it.

breh, I told my wife if we ever split, either we gone be roommates or I will take full custody......your choice. my children damn near adults now and I have always been in the house. like you said, that child support shyt is crippling. nikkas out here tryna maintain two and three households.

 

[surv2syn]

Another statistic that always raised red flags with me was that 70% of women ask for a divorce.

It's a cold game indeed

a woman will NEVER ask for a divorce if you are a REAL MAN. NEVER. if you are taking care of the finances, are a good parent, and the bedroom is straight....there is almost no chance of someone asking for a divorce unless its some weak bytch that never wanted you in the first place and values random dikk over a solid mental and physical connection. also most people I know dont do divorces unless its years later. nobody in a rush to give their money to the cac.

 

[Henri Christophe]

So he makes a video shytting on marriage,and you think he is directing it to the Diddys of the world.?

Most nikkas ain't Diddy,and the ammount of child support they are likely to lose listening to this guy at face value,would be more harmful than anything they would lose in a potential divorce. I'll tell you right now that child support is more definite if you are living this lifestyle he promotes,moreso than a marriage.

And one is more crippling to the average man in our community. Black men are being crippled and handicapped with child support payments,and stuck. Yet this guy is promoting families without being in a marriage

Theres simple methods to get out of having to give a woman half your shyt in a divorce,but when it comes to those child support checks?Ain't no way around it.

Removing your bias as a happily married man (which I salute),

Why would you tell brehs with resources to tie themself to a woman and the courts? What are the benefits of that? And forget children for a second. This is about protecting your finances. So a breh who is trying to protect his finances isn't going to have baby mama's anyway.


Genuine question though.

I actually support marriage when it comes to a couple thats grinding together and starting from zero together.... Alot of my family members did it that way... The right way.

But why should a young breh with resources enter a marriage in 2018? Whats the benefits? And how do they outweigh the cons?

If you cant find a woman on your level (considering MOST successful brehs marry wayyyyy below their level. Thats why the courts rape them.) why should you settle down and put your financial future on the line?

 

[West Coast Avenger]

.....clown goes over the top with it to prove his point....shyt is pathetic...for those of you who listen to this nikka........good luck!....