Why I Don’t Respect Married Men

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breh, I told my wife if we ever split, either we gone be roommates or I will take full custody......your choice. :birdman: my children damn near adults now and I have always been in the house. like you said, that child support shyt is crippling. nikkas out here tryna maintain two and three households. :dead:

Exactly,and people wonder why these succesful women like Beyonce and Hillary Clinton stay with their husbands after infedility. In many cases its because their men are about their business,and they as well are business women.

99% of men in relationships don't sit the women they are with down, and tell them their business plan for the relationship. Then wonder why the woman can only see it from the emotional side,making emotional decisions that fukk up the business. Obviously thats the nature of women,but women who have a bigger picture to look at,and feel like they play an important part in it,have more to think about.
 

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Removing your bias as a happily married man (which I salute),

Would you encourage marriage to young brehs the same way older women encourage younger women to get married?

Not broke struggling brehs... Would u encourage marriage to young brehs with resources?

why? Or why not?

Genuine question.
I would recommend young brehs do to what they feel is right. I'm not going to tell a breh who doesn't want to get married to get married. But if a breh does want to get married, I'll tell him marriage is a partnership, and while love and attraction are important... you have to look for a wife kind of like you would look for a business partner. A lot of brehs choose a wife purely off emotion or social pressure. Get married to young. Ignore the red flags. Etc. Some brehs will do everything right and still get burned... but most who do don't :manny:
 

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I would recommend young brehs do to what they feel is right. I'm not going to tell a breh who doesn't want to get married to get married. But if a breh does want to get married, I'll tell him marriage is a partnership, and while love and attraction are important... you have to look for a wife kind of like you would look for a business partner. A lot of brehs choose a wife purely off emotion or social pressure. Get married to young. Ignore the red flags. Etc. Some brehs will do everything right and still get burned... but most who do don't :manny:



Salute! I appreciate the answer breh
 

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a woman will NEVER ask for a divorce if you are a REAL MAN. NEVER. if you are taking care of the finances, are a good parent, and the bedroom is straight....there is almost no chance of someone asking for a divorce unless its some weak bytch that never wanted you in the first place and values random dikk over a solid mental and physical connection. also most people I know dont do divorces unless its years later. nobody in a rush to give their money to the cac.

Enough with the clown shyt. If you wanna be a married beta male then cool. But stop spreading this false narrative about women. There's women married to men that have it all together and will still cheat just because they were "bored" ... Or "I don't get butterflies with my husband like I do with 'him' "

And aside from that, marriage is a stupid risk to begin with because it's all about "feelings" and "emotions." Two things that cloud your judgment that can change in an instant. Why would you jeopardize your earnings, future and health over something so frivilous as feelings? Especially when the only physical difference between marriage and a relationship is matching wedding bands.
 

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:picard:.....help?....doesnt sound bitter?.......you a subscriber to his channel aint you:wtb:
Breh just stop

You are helping hurt hoes that's just gonna run back to his pimp



Well there are people out here who are struggling at least he is trying to help. He doesn't sound bitter at all
No one is trying to help anyone :stopitslime:this is America:mjlol:
Gullible like that no wonder"you're struggling":francis:

And thanks for being honest
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Yall some pom pom waving 4 month pregnant from dikk riding ass nikkas:hhh:




I cant deal with a combative woman who feels she has a right to put her hands on me. I already told yall the story of me pushing one my exes thru a coffee table. I will break every tooth in a bytches mouth and do the time for it. Im sorry but not sorry dont even try that with me. I have a huge temper so I dont even allow that punch on the shoulder shyt with women. The only ex that tried me on any level almost needed a new nose and a new shoulder. Gladly shes out of my life and hers is going down the drain while I boss up.

Let me stop though, ive heard some horror stories of women hitting a man then tellin him “the cops wont beleive u”. Fellas, if u can , get away from a woman like this and never look back up. If u have no choice then defend urself. Ive heard stories of guys not wanting to hit a female and end up scarred for life. Break a bytch jaw if u have to.

And stop going after clearly crazy women brehs:aicmon:
Gay ass nikkas the lot of you:pacspit:probably AMS bytches and your bf has y'all on his street team
:whoo:hold up i might have stumbled into a gay street team
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QUOTE="CorporateTrapper, post: 27906740, member: 21961"]No.

I have a girlfriend and I got my mama. I aint sharing my pain with some nikkas.

LOL[/QUOTE]

I been in a relationship for years..... Im spoiled with p*ssy....[/B]

As a man in a relationship... I agree

Like I always say.... Women are wave riders and followers...... This bytch just riding a wave....

This why I'm in a relationship and leave these bytches alone.... .

I thought y'all were some bytch made nikkas waiting for someone to lie to you so you could sleep better about being a bytchmade nikka:patrice:

@CorporateTrapper why do you preface your women hating with
I have a gf :hubie::patrice:



This is why i call you fakkits errday:manny:
 

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Removing your bias as a happily married man (which I salute),

Why would you tell brehs with resources to tie themself to a woman and the courts? What are the benefits of that? And forget children for a second. This is about protecting your finances. So a breh who is trying to protect his finances isn't going to have baby mama's anyway.


Genuine question though.

I actually support marriage when it comes to a couple thats grinding together and starting from zero together.... Alot of my family members did it that way... The right way.

But why should a young breh with resources enter a marriage in 2018? Whats the benefits? And how do they outweigh the cons?

If you cant find a woman on your level (considering MOST successful brehs marry wayyyyy below their level. Thats why the courts rape them.) why should you settle down and put your financial future on the line?

Im not married and don't plan on getting married through the courts,only through ceremony,thats not my issue. I have just come to hate the mindstate he is instilling in young impressionable men. I used to think this same way,but I see it is detrimental to us as a people now. Marriage is far more constructive than the lifestyle he is promoting for black people as a whole.

Now stop and look at what you said here. Do you notice how you gave brehs who want to protect their finances the benefit of the doubt in saying they would be far to wise to have baby mamas:mjlol:? Yet you acknowledge they are not wise enough to marry women on their level financially or even close.

One of the problems is I think you are relating this to people in the top 1 percent,millionaire athletes,entertainers,billionaires. But the average succesful brehs should be able to find women of their succes level but choose not too. Black women are more likely to have college degrees and be succesful,AND are the least likely to marry outside of their race,so black men who are not of that 1% should have plenty to choose from.

So you CAN find a woman on your level if you aren't soley thinking with your dikk,and evolve outside of your usual circle. But even then that doesn't matter because back in the day men didn't marry women of the same education or success level.

So whether you choose to get married on paper or not,you should be looking to build a family and empire with one woman. The pros of having what I believe he called "reliable p*ssy" is that you aren't wasting your time creating strategies to chase unreliable p*ssy. Sure you can be alone like he said,but what male is going to do that forever?at some point you will be chasing p*ssy,and potentially putting yourself in risk situations,dealing with a bunch of different women you don't know. The other con is the likely child support when you are starting familys outside of marriage like he promotes and says is okay:snoop:. If marriage was the first step BEFORE children things would work out better. Once you build something together with someone,you are more likely to not want to tear that down,and thats a great enviornment to have children in.


Its the same way people have more respect for homes they own versus homes they are renting. When you are apart of something real,you are more likely to protect it,the woman included. Problem is many of these succesful men don't expect these lower level women to contribute anything to their empire but to look cute. If your woman actually contributes and really helped you build your guys empire,she will protect it as well. Men just have to do better at putting their women in a business state of mind when entering these relationships.
 

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Im not married and don't plan on getting married through the courts,only through ceremony,thats not my issue. I have just come to hate the mindstate he is instilling in young impressionable men. I used to think this same way,but I see it is detrimental to us as a people now. Marriage is far more constructive than the lifestyle he is promoting for black people as a whole.

Now stop and look at what you said here. Do you notice how you gave brehs who want to protect their finances the benefit of the doubt in saying they would be far to wise to have baby mamas:mjlol:? Yet you acknowledge they are not wise enough to marry women on their level financially or even close.

One of the problems is I think you are relating this to people in the top 1 percent,millionaire athletes,entertainers,billionaires. But the average succesful brehs should be able to find women of their succes level but choose not too. Black women are more likely to have college degrees and be succesful,AND are the least likely to marry outside of their race,so black men who are not of that 1% should have plenty to choose from.

So you CAN find a woman on your level if you aren't soley thinking with your dikk,and evolve outside of your usual circle. But even then that doesn't matter because back in the day men didn't marry women of the same education or success level.

So whether you choose to get married on paper or not,you should be looking to build a family and empire with one woman. The pros of having what I believe he called "reliable p*ssy" is that you aren't wasting your time creating strategies to chase unreliable p*ssy. Sure you can be alone like he said,but what male is going to do that forever?at some point you will be chasing p*ssy,and potentially putting yourself in risk situations,dealing with a bunch of different women you don't know. The other con is the likely child support when you are starting familys outside of marriage like he promotes and says is okay:snoop:. If marriage was the first step BEFORE children things would work out better. Once you build something together with someone,you are more likely to not want to tear that down,and thats a great enviornment to have children in.


Its the same way people have more respect for homes they own versus homes they are renting. When you are apart of something real,you are more likely to protect it,the woman included. Problem is many of these succesful men don't expect these lower level women to contribute anything to their empire but to look cute. If your woman actually contributes and really helped you build your guys empire,she will protect it as well. Men just have to do better at putting their women in a business state of mind when entering these relationships.

I appreciate your POV breh.


I dont think "finding a chick on your level" is as easy as you make it seem, but I respect your answer nonetheless
 

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Breh just stop

You are helping hurt hoes that's just gonna run back to his pimp




No one is trying to help anyone :stopitslime:this is America:mjlol:
Gullible like that no wonder"you're struggling":francis:

And thanks for being honest
@Hennessypapi @ItsGhost @CorporateTrapper
Yall some pom pom waving 4 month pregnant from dikk riding ass nikkas:hhh:





Gay ass nikkas the lot of you:pacspit:probably AMS bytches and your bf has y'all on his street team
:whoo:hold up i might have stumbled into a gay street team
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QUOTE="CorporateTrapper, post: 27906740, member: 21961"]No.

I have a girlfriend and I got my mama. I aint sharing my pain with some nikkas.

LOL



I thought y'all were some bytch made nikkas waiting for someone to lie to you so you could sleep better about being a bytchmade nikka:patrice:

@CorporateTrapper why do you preface your women hating with
I have a gf :hubie::patrice:



This is why i call you fakkits errday:manny:

:laff:
 
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Enough with the clown shyt. If you wanna be a married beta male then cool. But stop spreading this false narrative about women. There's women married to men that have it all together and will still cheat just because they were "bored" ... Or "I don't get butterflies with my husband like I do with 'him' "

And aside from that, marriage is a stupid risk to begin with because it's all about "feelings" and "emotions." Two things that cloud your judgment that can change in an instant. Why would you jeopardize your earnings, future and health over something so frivilous as feelings? Especially when the only physical difference between marriage and a relationship is matching wedding bands.

I dont wear wedding rings. I aint into cac tradition like that. :comeon: shyt you spoutin is superficial as fukk. many unmarried broke nikkas out here. :martin: I aint jeopardize my earnings. I stay winning financially and my wife is a part of that. :blessed:

aint nuthin about me beta lil homie :birdman:. this type of logic is why the black community in shambles in the first place. its much bigger than feelings and emotions those things can cloud a weak nikka's judgement so maybe you fit in that category. there is always exceptions to the rule lil nikka and I explained that by saying the bytch wouldve never gave a damn about you in the first place. if a woman is "bored" there is a reason behind that. my wife has her own career, I have mine, we have business together, we raise children. no time to be bored. maybe exception to the rule but aint shyt wrong over this way pleighboi.

like you really out here worrying about losing finances due to marriage? :what: losing your health? :gucci:

meanwhile we as black men out here being emasculated every day in a myriad of ways by colonization, oppression, etc...from these cacs :wow:

so if thats your game, going around proclaiming you some alpha male cuz you aint married then :hubie: if being an alpha male means you just a nikka out here living it up with no foundation or someone truly holding you down then :hubie: do you my nikka.
 

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I appreciate your POV breh.


I dont think "finding a chick on your level" is as easy as you make it seem, but I respect your answer nonetheless

Maybe not,but its not even neccesarry in my belief. As women are so flexible and able to be molded by the right man,especially a man that they love. Men will spend time tirelessly training woman after woman to fit his sexual needs,and have her learn new sex tricks. But we don't take time to sit them down and educate them on our business plan and what they can do to add to to the relationship to help us remain stable,and become succesful as couple:martin:. Men are spending hours on end trying to talk women into all kind of shyt right now as we speak,majority of the time its things of a demonic nature and not constructive.

These things are the job of the man.Men are the captain of the ship
 

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I would recommend young brehs do to what they feel is right. I'm not going to tell a breh who doesn't want to get married to get married. But if a breh does want to get married, I'll tell him marriage is a partnership, and while love and attraction are important... you have to look for a wife kind of like you would look for a business partner. A lot of brehs choose a wife purely off emotion or social pressure. Get married to young. Ignore the red flags. Etc. Some brehs will do everything right and still get burned... but most who do don't :manny:

church on these nikkas :ohlawd:
 

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He’s dead serious too...
Its always been weird to me how these single alpha male red pill nikkas are always so angry

You'd think nikkas swimming in p*ssy and free from the shackles of marriage would be happy, upbeat and carefree

This nikka just broke his 100th keyboard with that manifesto :picard:
 

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let me also say that part of the complexity of this issue is you have liberals on one side fukkin shyt up, then you have women with poor education and values on the other side. its all an after effect of colonization and not being able to adhere to our own culture.

the average woman that is rooted in something like fundamental American tradition, like Christianity for instance is gonna follow the white laws. they aint gettin married without paperwork because that is legally binding. so in theory you cant do what you want and get caught out there without repercussions in the legal system. the average man is so blinded by the physical appearance and sex that they easily fall into this trap. once a child is born its a wrap. men arent trying to commit because they still want to do whatever they want to do.

on another note, yall know how many Middle Easterners come to the U.S., like dudes 40-50 plus and introduce young black women 20-30 to Islam then have them as multiple co-wives? just so they can raw up some young p*ssy? I dont see this happening in the white community.

I am not here advocating for marriage, just saying dont follow somebody that says you are less of a man if you are. most ridiculous shyt I prob heard in some time.
 
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