Im not married and don't plan on getting married through the courts,only through ceremony,thats not my issue. I have just come to hate the mindstate he is instilling in young impressionable men. I used to think this same way,but I see it is detrimental to us as a people now. Marriage is far more constructive than the lifestyle he is promoting for black people as a whole.
Now stop and look at what you said here. Do you notice how you gave brehs who want to protect their finances the benefit of the doubt in saying they would be far to wise to have baby mamas

? Yet you acknowledge they are not wise enough to marry women on their level financially or even close.
One of the problems is I think you are relating this to people in the top 1 percent,millionaire athletes,entertainers,billionaires. But the average succesful brehs should be able to find women of their succes level but choose not too. Black women are more likely to have college degrees and be succesful,AND are the least likely to marry outside of their race,so black men who are not of that 1% should have plenty to choose from.
So you CAN find a woman on your level if you aren't soley thinking with your dikk,and evolve outside of your usual circle. But even then that doesn't matter because back in the day men didn't marry women of the same education or success level.
So whether you choose to get married on paper or not,you should be looking to build a family and empire with one woman. The pros of having what I believe he called "reliable p*ssy" is that you aren't wasting your time creating strategies to chase unreliable p*ssy. Sure you can be alone like he said,but what male is going to do that forever?at some point you will be chasing p*ssy,and potentially putting yourself in risk situations,dealing with a bunch of different women you don't know. The other con is the likely child support when you are starting familys outside of marriage like he promotes and says is okay

. If marriage was the first step BEFORE children things would work out better. Once you build something together with someone,you are more likely to not want to tear that down,and thats a great enviornment to have children in.
Its the same way people have more respect for homes they own versus homes they are renting. When you are apart of something real,you are more likely to protect it,the woman included. Problem is many of these succesful men don't expect these lower level women to contribute anything to their empire but to look cute. If your woman actually contributes and really helped you build your guys empire,she will protect it as well. Men just have to do better at putting their women in a business state of mind when entering these relationships.