Why I Don’t Respect Married Men

[Buckeye Fever]

Breh me and my wife watch this clown ass nikka all the time. We die laughing from his ignorance. Some of the shyt he say is real, women hate thirsty nikkas. But a majority of the shyt he says is cringe worthy as fukk

Tried to rep you but they told me slow down.

 

[Serious]

#GMB


A bytch gon have to propose to ME if she wanna get married.... And Ima still tell her ass no

Why she gotta be a bytch

 

[Buckeye Fever]

TheColi found a new YouTube channel to stan

You think I didn't hit that subscribe button?

 

[keon]

me and my wife been with each other for 14 yrs, and have known each other for 18 yrs, but we've only been married for 3 yrs.

she came at me with the ultimatums years prior to that but i didnt budge because even though i did want to get married, i wasn't doing it until I felt I was ready, not only from a emotional point of view, but from a financial one as well.

as for the video, i still agree with most of what dude is saying, so all i can say really is if you do decide to get married, don't rush it and make sure you put some real time in with that woman, fukk all that being in a relationship for 2-3 yrs and then marrying her, especially if she wasn't around before you were financially stable.

 

[Serious]

I notice female relatives always give that type of advice but the male relatives I grew up around always gave me some simp like advice. Nothing about investing money or pursuing an education, but they will tell me to marry a single mom with 3 kids because she can cook and she's a Christian.

Ahahahahahaha


nikka what, what kind of people are telling you this

 

[Azul]

He tells men to work on themselves on most videos

It's dudes with no purpose who are getting women pregnant and leaving them high and dry. We finally got a black men telling other black men to focus on their goals. He also promotes wearing a condom.

Finally?

And you need a dude on YouTube to tell you that?

 

[Henri Christophe]

When you grow up being dominated by a woman your whole life,and see her operate unchecked it phsycologically makes that feel more normal. As oppose to seeing your mother maybe run you as a kid,but seeing her demeanor switch around your father,and becoming submissive. This is also why its important to be in the same household with the mother of your children,your sons and daughters need to see the system of checks and balances in play.

Absolutely!!!!!

 

[surv2syn]

these seems somewhat contradictory,if you believe 40-50 year olds can teach young black women islam,and talk them into becoming sister wives. Than you should believe the average woman is not that rooted in tradition,and can be talked into getting married without paper work,or into signing a prenup along with her paperwork depending on how strong your stance is.

let me say this is not my belief but what I witnessed. I dont think they can randomly teach black women any more about Islam than they can learn for themselves...but young black women who are somewhat "woke" for lack of a better term get wooed by these men because they speak a little Arabic and can quote the Hadith. Knew a young sister in that situation and one of the sister wives was out there...and brought something back to the whole camp. fortunately it was curable. most black women have the stance that paperwork is insurance and this guy aint just gonna up and leave without paying...whatever the payment may be. women are vicious...but us men make them like that. its a weird dynamic. all I can say is the way we are in Western "civilized" cultures. the trust factor is just not there on either side. on the flip side of that, you have white women that it would take hell for them to ask for a divorce. stay at home moms, provided a decent to luxurious lifestyle...their culture is to be comfortable financially. most of them know what the guy is doing.

I know many dudes that been caught cheating. even know a breh who is married to a becky and she found out he was fukkin escorts and she confronted the escorts but didnt leave him. black women are wired differently...most of the shyt white women be doing, they just aint havin it.

 

[NoChillJones]

Removing yall bias as happily married men (which I salute),

Would you encourage marriage to young brehs the same way older women encourage younger women to get married?

why? Or why not?

Genuine question.

I say to each its own....marriage aint for everybody and no one should rush into it. I know for me I knew I had found the one that met my needs in life. However I proposed in year two and we married in year 7.....and we still going after 13 years together....not to say we are overly happy...we still got our issues like every other couple.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

nikkas in here already in they feelings


hit dogs holler

We’re/are your parents married?

 

[semicko82]

Ahahahahahaha


nikka what, what kind of people are telling you this

Most of the older males whether friends or family told me to some extent to put up with a woman's bs as long as you got a woman.

Male homie- you been talking to ole girl

Me- yea but I'm thinking about cutting her off she has 3 kids

Male homie- don't cut her off cause she'll take care of you, you'll be like a father to her kids. I bet she's not used to a good dude in her life like you

Me-

 

[SHO-NUFF]

He's not whining though.

by default, this means we in agreement in everything else I said.... I'll take that

 

[semicko82]

Finally?

And you need a dude on YouTube to tell you that?

I meant finally as in people are checking out someone with a positive message compared to the youtube beefs

 

[NoChillJones]

Actually I can keep company until 12.

Seriously though, other married men in this topic that dont agree with me have offered their opinion with sound logic and without petty name calling and emotional drivel. U literally argue and have the same talking points as females. Fam just bc u wifed up a reformed whore with a blown out p*ssy that u share lived happily ever after in ur tree house dont mean everyone can or wants to do that


Now I know ur sensitive ass is just gonna HAVE to answer to this.

Breh Every single time you quote me you talk about the same goofy ass shyt. Whats worse is your scared of p*ssy ass keeps insinuating that my wife( the mother of my children) is a hoe.
This is because I told you and others that every woman And man has a past and what any ma or woman did prior to getting in a solid relationship doesnt matter.
And because your redunadant ass couldnt handle the idea of a grown perspective from a adult you keep regressing to child like behavior with the same tired ass assumption.....look breh you a lame ass nikka.
What me and my wife do in our bedroom shouldnt concern you. My wife's past shouldnt concern you...not just because you dont know ne..but because as a grown ass man..you not supposed to care about wtf the next man is doing

But you consistently on this board prowl the women bashing threads...dapping ignorant ass nikkas who claim to beat women...or cheat on women..or spit on women..or genrally hate women...serioulsy nikka find a post like that and 9 times out of 10 your wierdo ass has dapped it.

The fukk is wrong with you? Were you absed as a child scared to smile they called you ugly? There is a physocological disconnect in there somewhere. Either you a homo...or a physcho which is it...

 

[surv2syn]

This is what fukks my head up..... There is clearly something wrong.

Every female old head I know, advocates for marriage heavily... They go hard on young girls. Women have no problem advocating for marriage.

But I NEVER met a married man who advocates for marriage.

They all say the same shyt... "Aye I aint gon tell you to get married... Do whats best for you"



Is there a married man anywhere on earth that advocates for marriage?


Something clearly is wrong

well, the system is fukked up. our culture is fukked up. so I just cant advocate for it because marriage years ago in the black community or in African cultures isnt the same. to me, I had to have a trade off. I wanted a family and a smart woman to be my partner in everything. the trade off was the trust I had to show her by being committed. sadly, in America, that trust comes in the form of paperwork. it has been reduced to an insurance policy. my wife has learned its all a game over the years but its hard to find someone to let you have sex with them whenever you want pump babies out of them, she hold you down, and then you dip out with the next woman with a pretty face, ass, or t*ts. thats not my spiel but rather what some woman has seen a girlfriend or relative go through.

see what some of you are missing is....for most of the success I have had in the past 20 years my wife has been a part of it. whether it was holding me down, taking care of business prospects, helping with the children, helping with my parents and my family who may have been sick or have disabilities, etc... if we ever split, she is deserving and well worthy to be taken care of financially. thats what we are talking about here it seems, right?

there is a difference in that and someone who is doing well financially and marries someone who isnt on that level, and then shyt dont work out and she takes you to the cleaners or vise versa. that wasnt a well though out situation.