Why I Don’t Respect Married Men

[MaxPain]

Aren't you 5'6
No wonder hoes fight you and you need help to be a man

What are u so mad about breh

Lol i dont get it

 

[surv2syn]

also, if you are fukkin someone on the regular, you have to check in, talk on the phone, spend time with, that is your wife. nikkas on the job be fukkin chicks and I tell them...you know that is your wife right? you at work and cant be caught talkin to another chick.

nothing magical happens when you sign those papers only legal situation changes. anyone you are that emotionally attached to you are married to them. also not sure why nikkas dont know that common law still exists in some states

 

[Serious]

I'm in a relationship and I love my girl.... But I hear what he's saying.


Times have changed..... I dont see myself getting married at all, especially if youre a successful black man.

I could understand a man and women who are building together and starting from zero, getting married.. Thats fine.

But if youre a successful man who doesnt need a woman.... I dont see why you would put your financial future on the line.


A divorce is nothing but a break up.... Why would u gamble with your finances and peace of mind, over a break up? Makes no sense.

There is NO benefit for a man to get married, unless you and your wife met when you were broke and built a foundation together.

If you built a foundation BY YOURSELF... why get married?

And I would love to settle down one day... But There is absolutely no point.

Women turn 18-25 every day.......

 

[Henri Christophe]

I am not here advocating for marriage,

This is what fukks my head up..... There is clearly something wrong.

Every female old head I know, advocates for marriage heavily... They go hard on young girls. Women have no problem advocating for marriage.

But I NEVER met a married man who advocates for marriage.

They all say the same shyt... "Aye I aint gon tell you to get married... Do whats best for you"



Is there a married man anywhere on earth that advocates for marriage?


Something clearly is wrong

 

[MikelArteta]

Another statistic that always raised red flags with me was that 70% of women ask for a divorce.

It's a cold game indeed

women end the majority of relationships because they are emotional and are wired differently.

A wife loses her job a man is like that sucks but we can make it work just got to cut some expenses till we get back on our feet.

A husband loses his job and its damn he's not a provider, i'm paying all the bills now he's not a real man resentment creeps in.

 

[MaxPain]

nikka you a basement dwelling loser. Still begging ya moms to have company over past 10 oclock. Keep it a buck...hell nikka you lucky she letting you keep her lights on past 12.....

Actually I can keep company until 12.

Seriously though, other married men in this topic that dont agree with me have offered their opinion with sound logic and without petty name calling and emotional drivel. U literally argue and have the same talking points as females. Fam just bc u wifed up a reformed whore with a blown out p*ssy that u share lived happily ever after in ur tree house dont mean everyone can or wants to do that


Now I know ur sensitive ass is just gonna HAVE to answer to this.

 

[surv2syn]

Men make fun of guys who don't have a stable or can't pull an eight. I thinks that's why everything seems so unbalanced

but EVERYTHING is about money in today's societies. men get money to get that p*ssy. women use p*ssy to get that money. its complex. but drug dealing, violent crimes, etc in the black community wouldnt be what it is if nikkas wasnt tryin to impress bytches. self esteem is crucial. I never needed to floss or join a group or gang to get women. be comfortable with your life and your position is the best advice I can give. the dudes that dont have a stable or pull an 8 will go out and do what is necessary to get it...in a lot of instances illegally.

 

[Serious]

nikkas gon come in here and start mentioning JayZ and Kanye as if their wives arent millionaire boss bytches....

The average successful breh is married to a woman wayyyyyyy below his level.

And women love bragging about "waiting for the right time" to divorce and secure the bag when you make a mistake.... Why would you put yourself in this situation? I work hard for what I got.... And I dont even got a whole lot..... I'll never understand why 6-7-8 figure nikkas get married everyday, knowing the marriage laws and knowing the divorce stats.....

My brother went through shyt, so i didnt have to,

Learned a lot about marriage, relationships, dealing with hoes and good women through him.....

If he didn't knock up a lazy leecher at 21, he'd be in a much better place than he is. There's no amount of money you can throw at the institution of marriage and having kids, that will make shyt go away. The government bleeds men dry. Not a day goes by that i dont about how lucky I've gotten to not knock anyone up.....


It truly is cheaper to keep her in a million instances.

I'm all about choosing better. #cbb

 

[semicko82]

but EVERYTHING is about money in today's societies. men get money to get that p*ssy. women use p*ssy to get that money. its complex. but drug dealing, violent crimes, etc in the black community wouldnt be what it is if nikkas wasnt tryin to impress bytches. self esteem is crucial. I never needed to floss or join a group or gang to get women. be comfortable with your life and your position is the best advice I can give. the dudes that dont have a stable or pull an 8 will go out and do what is necessary to get it...in a lot of instances illegally.

I agree but if you're broke and can pull women it seems like you can look down on a guy who is making paper

 

[MaxPain]

but EVERYTHING is about money in today's societies. men get money to get that p*ssy. women use p*ssy to get that money. its complex. but drug dealing, violent crimes, etc in the black community wouldnt be what it is if nikkas wasnt tryin to impress bytches. self esteem is crucial. I never needed to floss or join a group or gang to get women. be comfortable with your life and your position is the best advice I can give. the dudes that dont have a stable or pull an 8 will go out and do what is necessary to get it...in a lot of instances illegally.

The divorce industry is about money...as well as child support and alimony...imagine how much of that goes torward the state..

The government knows what they are doing, they are socially engineering it to the point marriage is useless for most men...

Marriage is still a beautiful thing and if u can get it done right then kudos, but most of us due to probability wont...

Funny thing is someone mentioned Jay Z and Beyonce, rich people still gettin married to double up their paper and pass on their legacies cuz they think like business partners...us regular brehs are being disencouraged daily not to due to the laws and so far its working...

 

[Benefited]

let me also say that part of the complexity of this issue is you have liberals on one side fukkin shyt up, then you have women with poor education and values on the other side. its all an after effect of colonization and not being able to adhere to our own culture.

the average woman that is rooted in something like fundamental American tradition, like Christianity for instance is gonna follow the white laws. they aint gettin married without paperwork because that is legally binding. so in theory you cant do what you want and get caught out there without repercussions in the legal system. the average man is so blinded by the physical appearance and sex that they easily fall into this trap. once a child is born its a wrap. men arent trying to commit because they still want to do whatever they want to do.

on another note, yall know how many Middle Easterners come to the U.S., like dudes 40-50 plus and introduce young black women 20-30 to Islam then have them as multiple co-wives? just so they can raw up some young p*ssy? I dont see this happening in the white community.

I am not here advocating for marriage, just saying dont follow somebody that says you are less of a man if you are. most ridiculous shyt I prob heard in some time.

these seems somewhat contradictory,if you believe 40-50 year olds can teach young black women islam,and talk them into becoming sister wives. Than you should believe the average woman is not that rooted in tradition,and can be talked into getting married without paper work,or into signing a prenup along with her paperwork depending on how strong your stance is.

Bigger problem to me is men are NOT strongly rooted,or grounded in any sort of belief system or moral code,and are just floating in the wind making decisions as they feel right,or simply because we don't think its important enough to argue about and we will deal with it later.

Many women are looking for guidance and a plan of any kind from men,and those Muslim brothers are offering it even if it may not be ideal for them.

This is more difficult for black men who haven't come up around other strong black male figures,mainly a father. When you grow up being dominated by a woman your whole life,and see her operate unchecked it phsycologically makes that feel more normal. As oppose to seeing your mother maybe run you as a kid,but seeing her demeanor switch around your father,and becoming submissive. This is also why its important to be in the same household with the mother of your children,your sons and daughters need to see the system of checks and balances in play. It will aid them in future relationships,males with fathers and daughters with good fathers simply have a better starting foundation. If those fathers are real mens men.

 

[Serious]

I would like to get married if I am having kids to set an example. My fear is divorce. Once you get married you have no leverage. You lose the house, the kids and almost everything.

I encounter divorced men with kids all the time, they just sound like defeated men.....

They're practically saying dont do it.

 

[Henri Christophe]

I knew something was wrong with marriage when I seen my mother go hard on my older sister to get married and she told me to take my time and play the field for as long as I can

Even women understand that men have the short end of the stick in marriage

 

[LebronsHairline]

lol at nikkas sayin he a clown he ignorant but nikkas is watching every single one of his videos, yall stuck and dont even kno it

 

[semicko82]

I knew something was wrong with marriage when I seen my mother go hard on my older sister to get married and she told me to take my time and play the field for as long as I can

Even women understand that men have the short end of the stick in marriage

I notice female relatives always give that type of advice but the male relatives I grew up around always gave me some simp like advice. Nothing about investing money or pursuing an education, but they will tell me to marry a single mom with 3 kids because she can cook and she's a Christian.