Why I Don’t Respect Married Men

Henri Christophe

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I hate nikkas like you.

The very first people black folks need to eradicate, even before racist cacs, in order for us to prosper as a community, is selfish pieces of shyt like this nikka right here and the nikka in the video.


:russ:

I dont give a fukk about you my nikka


I grind for my family, not bum ass nikkas on an internet forum.

Go ahead and "eradicate" nikkas all u want....:mjlol:


me and mine gon be fine.


Corny ass internet ass nikkas.
 

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nothing wrong with marriage. the problem is the legal system and issues on a personal level especially towards certain demographics. I dont see Mexicans having these same issues. Black American culture is the worst because most of it isnt our own and just a fukked up hodge podge of conflict and contradiction
I gotta stop u right there, this aint a black problem its an American problem..

Ive dated and been around Mexicans...and the breakdown of their family unit begins around the 2nd and 3rd gen in America.....they have alotta baby momma drama as well as single motherhood too...

Hell Im Dominican and watching a Dominican American family & Dominican family unit straight from the country is like night and day esp when it comes to values....

Its just that this issue affected black americans first...like many other social experiments in America...so its in a spotlight..

Its happening to white people too at alarming rates...hence the MRA Redpill MGTOW bullshyt...

This country breeds narcissism, individualism and consumerism....all of which aint conducive to a stable family unit...
 

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You automatically have no respect for a huge mass of individual because of his/her life choice that has no bearing on your life

Pretty judgmental and he's showing his hurt, that's not alpha male shyt, that's I'm hurt and I need a scapegoat
He says he's winning at life
in sickness and in health is a mutha :whew:

my brother died a few years ago, his wife held him down through a good solid 10 years of illness. during which time he got his Masters degree. he wouldve been in some fukkin home if it werent for her. she remarried, and I told dude you are getting one of the best women thats out there. I love her to death for how she stood by my brother. now my dad cant take care of himself but my stepmom holds him down. she could send him to a home and be done with his ass.

some of you need to also think....if you get old, have mental issues or get in an accident, have physical disabilities...who will hold you down? not saying that all women will but do right by them and they should reciprocate.
That's good your brother and father had strong women in their lives but that's not always the case
 

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I gotta stop u right there, this aint a black problem its an American problem..

Ive dated and been around Mexicans...and the breakdown of their family unit begins around the 2nd and 3rd gen in America.....they have alotta baby momma drama as well as single motherhood too...

Hell Im Dominican and watching a Dominican American family & Dominican family unit straight from the country is like night and day esp when it comes to values....

Its just that this issue affected black americans first...like many other social experiments in America...so its in a spotlight..

Its happening to white people too at alarming rates...hence the MRA Redpill MGTOW bullshyt...

This country breeds narcissism, individualism and consumerism....all of which aint conducive to a stable family unit...

agree to an extent, and I did say in a previous post Western Civilized cultures, not just America. yes, hits Blacks first and worst. put look at some shows like House of Cards, the Tyler Perry joint with Sanaa Lathan, and many others. this shyt is real when it comes to a lot of white Americans because of the economic disparity between them and Black Americans. white women are more apt to stay because of the financial situation whereas blacks only really have sex to rely on holding a relationship together if there are no other basic foundations. which is why many times once the sex wanes or the open cheating begins, the relationship is almost instantly beyond reconciliation.
 

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He says he's winning at life

That's good your brother and father had strong women in their lives but that's not always the case

its not, but it doesnt mean there arent woman out there with that capability. but the basis has to have a foundation that exceeds looks or money. you have to really know a person and figure out if you will even have a chance to be compatible.
 

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Exactly..

Don Cheadle been with current wife he just married for 25 years and he decided last year to married her

who said you cant? quote em. I never said that. I am just saying that shyt dont make you an alpha or the next man a beta. again, you are talkin semantics. all this shyt is a play on words. you are talking about a piece of paper when you say married right? if Cheadle was with his lady for 25 years, he was married. the paperwork just files it under the U.S. or whatever the governmental system you are in.
 

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Women like that are extremely rare. It sounds beautiful but it's almost a fairytale. Maybe 8% of women like that actually exist. Women leave you soon as the benefits stop. Plus, who's to say they not cheating still? Women realize it's easier to stay too.

I dont think it is rare in terms of the woman's qualities, again, we are talking about a complex situation. it depends on the individual and how the union is formed and built upon. every situation is different. like I didnt just marry the first person that gave me some ass or told me they loved me or I wouldve been married at 16. lol.

I was selectful and knew what I wanted. that doesnt mean it was a lock to work out, but through some rocky times and near separation/divorce, it only got stronger with time and now we are at the best place we have ever been and its been consistent for years now.

sn: I know someone who's husband got ill and could no longer have sex with her. she not leaving him, but he did tell her that it was ok if she were to go out and fulfill those needs he is no longer able to provide.
 

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shyt, married men with kids sound defeated.

I met this dude one time who had four daughters. He looked like he wanted to kill himself. :huhldup:

its hard, just imagine you go to work and you prob gotta deal with stress there, then you come home and your kids want their daddy time, your wife wants her husband time
 

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its hard, just imagine you go to work and you prob gotta deal with stress there, then you come home and your kids want their daddy time, your wife wants her husband time

yes, if you get home and your wife bytchin or actin nutty or out doing her own thing and you got ratchet kids doing wht they want to do. on the flipside, there are loving wives that lift your spirits and children that you are so proud of that every time you see them you know you did a good job raising them. there is no right or wrong, only different situations. too bad there are not more of the latter.
 

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Brehs who come across this comment.

Y'all say dawg in the video says women don't like thirsty men and I think we all can agree on that.

Y'all also say get your shyt together and women will approach.

But women rarely approach in real life(not thecoli fantasy)

Ad if your not thirsty and sit back for women to approach,but most never will,how y'all getting women then?:jbhmm:
 
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