Burned Verses
Superstar
Idk why nikkas in here think you can't have a lifelong relationship with someone without getting married.
I hate nikkas like you.
The very first people black folks need to eradicate, even before racist cacs, in order for us to prosper as a community, is selfish pieces of shyt like this nikka right here and the nikka in the video.

I gotta stop u right there, this aint a black problem its an American problem..nothing wrong with marriage. the problem is the legal system and issues on a personal level especially towards certain demographics. I dont see Mexicans having these same issues. Black American culture is the worst because most of it isnt our own and just a fukked up hodge podge of conflict and contradiction
He says he's winning at lifeYou automatically have no respect for a huge mass of individual because of his/her life choice that has no bearing on your life
Pretty judgmental and he's showing his hurt, that's not alpha male shyt, that's I'm hurt and I need a scapegoat
That's good your brother and father had strong women in their lives but that's not always the casein sickness and in health is a mutha
my brother died a few years ago, his wife held him down through a good solid 10 years of illness. during which time he got his Masters degree. he wouldve been in some fukkin home if it werent for her. she remarried, and I told dude you are getting one of the best women thats out there. I love her to death for how she stood by my brother. now my dad cant take care of himself but my stepmom holds him down. she could send him to a home and be done with his ass.
some of you need to also think....if you get old, have mental issues or get in an accident, have physical disabilities...who will hold you down? not saying that all women will but do right by them and they should reciprocate.
I gotta stop u right there, this aint a black problem its an American problem..
Ive dated and been around Mexicans...and the breakdown of their family unit begins around the 2nd and 3rd gen in America.....they have alotta baby momma drama as well as single motherhood too...
Hell Im Dominican and watching a Dominican American family & Dominican family unit straight from the country is like night and day esp when it comes to values....
Its just that this issue affected black americans first...like many other social experiments in America...so its in a spotlight..
Its happening to white people too at alarming rates...hence the MRA Redpill MGTOW bullshyt...
This country breeds narcissism, individualism and consumerism....all of which aint conducive to a stable family unit...
Idk why nikkas in here think you can't have a lifelong relationship with someone without getting married.
He says he's winning at life
That's good your brother and father had strong women in their lives but that's not always the case
Exactly..
Don Cheadle been with current wife he just married for 25 years and he decided last year to married her
Women like that are extremely rare. It sounds beautiful but it's almost a fairytale. Maybe 8% of women like that actually exist. Women leave you soon as the benefits stop. Plus, who's to say they not cheating still? Women realize it's easier to stay too.
I encounter divorced men with kids all the time, they just sound like defeated men.....
They're practically saying dont do it.

shyt, married men with kids sound defeated.
I met this dude one time who had four daughters. He looked like he wanted to kill himself.![]()
Finally?
And you need a dude on YouTube to tell you that?![]()
its hard, just imagine you go to work and you prob gotta deal with stress there, then you come home and your kids want their daddy time, your wife wants her husband time

Marriage is a business and was created exactly for the reasons your Dad decided to stay...also...marriage makes it easier to allocate assets to the correct children/offspring...it's purely business...