Why is being a hoe seen as empowering?

[Rawtid]

This is NOT true.

You're an example of an unmarried man speaking on something he has no knowledge of.

And if I'm going by this post, your knowledge of women period seems to be extremely limited.

considering I was born a women. Get a whole period monthly, experienced childbirth and the whole nine.

But you’re right, definitely Inexperienced. I also don’t mind having difficult conversations. I’ve been fat all my life, you think no one has ever told me?

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

@neotheflyingone i wasn’t thinking about the average man when I made that comment tbh.

Men are the suits and control the media therefore control the narrative.

Women by nature, follow men- even studs follow men (why are their hero’s always toxic? Lmaooo)

If you create a western culture where the men are reckless and apathetic towards women’s feelings, you eventually create women who take on the mentality of said men.

Cultures where men are reckless and apathetic towards women have existed for eons tho.



There were whole cultures who celebrated literal rape.



And even then, as far as the history we have, the women didn't take on the characteristics of those men.

Not sure exactly what you're trying to say here but on its face, it's false.

The problem is, men aren’t raised to express emotion like women so they look to us to be the light in the cave.

How is that supposed to happen if the woman is nullifying her emotions out of fear of vulnerability or looking stupid?

Again, using historical context, men throughout history have suppressed our emotions and it did not lead to women nullifying their emotions.

Shoot... if men being stoic would cause women to stop being so damn emotional, if this were true, I can promise you that many men would have went that we finally found the solution to women's foolishness.

but alas, your statement here isn't true either.

Now you have a generation of guarded individuals complaining about the excess femininity or lack thereof in the other.

Attraction needs polarity to thrive.

The more feminine the woman, the more masculine the man shows up and vice versa.

Sigh.

The media promotes the opposite of everything righteous.

I agree with this but not for the reasons that you stated. Of course men want our women to be feminine and yall want your men to be masculine.

Society has flipped that on its head but not for the reasons that you stated.

Fact of the matter is that some of what you're pushing as the solution is actually the problem.

You want men to be more emotional. This is the message that the media promotes, that men should be soft and should be coddled and that its okay to be weak.

Thats what leads to these feminized dudes that don't attract women. Why? Because they are too much like women, and as you said, the lack of polarity causes a rift.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

considering I was born a women. Get a whole period monthly, experienced childbirth and the whole nine.

But you’re right, definitely Inexperienced. I also don’t mind having difficult conversations. I’ve been fat all my life, you think no one has ever told me?

Damn i thought you was a dude all this time.



But if you want to continue, cool



So you feel that you're fat because a man hasn't given you a reason to lose weight?

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

All of this back and forth philosophizing because no one wants to do what the Good Book has laid out.

Men and women need to stay virgins until they are married.

Learn how to communicate in relationships.

Healthy sex () whatever that is, sexual promiscuity has NEVER benefited ANY society.

Sounds like humans are mad because chickens are coming home to roost as a result of their disobedience and over consumption of non marital sex and the consequences that follows.

 

[Day_Walker]

Being able to do something that was traditionally limited to men, and in demand men at that is viewed as empowering. Being able to do anything that looks like domination of a man is viewed as empowering now.

It shouldn't be. Not because racking up a crazy body count is putrid, but because its actually pretty effortless as a woman to be a hoe. It's actually harder not to be a hoe, than being a hoe.

Your first paragraph made me think but i was coming up with responses in my head and you answered in the second paragraph.
Basically being a hoe is easy cause you will ALWAYS find a man willing to fuk no matter what you look like.
As a man unless you're very good looking you gotta jump through hoops cause any decent looking woman has got options from multiple other simps.
Seeing how the world is evolving scares the fukk out of me for my niece and daughter. Will have to get the wife to have a honest talk to them both.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

No clue

I dont complain tho.... If they feel powerful by sucking my dikk and swallowing my nut.... then I'm all for it.

Tryna control women’s sexual activity sounds like some cac shyt. Let em all be free

Spoiler

but when they turn around and wanna be the housewife

 

[Henri Christophe]

but when they turn around and wanna be the housewife

facts.



fukk all that

 

[010101]

free them all

just keep it clean for me to get mine

ha

*

 

[Speaking Womanese]

@neotheflyingone omg.

The constant complaint women have towards men is that they’re emotionally unavailable/struggle to express emotion.

Men consistently complain that women are too masculine in their approach these days.

Neither party wants to compromise.

Alas, there is a communication problem.

We have no idea what would’ve happened if men had shown more emotion historically because women barely had the right to voice an opinion back then.

History is written by the victors.

In reference to men in general, society pushes a specific demographic of men as weak.

They highlight the successes of toxic men whist shining a negative light on the flaws of the average man (like dad’s on sitcoms).

Stable men are depicted as weak and henpecked and toxic (straight) men are depicted as unapologetic masculinity.

 

[Neuromancer]

Expressing authentic emotion is the easiest way to build a bond yet no one wants to do it out of fear of looking weak to the other party.

I’ll give you an example of the subtle power women have over men when it comes to this.

My uncle does security.

6’4, big, long locs, abysmal temper.

He was with his partner walking out of the train station and some drunk white rugby players intentionally barged into him.

They’re 20 deep; he’s solo.

They get into it and he takes off his vest like he’s ready to take on all 20 cacs.

His partner walks up to him, puts her hand on his chest and says, “I know this is important to you, I know you’re pent up right now, but I NEED YOU to come home with me tonight.”

He looks at her, looks at them, looks back at her and says, “let’s go.”

Sounds basic right?

Now imagine how many lives would’ve been in prison or a casket had she encouraged him to give in to his ego in that moment?

Women’s power rests in our ability to show vulnerability. Men’s rests in leadership.

We have issues when we forget this.

But why have we forgotten it? Who does it benefit that we did? Most dudes think if they don't fight their woman will think less of them. I assume women think that if they intervene their man will think they're a nag.( I could be wrong.)

 

[Neuromancer]

unapologetic masculinity.

Could you define this?

 

[Roid Jones]

Because the ability to control men with sex is seen as empowering

 

[KingFreeman]

If an impressionable young lady came to the locker room and jbo would she not think thats the way to power over yall?

Yall need to read this quote again. Here is the answer to the question. Now as far as people being in control of their own bodies and sexuality (to a reasonable extent) society (Men) have created safety nets and encouragement for women to do what they do because it promotes capitalism. (Men buy, have their assets divided, companies and the state benefit.)

In turn as a result, women that are able to use their sexuality to their advantage freely can wield power in pretty much any circle as long as it lasts because the average man is weak and biology/society is strong.

The average woman can do whatever she wants sexually within her rights, with the big difference being now it can be broadcasted to an unlimited amount of people and odds are high it will have no negative effect on her getting married/securing some type of long term security (end goal for most women).

Could go on further but yall get it.

 

[Neuromancer]

The constant complaint women have towards men is that they’re emotionally unavailable/struggle to express emotion.

I think men never did this based on fear of looking weak. We just don't have the same leeway women do. There are a number of stories or women call men bytches when they vent their emotions or losing interest.

 

[KingFreeman]

To add on also, if yall are focused on having a long term relationship with a woman (marriage or not) for the sake of having a maintaining kids (the only reason you should logically), within at least two years of the dating phase you should have the decision.

And before that, you will most likely know what box she stands in after a couple of conversations and meeting her peoples. Sounds confusing and like an oxymoron, but it makes sense.