Why is being a hoe seen as empowering?

[Blessings]

At the end of the day it benefits us....minimal effort->can smash when I want

 

[Wiseborn]

Low key women really like sex. The average chick isn't into sports or working out for the sake of working out a certainly not trying to get "diesel" Sex is the biggest physical activity most women do

 

[Wiseborn]

Because men spent thousands of years making a big deal out of something that all humans do, for 1/2 of the world’s population b/c they have a scarcity mindset when it comes to p*ssy and other weird hang ups.

The whore/Madonna complex, the silly ideas men believe about female sexuality, the way they tried to lock women down and shame them to the point that a lotta chicks barely know where their clit is.

When you grow with your own body as a woman and realize it’s all just hang ups that men and society have about female sexuality projected onto to you, you become healthy and well adjusted and learn who you are sexually. That takes time and growth.

Women have to slug off years of conditioning and bro babble that tries to drag them in the direction of being huge sluts and sexually permissive

or

Slut-shamed holier-than-thou prudes.

Im so glad my parents weren’t weirdos about sex growing up.

I was taught that sex is beautiful. That I have the gift of life in my body, so if I act on my hormones, I need to protect myself and also be sure of who I’m with. I thank god for them everyday.

There are some chicks who internalized either extreme of the fukkery female sexuality spectrum and they either out there getting trains ran on them for “empowerment” or they can’t even open up with their partners because they been so henpecked about sex that they think it dirty.

Doesn’t help that some men will judge even their partners if they wanna be freaky b/c they think they supposed to do kinky nasty stuff with side chicks and boring shyt with wives.

Imagine how fukked up that is. It’s just a big ole mess. And until we learn how to have healthier attitudes towards female sexuality as a society, the fukkery will continue.

The Maddona/Whore thing works because of what you're saying. Most women want to be taken care of by a Man and or Men.

A nikka can be non judgemental about a woman's past but there will always be a comparison between Men and usually for a lot of women the dude that married them doesn't compare to some random that had them in the rotation.

For Men unless she's absolutely wack in bed that's usually barely in the realm of reasons why a dude wifed a chick as opposed to another chick.

With women having jobs and a certain level of affluence then sex and status is the only reason why she'd marry a dude (I'm leaving out Love because if it's love the idea that either one could do better wouldn't be thought of) The problem is the best dudes is seen as desirable to all women thus women being rotated by fly nikkas.

nikkas could love thick IG models and end up marrying a skinnie minnie. It's wierd for a dude to think that any one girl was "the best sex they ever had" because it's subjective and it has a lot to do with desire and in the moment feelings.

 

[Wiseborn]

This some shyt that is nightmare inducing. Imagine waiting and thinking you’ll be able to let your freak flag fly with your partner, only to find he on this type of bullshyt.

So you can’t even get fukked right by the person society told you is the only person that should fukk you.
And while you trying to hold on to that nonsense for his fragile sensibilities and you not even getting satisfied, he’s getting it in with a whole nother chick.
All b/c he got some fukked idea of what “innocent and pure” women are supposed to act like sexually…
That shyt sounds awful.
Not to mention how a lot of these dudes treat side hoes better than the wives they married.
So you passing up orgasms and sexual satisfaction to appease flawed morality of somebody who cheatin on you with the exact type of person they told you NOT to be?!

Cold world.
Women need to just learn the art of discernment and how to stop giving a fukk about the boxes people wanna put them in.

You ain’t gotta suck dikk for approval b/c that ain’t empowerment. But you ain’t evil or a slut if you explore your sexuality as well. Just be safe, be responsible and enjoy yourself and be in control of your emotional health while doing so. That’s it.

I think if status wasn't so important to women women would sort themselves differently.

In every community there's "hoe" that's unapologetic about it. Not to mention a women "of easy virtue" can leave her community and move to another and no one would be the wiser. They problem is women care about how women look to other women. 99% of dudes got their first piece of ass and got trained on what a girl likes by either a young girl who "hooks dudes up" Or by the Ms. Parker that get a pass for being a pedophile. The Miss Parker lady doesn't really get talked about like the young chippie does though.

 

[HarlemHottie]

I dont think its necessarily about a 2 parent household. I think if your father is weak, even if hes in the house you're hitting the streets. Maybe not as fast as the single parent girl but she will succumb to it pretty easily.

Im speaking to the cultural shift that created current conditions. A lot has to change underground, within the very psyche of a society, to cause such a big shift so quickly.

I posit that a dearth of fathers jumpstarted current trends by making the girls susceptible. Third wave feminism did the rest. I say all this with the understanding that it was purposefully done, mind you.

we are not going to do this single parent non sense. your point also brings up AGAIN, that men stunt the growth of women.

You can't say "THEY" in reference to young girl as if they are a single party. Somebody is fukking this girls, and alot of times its older men.

But please ,stop this two parent household shyt. It does not matter. If you pretty, you are getting introduced to dikk early on . nikkas is gonna try to bust big nuts in you from the jump.

Son, calm tf down. Would you like to see the studies?

 

[The Wall Is Undefeated!]

A key that can open any lock is great.

A lock that can be opened by any key is terrible.

I'll leave it at that.

 

[The Wall Is Undefeated!]

Empowererment. Strong independant woman. Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaassssssssssss queen!

Where it ends up for 95% of women

Women are less happier now than they were in the 1970s (and dare I say, pre 2nd wave feminism).

Sex and the City writer Candace Bushnell, 60, admits she regrets choosing a career over having children as she is now 'truly alone'



Any man or women that thinks that women being sluts is empowering is deluded.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

It's like women wanna be like men, but don't notice that a lot of men just stumbling in the meaningful connections department. We ain't doing no better out here.



Shout out to @Speaking Womanese for this.

What’s ultimately loss is most men aren’t getting an abundance of sex. I wish I was not one of them that got an abundance of sex because it affects real relationships.

 

[jwonder]

Women not needing men leads to less cooperation, more individualism, more "independence" and more consumerism.

Deep down, women intuitively know it doesn't benefit them so the dream is sold to them as "get your money, have fun, have your hoe phase in your 20s and at 27 once it's out of your system, find a man to settle down, get married, have kids, buy the house, the car, the yearly vacation and the weekly brunches". They all feel like they can time the market so to speak. Every one thinks they are masters of the game not realizing we are all students of the game...

Yeah I still don't understand why dudes get married especially in these times. A lot of these birds turn into Nuns once they find that sucker to marry. They not sucking and fukking their husbands like they did the men before them.

 

[jwonder]

I'm sayin!!! No sex until marriage so you can have a freaky ass happily ever after. Mfs be in relationships for 6 years, engaged for 5, and 2 years into the marriage, sexless af!! Yall did too much pre-marriage fukking and now you bored.

I absolutely agree with the bold!! Be the type of woman you want and need to be, based on your life and circumstances. And if you want to gobble knob, go ahead because it's men that will eat stripper ass fresh off the pole. LOL not saying do it because men do it, but just don't give a fukk like they do and you'll be fine.

You'd be a damn fool to get married, but even more dumb to not have sex first. What if the p*ssy is utter trash?

A lot of times if you date all those years and don't get married the relationship continues. It's something about when women get married they like to control the sex. It has nothing to do with being bored with sex. It's more about control. They typically don't do it during dating because it's so easy to leave. It's much harder to get out of a marriage. I can't tell you how many times I knew or heard of people dating for years, but soon as they got married and all went to shyt and they were divorced shortly afterwards.

 

[SupremexKing]

Women don't have the same avenues nor permission to explore their sexuality, although MOST human beings are generally sexual. Societal "norms" have made it so any time a woman expresses herself sexually via promiscuity, the same way men do, she's some how the problem and not trite ass society. There are no "healthy" ways to figure out sex, especially if you don't desire a relationship or choose to use sex as a way to determine if a person is worthy of commitment. This is a human being issue, not one for a specific gender.

Men are perfectly empowered being hoes, so I see why some women may want that freedom for themselves.

nikkas be falling for this hoe babble still lol

 

[Ahadi]

Cause it’s the only leverage they have

 

[Mowgli]

It's like women wanna be like men, but don't notice that a lot of men just stumbling in the meaningful connections department. We ain't doing no better out here.



Shout out to @Speaking Womanese for this.

It's the woman's default nature when men don't check them with rules and standards

 

[Turbulent]

Yeah I still don't understand why dudes get married especially in these times. A lot of these birds turn into Nuns once they find that sucker to marry. They not sucking and fukking their husbands like they did the men before them.

i think men get married out of guilt sometimes. Guys end up in a position where a woman put in work for years, put in time with no guarantees cause she was just down. You don't owe her anything technically but sometimes how much a man put a woman through can weigh on his soul. And the more time passes, the more guilt because either you drop her and you hurt her, or you keep the status quo knowing deep down you don't want to get married making her put in kore time and so on. Eventually the pressure on your soul is too much so you try to make things right cause she's BEEN down for your cause. But deep down it doesn't feel right. You're in a position where you either play yourself or let her play herself. Your inner simp wants to save her from herself...all in the game, now she knows your weakness, end up getting married, 2 kids later she knows your stuck and put in too much to leave, tables turned. Payback time for all the shyt you put her through. Starts with less sex, less head, more testing...

Worst part is, most of it is unconscious on their part. It's not like they have an evil plan. Just the natural progression of things.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Feminism and the media normalized it thats why.