Why is having female friends looked down upon on the coli?

[Street Knowledge]

The problem is men often confuse female acquaintances with actually being friends IMO. You don't have lots of female "friends", what you have is many women that you are cool with.

 

[Londilon]

I think it's because most men do not talk to women they wouldn't fukk unless they are close family or friends of family.

After asking a woman for a more physical relationship and gets rejected, a man doesn't want to be reminded of the L so he cuts all contact and moves on.

The woman extends just friends (pretending this is a kind jester) but in a way that's selfish because the woman will continue to flirt and use the man she won't fukk as a emotional tampon if the man accepts this friendship he didn't want in the first place.

 

[Londilon]

I don't know any stright nikka that thinks:

"I want this girls number because she can be a good friend"

Everytime a nikka has a female friend it's either his ex, a girl he curved, or the girl curved him.

 

[NewWaveEra]

You say this as if I legitimately care about your opinion. No offense. Focus on yourself and not others. Your life will be more gratifying because of it.

It's nothing personal. I just want to discuss your point - with everbyody and not just with you. That's the sense of a public message board.

 

[InDePickWest]

And this is where we turn the tables.

How many other women think like this? A lot. I generally stay away from women who usually have gay men around them like ornaments and for two reasons:

1.) Most females usually have gay friends to help address their own insecurities and/or failings dealing with straight men and need some type of reassurance that cannot be given from real dudes or girlfriends . I don't have time for such extreme frailties in a personality and I don't want the risk of there being a "subversive" mouth in her ear via her jealous man-pet.

2.) This reinforces the negative connotation that comes with men being too close of friends with women. I rather not be looked at as possibly being or on some lonely hearts shyt. I'm fairly aggressive and basically say what I feel up front..my time is my most valuable asset, I'm not gonna play games with a woman. You not feeling me? Cool. On to the next one, not going to waste my time being the cool side of the pillow for you. Funnily enough, after cutting a few off...they actually try to slide back in..my current relationship started off this way.

I have no idea what you just said. I dont hang out with just any gay guy, alot of them are too chatty/try to compete with women. Last fight I was in I knocked the shyt outta a gay friend when I caught him for talking my personal shyt to people. The gay friends I have are like the female ones..no bullshyt, dont try to compete with women, arent out there like that. I also hate the fact you said gay dudes arent real dudes. The gay guys I know know more about manhood than any of these pants saggin, woman hating, interchangeable fakkits out here.