Why is having female friends looked down upon on the coli?

[Tenchi Ryu]

There is nothing wrong with having female friends.

There is something wrong with having female friends that all share the commonality of curving you at some point.

Exactly and folks act oblivious to this shyt as if the common majority of male to female interaction isn't at some point attraction from at least one side. That's why the general rule is no friends, cause its very likely one is plotting for more.

Friends with no attraction is the exception, not the rule. Now being acquaintances and shyt is all cool. But we talking about actual close, hang out at the crib, sometimes spend the night on the couch friends.

 

[1 other person]

that's the basis of dysfunctional man/woman relationships.

Most people end up settling with one main person for the rest of their lives whether they get officially married or not. How would you feel if you were married or in a serious relationship and your s/o says that they are going out with one of their 'friends'. There is no real such thing when it comes to the opposite sex.

 

[Unknown Poster]

There is nothing wrong with having female friends.

There is something wrong with having female friends that all share the commonality of curving you at some point.

My best female friends(before i stopped having them) came from time and place meetings where they were just dope people. The worst were girls who said no to a date, and gave me second-prize of friendship.

I agree. Nothing is cool about being mr friend zone.

Plus having women as friends leads to having women as more than friends ya smell me b?

Either way im done with this convo. Lol.

 

[Silkk]

a lot wrong with it.

that's the basis of dysfunctional man/woman relationships.

How is he wrong for not wanting to be platonic friends with someone he wants more from?

 

[Knuckles Red]

A lot of the men on the coli (not all) think that women are only good for sex so they think if you're doing anything with a woman (that you're not related to) that doesn't involve sex or the promise of sex, you're a "lame".

Ironically, these are the same men who probably have no sex life.

 

[Michael9100]

There has been a 60% increase in narcissism amongst people, mainly women... what that means is if you have a woman as a friend chances are she befriended you due to superficial reasons......

When was the last time you saw an unattractive man with female friends? Homeless man with female friends?.........

 

[42 Monks]

The best wingman is a wingwoman

but yal don't hear me tho

 

[TEH]

You think your great grandfather had female friends????????????


Like this is new

Like men have just started thinking like this ...

Men who want to hang with mostly women are mostly gay or feminine ... (never mind both are gay )...

but then again you all may be from another planet where this isn't true.

I have a few platonic female friends but you won't catch me hanging with them or being a part of some gossip group with them.

We say Hi, talk and Bye ...

 

[At30wecashout]

Exactly and folks act oblivious to this shyt as if the common majority of male to female interaction isn't at some point attraction from at least one side. That's why the general rule is no friends, cause its very likely one is plotting for more.

Friends with no attraction is the exception, not the rule. Now being acquaintances and shyt is all cool. But we talking about actual close, hang out at the crib, sometimes spend the night on the couch friends.

Trying to tell em, breh

Folks showing a lot of willful ignorance. Ask them a question: would they feel comfortable knowing that their s/o has someone else they vibe with 100% who they also find sexually attractive? If they think back, the last person they vibed with that way....they started a relationship with them

All it takes is a moment of weakness...a shared extended glance at a smoothie shop, or one night walking and its a little cold and for some reason, walking shoulder to shoulder with hands held feels extra special...long story short, fukk we as men look like hanging with someone we pine for? And what happens when she has another man, we still sick for her, and she has a bit less time for us because of him? Just supposed to watch that so she doesnt think I am only around to fukk? People get the shyt twisted. Us dudes wanna couple up with ladies, and yes, part of that is sex, but also emotional intimacy that you really cant get as a friend.

Coli be on some bullshyt, but in this case, no sane person is going to spend time with someone that they actively have to deny what they want from them. This aint high school.

 

[QuavoFlow]

brehs in here preachin that real shyt

 

[At30wecashout]

I agree. Nothing is cool about being mr friend zone.

Plus having women as friends leads to having women as more than friends ya smell me b?

Either way im done with this convo. Lol.

Yup. A couple times in my life, friendship turned into fukking, and more than a few some confession of attraction came from her later. Usually, it came down to us being good friends, and then she sees me with another girl....and you know how that can make a chick feelBut no one is gonna admit to this, cause its all virgins who dont engage in drama.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Trying to tell em, breh

Folks showing a lot of willful ignorance. Ask them a question: would they feel comfortable knowing that their s/o has someone else they vibe with 100% who they also find sexually attractive? If they think, they last person they vibed with that way....they started a relationship with them

All it takes is a moment of weakness...a shared extended glance at a smoothie shop, or one night walking and its a little cold and for some reason, walking shoulder to shoulder with hands held feels extra special...long story short, fukk we as men look like hanging with someone we pine for? And what happens when she has another man, we still sick for her, and she has a bit less time for us because of him? Just supposed to watch that so she doesnt think I am only around to fukk? People get the shyt twisted. Us dudes wanna couple up with ladies, and yes, part of that is sex, but also emotional intimacy that you really cant get as a friend.

Coli be on some bullshyt, but in this case, no sane person is going to spend time with someone that hey actively have to deny what they want from them. This aint high school.

Flames

 

[Astroslik]

female friends leverage you into getting more p*ssy though'

i thought real nikkas who get p*ssy knew this

 

[Matt504]

brehs in here preachin that real shyt

brehs in here preaching that insecure shyt that makes the idea of infidelity more desirable to women.

women are not possessions, if you're afraid of your woman sleeping with someone else, get with a woman you can trust but that's impossible because the issue doesn't lie with the woman it's you and your insecurity.

 

[MidniteJay]

Only lady friend I got is the sis.