Why Is It So Easy For Women To Move On?

[ORDER_66]

Yeah I agree with someone you. life is too short to put yourself out there for a chick to just betray you. My co-workers annoy me with that shyt talking about i'm single and i cant get a girl. these fukking fools. my life doesnt revolve around my dikk. I'm all about getting that paper first. I can get chicks if I wanted but after my last relationship, companionship is not even needed right now...

I'm about building my empire. sex and p*ssy will always be there, while they wanna be working for years for someone else, im taking my time building the blocks so I can work for my damn self. cant do that if your emotionally compromised.

And thus here I am... Just wished they get the fukk off my back about it.

 

[Sonny Bonds]

Women emotionally detach while there telling you they love you, sleeping and spending time with you they are slowly withdrawing.

The relationship was over before the guy even knew it. And all those guys that flirt with her in the meantime? She might turn them down, but she's considering her options.

 

[Rawtid]

If you talking to a chick, getting to know her, dating etc and she don't wanna hang out with you all the time best believe she most likely seeing/got other dudes on deck. And texting don't count, cause girls be on their phones 24/7 and they'll text like 20 nikkas at a time and that won't mean shyt to them.

To be honest, in 2016 unless I'm fukking a chick whatever happened before don't mean shyt. Women will waste your time if you let them.

Interesting. I feel the same way about men. I think they seek to waste your time or have you in competition for their affection, time and attention. Talking to and having sex with multiple women, all the while "scoring" them and creating some retarded process of elimination. I don't think any guy just has one woman he's focusing on. It's always multiple just some you like more than others.

 

[SheWantTheD]

This. Usually when I break up I was done way before the break up. When I break up with a dude I could literally never see him again and be perfectly okay with that.

How do women do this? I don't believe this at all. Most dudes will chase and blow up an ex's phone if she breaks up with him. He's still giving you attention even if it isn't as much as you had when y'all were together. If he fell back and completely cut off all contact, y'all would wonder why he isn't simping, go crazy and ultimately get back together with him.

It's much easier for you to move on if you were already preparing yourself for it mentally months in advance, and when you actually do go through with the breakup said person is constantly trying to communicate with you. The desperation and clinginess turns you off making it easier.

For some reason a lot of women like it when a man doesn't give af. And you know that's the truth.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Interesting. I feel the same way about men. I think they seek to waste your time or have you in competition for their affection, time and attention. Talking to and having sex with multiple women, all the while "scoring" them and creating some retarded process of elimination. I don't think any guy just has one woman he's focusing on. It's always multiple just some you like more than others.

Men definitely do this also but not everyone does it. These people do this because they don't want to feel the hurt they felt after the person they put all their eggs into one basket for didn't work out. Or they got played and don't wanna get played again, so they have people on backup just in case it doesn't work out.

Personally I've become more open-minded about this and don't see anything wrong with it in the early stages of dating. Branching from one relationship to the next is one thing, but dating multiple people you don't really know at one time isn't necessarily wrong. If you aren't honest about it or make it seem like they are the only one seeing you then it becomes wrong.

I don't think this ultimately bears the fruit that is a powerful, loving, long-lasting committed relationship though. Because you aren't giving your all and are acting based off being hurt in the past.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Good thread!
Real dialogue going on in here

 

[Xtraz2]

Because we tried telling you a million times what was wrong and you made no visible effort to fix/change.. then we got our mothers/girls/sisters/gay friends in our ears saying you ain't shyt, move on. On top of that we got a bunch of dudes in our other ear saying exactly what we need to hear at the moment. It doesn't help that after so many failed attempts to be happy with you, we can't help but to associate you with tears/lonliness/trust issues/neglect or whatever the issue was.

Worst thing you can do is a give a girl time to think about y'alls problems. After a month or so, she's gone forever.

bytches like you need to get beat

 

[darealvelle]

Women have dudes trying to fukk em damn near 24/7, even the mud ducks. Throw in social media and that "friend" that's always there to be a shoulder and that's that on that.

thread should of ended with this post

 

[MalikReloaded]

Women never quit a "job" before they have another one. If you don't know anything about them, know that.

 

[Pier7]

Haha aint I make this exact same thread last month, what is this the monthly quota?

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/how-is-it-that-women-are-able-to-move-on-so-quickly.394529/

 

[MalikReloaded]

I've been thinking about this and I have come to the conclusion that women have a short time period to procreate so they have instincts to find new dikk faster than a man finds new p*ssy.

Nature is a bytch though. This flaky behavior only works when women are young and beautiful, because there are simps around every corner when they're 18-24. At 35....not so much.

 

[darealvelle]

Women never quit a "job" before they have another one. If you don't know anything about them, know that.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I personally don't think men would care either way. Maybe that's what other women think too so they don't say anything. Or maybe they have tried in a way they thought he understood but he made no effort to change so she prepared herself to move on.

I find that communicating with many men sometimes leads no were. If it isn't something they want to hear it is easily brushed. If you keep trying to expess yours concern you become a nag and if you then become angry about not being heard you become bytch and mean. Behaviors that are again brushed off and your fault. It's easy to check out after that especially when the resentment sets in.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

They start the healing process while they're still "with" you and by the time they initate the break up their over you and prolly already got some new dik to run to. I remember @Reinscarf dropping this gem years ago and im now realising how true it is

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

How do women do this? I don't believe this at all. Most dudes will chase and blow up an ex's phone if she breaks up with him. He's still giving you attention even if it isn't as much as you had when y'all were together. If he fell back and completely cut off all contact, y'all would wonder why he isn't simping, go crazy and ultimately get back together with him.

It's much easier for you to move on if you were already preparing yourself for it mentally months in advance, and when you actually do go through with the breakup said person is constantly trying to communicate with you. The desperation and clinginess turns you off making it easier.

For some reason a lot of women like it when a man doesn't give af. And you know that's the truth.

Well I am grown up who is mentally stable. No adult wants to deal with childish tactics. I have met sooooooooo many guys who think that way "Women want guys who don't care." No. We want confident men who don't appear desperate. That pretending you don't care shyt is for birds. When I am done I am done. When a man pulls that I take it as a sign of lack of interest and no longer put in any effort to continue the relationship.

I once had a dude do something I thought was unbecoming and told him I was done. He was like okay and shrugged it off. 3 months later he is blowing up my phone like "why haven't you call me?" I had almost forgot about him. I told him that I told him I was done months ago. Now all of a sudden he wanted to talk but I didn't even care at that point.

I find that men will go for extended periods of time before seriously addressing issues. By the time they decide something is important enough for their attention it is already too late.