Why is it so hard for Squares to like who likes them??

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The vast majority(I would say 70 to 80 percent) of the time a guy is turned down its with a woman in his general league of attractiveness.

Just because Bob and Stephanie are both "5's" doesn't mean she automatically Has to say yes.


I came in to say this.... this is 90% of the reason why dudes complain, and since women have the power....
 

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I just look out for who's attractive

I fukking love nerdy type females

The only problem with being a "square"(lol this word) in relationship with any woman is that you always fighting the fact that you're never the most fun guy in the room(except me cuz I'm just awesome like that), unless you two are alone or kicking it with other squares.

So you're always, literally always, in jeopardy of losing that ho, because a dude who brings the party with him can, sometimes, take her attention away from you

even the nerdy shy girls
are drawn to the dude who can control the vibe

She might love you for real. You could be married for years even. And you could be working that 6 figure job
But that dude who knows how to activate the p*ssy with just his character
is always gonna have the upperhand

Point is, even square chicks aren't a lock for square dudes

That's why at the end of the day fukk 100% of these bytches
 

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Reality is constantly throwing curve balls, shyt doesn't always go the way its supposed to go. I'm a square and I've pulled "bad bytches", and gotten dissed by plenty of em. I've gotten at nerdy girls and "low hanging fruit" and taken the L. It's a numbers game. You never know what the situation is, what type of dudes shes into (looks can be deceiving, don't see a bad chick and think "ahhh i bet she only likes ballerz". Thats that Kent way of thinking. Some of these square girls want a Bobby Brown), how you feeling at that moment (might have the "new cut and fresh outfit" confidence goin that day).

It's a numbers game, no matter who you are. But square/nerds have to go HARDER than dudes perceived as "cool" to do numbers, and I know from experience that we rarely swallow that rejection and go hard. Quicker to pull a Kent and sit around stewing over it.
 

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because you can't choose what you like.. you can choose to not go after it.. but you can't tell your dikk not to get hard.. or your p*ssy not to get wet... if something turns you on, it turns you on


now why do these people continue and continue to try, even when faced with the harsh realities.. who knows... but there's no shame in trying.. once you get rejected tho :camby:


Niggga you can train and hone your desire IF you try. You have to be a MAN to do such things. And most males not are MEN!
 

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I blame TV and movies. The lovable dork always gets the girl. The bad boy always decides to change his ways for the good girl. A lot of people take their relationship cues from this bullshyt (I know I did) and aren't really in touch with reality. A lot of people are just delusional. Perfect example from American Pie (ironic and hypocritical I know :heh:) When they were making fun of Jim for dating a band geek and it finally clicked and he said "I am a band geek, I just never joined the band". That my friends is the issue. We have a whole bunch of male and female Jim's walking around thinking they should be with Nadia when they are really compatible with old girl from band camp :russ:.
Shiiii, I wouldn't mind a solid 7.5 that can blow a good horn....:shaq:
 

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I think square dudes hate settling in life. :mjcry:
When you go through life taking nothing but L's, dating a square chick seems to be the final nail in the coffin to admitting defeat. It's literally like you're saying your genes aren't good enough to mix with the best female genetic code.:wow:


I tried chasing this hot girl in HS and passed on the average looking chicks that would have sucked the brown off my dikk trying to get the "hot" chick every dude in HS wanted. I thought I had a chance but ultimately I ended up being a "really close genuine friend" who was like an amazing brother and a shoulder to cry on. The most I got outside really intimate hugs was "almost" holding hands.
:beli:

I passed on the square chick because I was running with the popular crowd and they thought she was ugly and lame even though I liked her secretly. It turns out she secretly had a huge crush on me, stayed only a 1/3 of a mile from my house and was a HUGGGGE closet freak. Plus my mom worked nights so I had the crib to myself everyday from the time I got home to like 2-3am. She still has a tight body with C cups and a decent as for an a biracial asian/white girl and didn't whale out like half the popular chicks did.
:martin:
 

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I normally just lurk on here, never posted until now but this thread just made me think. Going by OP's definition of a square, I assume him and 99% of the folks on this forum (and message boards in general), including myself could have that label. I'm a young black man in college, with a wack minumum wage job, and no criminal record. I guess I'm supposed to walk around thinking "woe is me, no bytch will ever fukk with me, I should drop out of school and sell crack like every other nikka I see around the hood, that's the only way I'll pull a dime." That's a lame ass mentally to have in your head

nikkas from around my way who are in the streets frfr don't even think about shyt like this. They ain't worried about a bytch being "out of their league." I've seen short ugly nikkas with bad bytches a million times. Dude was saying that a 5'3" nikka with a receding hairline should only talk to Precious built bytches. Wtf kinda nikka walks around telling himself, "I'm too short/ugly to pull a female I really want." Even a bytch built like Precious can hit the gym and improve her appearance and confidence

And how many nikkas you know around the hood that got 6 figure salaries and/or are NBA player height or whatever else a woman could fantasize about? Most people you see IRL fall under the category of average. Even a so-called 10 will have some imperfection about herself. You can fantasize about getting a female that looks immaculate, cooks and cleans for you all the time, never been ran thru, intelligent, ect but what's the odds you'll run into a woman with everything you dream about in one package, slim to none

Bottom line is y'all nikkas act like its strict rules and regulations about pulling hoes or what women find attractive. I'm 5'8", skinny, darkskinned, idgaf about a bytch who only want a nikka thats 6'5" and lightskinned, that's her preference. That ain't stopping me from pulling other hoes whatsoever
 
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