Why is it so hard for women to just chill and not feel the need to "do something"??

[Redguard]

if they were spending their money they'd want to stay in

This.

Plus I noticed most of these women barely have any hobbies or none at all.

If you read most of the profiles on online dating they all have the same hobbies/topics.

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

does she work full time?

She does real estate and works from home 3 out of 5 days. Only goes to the office twice a week...

 

[Micky Mikey]

The hardest thing for a lot of women to do is be alone with their own thoughts. They avoid going inward like the plague. When you're alone with your own thoughts you eventually begin to realize your own superficiality. This is why many can never truly become spiritual. They are not content with their own being and must fill the void with something that makes them feel significant.

Everyone does this but women are more susceptible to it and more likely to just naively follow the herd.

 

[god shamgod]

I get the thread premise and I agree with it but no chick unless she’s a legit homebody wants to sit in the crib like that. You gotta balance it out, you can do stuff and chill

And let them know in the gate you a chill type of cat so they know what to expect. Y’all can’t be that boring to never want to do anything

 

[Jalether]

What hobbies do you have?

Let’s exlcude trying new restaurants. That’s everybody’s thing.

Shopping and nagging

 

[Bobby Lashleys eyebrows]

I can see where they coming from. Life is too short to be staying inside, I'm introverted lone wolf as fuk and perfectly content with video games.

But it seems like women go out for the wrong reasons. Fuk shopping, new restaurants, loud clubs and the movies, that sht is Dead Give me a Motorcycle to ride out and hit car meets or a sports car along ocean scenery.

How much is too much if yall had a choice?

I feel like if you need to go somewhere every week you doing too much.

Honestly, the best way to make it work is to find a chick that shares the same extroverted activities as you. It's nothing wrong with being introverted but avoid chicks that still want to go to bars/clubs while dating and go for chicks that enjoy bowling, casinos, cruises, laid back, less crowded activities. It's the best of both worlds tbh. Even if I was extroverted, I'd stay far far away from extroverted chicks as they're annoying af and bring unwanted attention.

 

[Da_Eggman]

I can see where they coming from. Life is too short to be staying inside, I'm introverted lone wolf as fuk and perfectly content with video games.

But it seems like women go out for the wrong reasons. Fuk shopping, new restaurants, loud clubs and the movies, that sht is Dead Give me a Motorcycle to ride out and hit car meets or a sports car along ocean scenery.

How much is too much if yall had a choice?

I feel like if you need to go somewhere every week you doing too much.

Cuz it ain’t about going out and enjoying oneself

They just want to go out to be seen and take pics


The excitement isn’t even going the excitement for them is posting the pics

 

[Da_Eggman]

Cause these hoes are always miserable in the present moment and are constantly looking for that next temporary fix to make themselves feel better


People who are already truly happy and content ain't really trying to do shyt but chill and enjoy the present moment, as weird as that sounds.

Buddah gave no fukks about going out

 

[010101]

set them all free

it's natural they are more social

*

 

[Heafcliffe]

Similar to my post in another thread.

Excessive social media consumption is making their natural restlessness increase.

It’s driving excessive FOMO.

Woman is scrolling down her social media feed.

She sees a carefully-crafted picture of a meal at the hot new restaurant. Oh and her friends have liked the photo as well. Now, she’s got to try that meal so she can post a photo. Because, social media law says that if a pic doesn’t exist, it didn’t happen. That means she’s going to drag your ass there and you’re going to break open that wallet, breh.

She follows the party promoters in your city on social media. Her friends are @‘g her in the comments. She’s got to be there. FOMO. She’ll drag you there and you’re going to open that wallet and buy drinks, breh.

I can keep going, but you get the point

If your girl is heavy social media user, her natural restlessness is going to be heightened.

So, get ready to spend money.

Perfectly put, b, especially the explanation how a simple "@" can influence impulsive, dumb shyt.

 

[Vilify]

Women are like children they get bored fast.

 

[King Jae]

Just gotta find balance....all the shyt u don't wanna do let her and her homegirl go do....shyt u wanna do..do it....I always tell women to maintain their own lives when we deal with each other...kills two birds....one it builds trust...two she won't feel unfulfilled because ur not denying her of things she wants to do.....Women are natural busy bodies....if they are still spending the same time with u..really shouldn't be an issue...

 

[Weaver31]

Coulda swore y’all made threads on how we’re boring and don’t do nothing/have hobbies

This is true....many dudes on here said women are boring, not funny, lack social skills, etc., which I think is false and depends on the specific person.

But this post does match with my personal experiences that women always wanna go out and do shyt that involves money. My thing is that folks can do shyt that doesn't involve a lot of money all the time.

 

[Swirv]

Was she like this when you met her?

 

[WhoShotCha]

It def stems from Social Media.These modern day hoes are so programmed by social media that it shows in practically everything they do. They can't sit they ass down because they always feel like they're "missing out". They can't stop scrolling on they phone because they'll think they're "missing out". Their nervous systems have been manipulated too much.

Oh and every bytch is basically the same bytch now too because of it. They all love the same shyt. Traveling, Issa Rae, Makeup, Jordan Peele, Music Festivals, rinse repeat.

I won't even fukk with a broad seriously if she's active on Social Media these days.