Bingo. If she got you on edge now she is not going to magically chill out just because. She is gonna keep doing and saying shyt and you are gonna keep getting pissed. Marrying her sounds like a set up for either an emotional breakdown or a case...or a combo thereof.
Bumping this thread. Literally bout to lose my mind with this shyt right here man. Plan to propose in August, Literally have limited savings now because we moved in and the rent is more. Currently stressed out at work and working OT, was told I would be getting a raise and promotion, but now they saying end of the year, and trying to find a new job and she's hitting me with we haven't gone on a date in a while and saying it dosent have to cost money we can go to a Salsa class. I said you know damn well if we do that you gonna want to get Sangraia and shyt after wards she laughed and said you right. Nagging continued so I said, okay we can go shopping next week. That calmed her for a little, till Wednesday, I come home stressed from work and this mf starts talking about she wants to buy mad furniture and draws etc literally talking about it for hours. So now I'm thinking oh great more money to spend.
Typing this before I hit the bar or try to find a late night gym cuz I don't know if I can be here tonight. We go out today for this block party shyt, she talking about her birthday (she turns 30) her b day is 2 days before mine, and asking me what i'm getting and what she wants. I said okay just send me a list. We go to a bar, she keep talking about fukking Mexico City and she had a good time, i said I don't want to go but fine i'll go. She says well you never plan anything and we haven't taken any trips this summer. It took nearly everything in my body to not to do vintage Chris Brown.
All of thisThis shyt is responsible for many relationships ending (some of mine included)
No, I don’t want to fukking go on an excursion or adventure every fukking weekend. No, I don’t want to go out to see friends or your relatives. I been working all week, I just want to be home with a decent plate of food watching some bullshyt show or playing a fukking video game.
The worst part is you tell them they can go and you’ll be at the crib and they get offended for some reason and it sparks an argument
And everything is exacerbated now because they all in competition and comparing lives with their friends because of socials and expect you to do performative shyt
if youre an idiot, maybe
Definition of POSTPONE
to put off to a later time : defer; to place later (as in a sentence) than the normal position in English; to place later in order of precedence, preference, or importance… See the full definitionwww.merriam-webster.com
Lmaooo deadass though. I typed this 3 Henny and cokes deep before hitting a bar to watch the fight.you so stressed you getting your splits fukked up
She gonna have you looking like your avatar.Bumping this thread. Literally bout to lose my mind with this shyt right here man. Plan to propose in August, Literally have limited savings now because we moved in and the rent is more. Currently stressed out at work and working OT, was told I would be getting a raise and promotion, but now they saying end of the year, and trying to find a new job and she's hitting me with we haven't gone on a date in a while and saying it dosent have to cost money we can go to a Salsa class. I said you know damn well if we do that you gonna want to get Sangraia and shyt after wards she laughed and said you right
Typing this before I hit the bar or try to find a late night gym cuz I don't know if I can be here tonight. We go out today for this block party shyt, she talking about her birthday (she turns 30) her b day is 2 days before mine, and asking me what i'm getting and what she wants. I said okay just send me a list. We go to a bar, she keep talking about fukking Mexico City and she had a good time, i said I don't want to go but fine i'll go. She says well you never plan anything and we haven't taken any trips this summer. It took nearly everything in my body to not to do vintage Chris Brown.
Fam. It's like she'll be satisfied for a little bit, then fukkign complain the next week or so. Her younger sister just got proposed to, but her sister is wayyyy less maintenance then her.Boy I feel bad for you young brehs dating chicks raised on Instagram and shyt.
This is what capitalism puts the average man through.
You’re gonna have to either:
- Change her mindset over time while keeping her satisfied (toughest option).
- Tell her straight up you ain’t got it and put her to test. (realest option but don’t be surprised if you get your feelings hurt).
- Dump her (easiest option).
Probably had the same look as his avatar’s face when he typed thisBumping this thread. Literally bout to lose my mind with this shyt right here man. Plan to propose in August, Literally have limited savings now because we moved in and the rent is more. Currently stressed out at work and working OT, was told I would be getting a raise and promotion, but now they saying end of the year, and trying to find a new job and she's hitting me with we haven't gone on a date in a while and saying it dosent have to cost money we can go to a Salsa class. I said you know damn well if we do that you gonna want to get Sangraia and shyt after wards she laughed and said you right
Typing this before I hit the bar or try to find a late night gym cuz I don't know if I can be here tonight. We go out today for this block party shyt, she talking about her birthday (she turns 30) her b day is 2 days before mine, and asking me what i'm getting and what she wants. I said okay just send me a list. We go to a bar, she keep talking about fukking Mexico City and she had a good time, i said I don't want to go but fine i'll go. She says well you never plan anything and we haven't taken any trips this summer. It took nearly everything in my body to not to do vintage Chris Brown.
I'm not stubborn or think I know everything. We have a lease that ends in August, and I would have to shackle up at family. I recognize it's a burning building just reading this thread and seeing the feedback.
The relationship is over Brodie. Once respect is gone there is no going back to how it was. It's like a druggie chasing their first high. It's like a slow motion car crash where you can avoid it but think you got it and stay the course . Don't fall for the sunk cost fallacy.
All jokes aside, I know my delivery is harsh but I wish you all the best. It just pains me to see men voluntarily put themselves through stress because they stick with the wrong woman.
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