why is it the meaner you act to a female the more she wants you

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She's a big city 7.5 I have no reason to lie, she was distant and stopped talking to me for 3 months then just popped back up awhile ago.
She was dating a dude who dogged her out and she thinks you're a good guy so she's testing the waters again.
 

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She's a big city 7.5 I have no reason to lie, she was distant and stopped talking to me for 3 months then just popped back up awhile ago.

To be honest, the text show that she is not impressed or attracted to the lack of attention and/or you being "mean." Was she distant because you were acting like this previously?
 

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Sometimes 'mean' is defined as: Someone not giving you your way.

:gizamj:

Some females will say you were for being "mean" for all sorts of petty stuff. Usually I assume its jokes but sometimes they'll be bring it back up like 4 months later and have me like, "You were actually for real about that :dwillhuh:"
 

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Like I said that's just the gist of it.

There are more with her pouring her heart out but I ain't that vicious


To be honest, the text show that she is not impressed or attracted to the lack of attention and/or you being "mean." Was she distant because you were acting like this previously?
 

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To be honest, the text show that she is not impressed or attracted to the lack of attention and/or you being "mean." Was she distant because you were acting like this previously?
Yea it dont look like she impressed if she was the one who became distant first, 3 months at that

Look like she just trying to still see if she got the juice, for whatever reason
 

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lol, i had this discussion with my girl. she told me my views on woman were screwed up. the rest of the conversation went like this:

me: before we started dating, you had a selection of guys that you could choose from right?
her: yes, isn't that normal?
me: out of those guys, i was your top pick. you always had time for me, you immediately texted me back, and you regulalry texted me first, right?
her: yes.
me: you didn't do this for the other guys though, did you? you flaked on them, you took your time responding, and you only texted them when you were bored, right?
her: well, i liked you the best.
me: so those other dudes were your fall back guys, right?
her: well, i wouldn't call them that...
me: they were the guys you entertained, in case me and you didn't work out
her: well... maybe... i mean, they were nice and all, but i liked you the best.
me: well, then why did you keep talking to them?
her: well, they kept hitting me up.
me: they were really nice to you, weren't they.
her: yes, of course, they liked me.
me: that didn't get them any further though, did it?
her: no, because i liked you the best.
me: you knew you had those guys in your pocket already, right?
her: well, kind of yes, but i was just more interested in you.
me: was i nice to you?
her: no, you were a total a$$hole!
me: why would you say that?
her: well you never texted me, and you laughed at me, and you were the only one i had to chase after, all the others chased after me. i never knew if you liked me at all.
me: :lolbron:
her: remember when we met for drinks st this bar? i tried everything to get you to take me to your place, but you got drunk and send me home.
me::pachaha:
her: you didn't even walk me home, you just said bye and left. i thought you were either gay or had another girl waiting for you. but a gay guy would have had the decency to walk me home.
me: but i was the most interesting.
her: well, yes..., you were just different...
me: because i wasn't nice
her: i mean yes, but not only that
me: and i never chased after you
her: maybe
me: and you wanted to make me like you
her: obviously
me: even though the other guys were much nicer, and chasing you, and trying to make you like them. you didn't try to make them like you.
her: i didn't have to make them like me, they already did.
me: case in point :yeshrug:
 
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