why is it the meaner you act to a female the more she wants you

[BedRoomI'z]

This is why I am the way I am. I get called mean or uninterested all the time but I let them know I have a horrible attention span and if you aren't piquing my interest, this is how I respond to it. Letting them know how difficult it is to hold your attention, while simultaneously making it aware that you have other options who will make the effort creates a very primal drive to be competitive (if you are attractive enough to her). Women are just as competitive as men in that regard and it will make her want to show you why you SHOULD be interested in her. I think its healthy to create that sensation with a woman. Its usually a NEW experience for her b/c most men can't/won't do it and it keeps the energy volatile (in a good way) between you two. My responsibility is to curve her, but never too hard and to make sure I'm receptive when we go out. She will also be more willing to open up and let loose even if she normally wouldn't like the plans made and those will usually be the most fun dates you will go on because she just wants you to have fun so damn bad. Thus proving her point while also enjoying the company you provided with her in return. It keeps the sexual tension high and makes her feel like she "won" over the other women you had which subconsciously makes your time, a prize to her victory.

If you end up in a relationship, it will be healthy and fun. You two will be accustomed to trying different things and going different places. You go to new restaurants all the time, work out together, can hang with eachother's friends (mostly). It also will make her see herself as capable and strong. This will create a woman who is comfortable with the relationship and not be a jealous ass woman because she KNOWS that she showed you how great she is and won't be worried about "another woman" when you go out with friends, even another woman friend. She's confident in her worth and the relationship's worth (usually). And you don't have the added stress of a clingy, jealous woman or another dude stepping in when she has invested that energy and that you were the one who opened her up to it (you have to tell her how things are the way they are) so long as she sees the man that created that drive in her, in you.

In a perfect world

 

[Sterling Archer]

Eventually I figured out that....


This is why my side butxhes seemed to like me the most and be the most down.

Its because they had the ultimate challenge.

When my car was in the shop, mine had me whipping the shyt out of her little Boxster. She looks at me like I'm the Aggro-Crag.

Spoiler

Dedicated to the challenge she is.

In a perfect world

Yeah. It happens though. I've started every serious relationship like this and they never end because of "us". My girlfriend and I now had this dynamic. Its rocky as hell right now (see upper quote reply) but it wasn't us that brought it down, it has been our work schedule that has created disarray. When that isnt the case, things are glorious.

 

[Jone2three45]

Women like an a$$hole that is mysterious for the most part.

 

[Sterling Archer]

Women like an a$$hole that is mysterious for the most part.

Women like a mysterious man period. a$$hole or not.

 

[Cory MBA]

Give examples of this, please.

One Scenario:

CoryMBA: 12PM - Hey....its noon but remember about our commitment at 7pm .....we need to leave the house around 6:20pm. Cool? :arabmj:

Wifey: It's only noon...I'll be ready boy, dang....

CoryMBA: Alright...well, I know that time tends to get away from us....just wanted to mention this early so that there are no complications later. :gizamj:


Wifey:


CoryMBA: Alright Wifey...I'll check on you in a few hours...


CoryMBA: (Starts showering, ironing) "Wifey....its 5pm...you probably should start getting ready too...

Wifey: I'll be ready....:scust8:

6:15PM - She is not even close to being ready.....


CoryMBA: Yo.....I really have to be there early....you want to roll dolo or with your sister? :sasafro:

Wifey: You are so insensitive and mean...

CoryMBA: I tried to prevent this scenario....I told you at noon, remember? Not sure what I else I could have done. But I have to bounce...

Wifey:


CoryMBA: :cosbynewport:

 

[skeetsinternal]

This is why I am the way I am. I get called mean or uninterested all the time but I let them know I have a horrible attention span and if you aren't piquing my interest, this is how I respond to it. Letting them know how difficult it is to hold your attention, while simultaneously making it aware that you have other options who will make the effort creates a very primal drive to be competitive (if you are attractive enough to her). Women are just as competitive as men in that regard and it will make her want to show you why you SHOULD be interested in her. I think its healthy to create that sensation with a woman. Its usually a NEW experience for her b/c most men can't/won't do it and it keeps the energy volatile (in a good way) between you two. My responsibility is to curve her, but never too hard and to make sure I'm receptive when we go out. She will also be more willing to open up and let loose even if she normally wouldn't like the plans made and those will usually be the most fun dates you will go on because she just wants you to have fun so damn bad. Thus proving her point while also enjoying the company you provided with her in return. It keeps the sexual tension high and makes her feel like she "won" over the other women you had which subconsciously makes your time, a prize to her victory.

If you end up in a relationship, it will be healthy and fun. You two will be accustomed to trying different things and going different places. You go to new restaurants all the time, work out together, can hang with eachother's friends (mostly). It also will make her see herself as capable and strong. This will create a woman who is comfortable with the relationship and not be a jealous ass woman because she KNOWS that she showed you how great she is and won't be worried about "another woman" when you go out with friends, even another woman friend. She's confident in her worth and the relationship's worth (usually). And you don't have the added stress of a clingy, jealous woman or another dude stepping in when she has invested that energy and that you were the one who opened her up to it (you have to tell her how things are the way they are) so long as she sees the man that created that drive in her, in you.

I cosign this...

 

[CakeEater]

reminds them of their daddies that molested them

 

[MAKAVELI25]

reminds them of their daddies that molested them

Be "that guy", brehs

 

[Mantis Toboggan M.D.]

who are these people that don't like chicken and watermelon?

How does anyone? Best meat besides steak and the best fruit besides apples or cherries. Particularly chicken Parmesan

 

[Mantis Toboggan M.D.]

They don't respect a genuinely good dude for some reason. No joke the harder I'd D.E.N.N.I.S. my last woman, the harder she would demand marriage and 3-4 kids.

 

[yo moms]

whenever im mean to females they try to fight me lol. i dont think im doing it right.

 

[Mantis Toboggan M.D.]

whenever im mean to females they try to fight me lol. i dont think im doing it right.

You aren't following the system right. First you demonstrate your value. Then you engage them physically. Afterwards, you begin to nurture their dependence on you. Once you've done that, it's time to neglect emotionally. By now they start to get clingy and you should see this fairly quickly. The ensuing step is where you inspire hope in some way. This step gets closed by banging. You then complete the system by separating entirely, usually by leaving later that night and never contacting her again.

 

[yo moms]

You aren't following the system right. First you demonstrate your value. Then you engage them physically. Afterwards, you begin to nurture their dependence on you. Once you've done that, it's time to neglect emotionally. By now they start to get clingy and you should see this fairly quickly. The ensuing step is where you inspire hope in some way. This step gets closed by banging. You then complete the system by separating entirely, usually by leaving later that night and never contacting her again.

school me breh. how do you demonstrate value? i wear nice clothes and am in good shape. i fight often. and dont lose. my value should be way up there. ive been in the local newspaper many times for repping my city in boxing. these hoes dont even know any of that shyt tho.

 

[Milk N Cookies]

Erykah Badu said the same when it comes to men. Act like a bytch & they want you more. But I wouldnt know. I'm nice most of the time.

 

[Food Mane]

Dudes are the same. Everyone likes a challenge, wants to get what they can't have.