Why is it "womens choice" when it comes to abortion because its her body, but not for pregnancy ?

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Y'all dudes always want to make something about women and their supposed poor logic and lack of accountability and all of the power these lowly intelligent beings have over you poor innocent but so much smarter and logical men.
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Newsflash.
fukking is how you make babies. Don't want a baby? Don't fukk.

evil hateful lacking logic lower intelligence level women can't put you in these horrible situations if you don't put yourself in that situation.

and no women don't have to "stop letting nikkas fukk" like yall say. Women are these stupid irresponsible illogical creatures but somehow the onus is on them to save yall and your dikks from your stupid decisions?

Btw I'm married and my children and my husband are very well taken care of.

Also I'm no drake Stan but it's pretty fukking creepy that you manage to pull drake into a convo about abortion at 8 am on a Sunday morning. Did you go to sleep thinking about drake or just wake up thinking about him?
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If you dont open ur legs

A guy cant fukk you

What is so hard to understand
 

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Me: remember me? 8:48 AM
stacy: Yea 8:49 AM
Me: u still pregnant? 8:49 AM
stacy: I have ya number save 8:49 AM
stacy: No 8:49 AM
Me: oh ok 8:49 AM
stacy: I had gotten an abortion 8:49 AM
Me: oh 8:50 AM
stacy: Soooo..... 8:50 AM
Me: u on birth control ? 8:52 AM
stacy: No 8:52 AM
Me: so i gotta pull out or else 8:54 AM
stacy: No yu gotta use a condom 8:54 AM
 

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stop it!
youre not holding women responsible!

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I mean, i could, but fukk it. Its like the classic no-p*ssy getting story. Crush on a girl for the longest, get turned down, meet her years later and she is with child and the father isnt there. I know 4 such girls. But hey, they chose who they chose, and now they gotta live with that. The dudes probably aint shyt, so its not like they ran off to be successful. Only thing i can do as a man is not fukk with people who show patterns of bad decision making, and most importantly, not let momentary pleasure put me in a position to "make mistakes".

I tell people, shyt like that isnt a mistake, it was a dumb decision you now regret. Only way to avoid it is not to do it. Labeling something a mistake implies that it was an accident or at least seemed like a good idea. It lifts the burden of bad decision making off folks. I dont make mistakes, I make judgement calls.
 

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Actually it's a shared responsibility when it comes to the child.
Nobody is gonna make the man carry the baby for 20 weeks
Or alternate pushing in the delivery room.

You guys can call it hypocritical or unfair. But it's just a fact biologically.

Men can't get pregnant.
Women can.

We ALL know where babies come from. If you guys don't want to get caught up in this whole "zomg it's so unfair that if she gets pregnant she is gonna be able to do what she wants and not what I want!"

Don't fukk then. Can't be a victim of these horrible unfair rules if you don't fukk or knock anybody up.

Sleep with people you know and trust. Only trust your birth control methods to yourself.
Feel free to get a vasectomy which is extremely easily reversible.

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but see your whole post is exactly the point

every single word you just said... could be said to the women


why did you have a baby with a man who you didn't trust and know?

why are you fukking men when you can't afford a baby?




but the one difference is.......


you CAN ask a woman.....




why did you have this baby? cause she's the ONLY one who can control that
 

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If you dont open ur legs

A guy cant fukk you

What is so hard to understand

if you dont stick your dikk in her p*ssy

a girl cant fukk you with our "unfairness"
and birth control

whats so hard to understand?


:mjlol:
Im not the one on here bytching about being trapped with pregnancies or paying child support that i dont want to pay or how very unfair everything is.

I
 

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We should make this system fair.
If she can terminate the pregnancy, men should be able to at least opt out of fatherhood if he doesn't want the child.
THIS


if she can opt out... so should we

if she can keep a baby against our will... so should we


i mean i know it's fun to talk about deadbeats... i'll repeat again

ONLY 7% OF CASES HAVE DEADBEAT DADS



so the other 93% of fathers actually do stuff for their kids and want to be there... what about them? what about when they want a kid and have no say on if it's murdered or not?
 

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but see your whole post is exactly the point

every single word you just said... could be said to the women


why did you have a baby with a man who you didn't trust and know?

why are you fukking men when you can't afford a baby?




but the one difference is.......


you CAN ask a woman.....




why did you have this baby? cause she's the ONLY one who can control that

im watching the game so i dont have much time for this foolishness.
ofcourse the same things can and SHOULD be said to the women
this post was started by a man and has been mainly contributed to by men as far
as agreeing with all this foolish "its soooooo unfair!"

im not sure how many times and ways i can say this
both men and women are responsible for their own birth control.

i dont feel any ounce of pity for you idiots who stick your dikk in any ole anybody and then want to complain after the fact
i dont feel any ounce of pity for idiot women who let any ole idiot stick their dikk inside them.

if you have an aint shyt baby momma or baby daddy that is YOUR FAULT
it doesnt matter who the fukk had more birth control choices
or more pregnancy termination options.
your aint shyt baby momma or baby daddy is the same ammount of aint shyt as you are and yall deserve eachother.

i only feel bad for the children who are born to yall.
 

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how are you gonna prove that you expressed that you wanted her to have this abortion?
[its got to be better than just your word and your mommas btw]
what if neither of you knew she was pregnant until after the time where abortion was safe and legal?
what if in the beggining everything is peaches and roses but yall break up at 4.5 months gestation because youre sick of her pregnant attitude?
do you get to demand she has an abortion at 6 months pregnant?
i need the parameters for this get out of parenthood free plan.


what if 5 years down the road youve grown up and want to be involved with your child?

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Going to a judge prior to birth should be enough
 

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It's not an inequality as the unborn child is not carried by the male.

Once the child is born it's a citizen and minor, and subject to guardianship. Traditionally that has entailed the male and female that created the child.

The gymnastics nikkas are going through in this thread :heh: a situation where the woman's word is recognized as more valid than the mans gets yall riled up lol
Exactly. Children aren't carried by men because men don't get pregnant. There are a multitude of actions that a woman can take to prevent herself from becoming pregnant completely independent of a man. Options including those after having unprotected sex with a man. With all of that there's no way that you can say that a man is equally as responsible as a woman for her becoming pregnant. I'm not saying that men have no responsibility, but the idea that it's 50/50 is nonsense. It's insulting to people's intelligence.

Now having said that, I agree with the double standard quo. I'm actually more conservative on the issue. It's a patriarchal type of standard and it's important to acknowledge that.
 

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im watching the game so i dont have much time for this foolishness.
ofcourse the same things can and SHOULD be said to the women
this post was started by a man and has been mainly contributed to by men as far
as agreeing with all this foolish "its soooooo unfair!"

im not sure how many times and ways i can say this
both men and women are responsible for their own birth control.

i dont feel any ounce of pity for you idiots who stick your dikk in any ole anybody and then want to complain after the fact
i dont feel any ounce of pity for idiot women who let any ole idiot stick their dikk inside them.

if you have an aint shyt baby momma or baby daddy that is YOUR FAULT
it doesnt matter who the fukk had more birth control choices
or more pregnancy termination options.
your aint shyt baby momma or baby daddy is the same ammount of aint shyt as you are and yall deserve eachother.

i only feel bad for the children who are born to yall.
that i can understand.. that's essentially what i was saying... it's both their damn faults.. and both should get equal blame

it's not even what happens a quarter of the time in life.. but when it does happen, it's immeditely the man's fault and the woman is an innocent bystander who this HAPPENED to.. yet when there's some man crying about a child he'll never have.. there's no pity party for his ass
 

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2 people made the child. One person has to carry, feed and make sure that the fetus has the right nutrients/vitamins and enough hydration to develop into a healthy child.

You are carrying a parasite that sucks the nutrients from your body, grows inside of you shifting your internal organs and changing your body in ways that can't be reversed. Then you have to go through the painful life threatening process of labor.

So yeah, women get to choose if they want to put their body through that.

Once the child is out. It needs it's parents, because human babies are pretty much useless meat blobs that piss, shyt and cry until they develop a bit more and can actually communicate what they want.

Ideally, the father should help out the mother during pregnancy but that's an ideal, not always reality. But it really isnt as much of a toll on the father as it is on the mother. Men just spread their seed into whatever fertile soil they choose.
 

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Because woman have zero accountability. When was the last time a woman admitted to a mistake???... I will wait...
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Usually both parties in these situations lack accountability. :francis:

Everyone wants to blame the other. The woman blames the man, the man blames the woman. If you both consented to having sex, you potentially accepted the consequences. The woman should have been on BC and the man should have chosen to wear a condom. The lack of either forms of those methods is BOTH parties faults. Nobody forced either to have sex with the other. If the man doesn't want the baby I agree he shouldn't have to take care of it. Of course that's the responsible thing to do, but not everyone has the same morals, and if you as a woman chose a man who lacks that responsibility that's on you :yeshrug:. Abortion or single motherhood are always on the table, you pick your poison.

Now if the man wants the baby and the woman doesn't...:patrice:
 
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