Why Some Women Get Angry When Men Rest

[jay83]

Its not rocket science. It doesn't require 30 min. Some women dont know how to sit they ass down. They dont know how to set boundaries or take time for themselves. So they take offense to seeing their man do it. Some are traumatized by childhood poverty and pops either not being around or not doing shyt. Some dudes are just lazy and honestly don't deserve to even have a woman. And yeah some women are just controlling taskmasters...for dudes that tolerate that shyt.

We also can't overlook old school, mans man, man pays 100% and works himself into an early grave values in addition to the modern economy and sensibilities. If you tryna live up to that archaic shyt in modern times you aint gonna have downtime.

I know a lot of older men like this. In the 80s/90s it was work 6 am to 6pm come home eat and go out again next morning. Sunday you go to church eat Sunday dinner and do the same thing the next 30 years.

 

[FTBS]

Actually the psych video said women see rest as a feminine trait, and rest is not masculine. In orther words, women rest and men dont. I dont know how that reasoning came about as men human. Parts of waht you said after that are mentioned about man working themselves to early grave and paying everything, and alot of women can be controlling.

 

[Tookalossfellbackcameback]

The last chick that lived with me...nicca I used to schedule 2 or 3 vacation days in a row and would ACT LIKE I WAS GOING TO WORK each day I had off.



Anytime a bytch sees you watching TV and asks you "so what you gonna do with yourself today"...bytch I'm not trying to hear that shyt.

 

[Kornball The Conqueror]

this is why men can't retire

 

[Phitz]

You can probably tie the video game logic into this..

I know a guy who would take a vacation day and not tell his wife, just so he can chill.

The last chick that lived with me...nicca I used to schedule 2 or 3 vacation days in a row and would ACT LIKE I WAS GOING TO WORK each day I had off.



Anytime a bytch sees you watching TV and asks you "so what you gonna do with yourself today"...bytch I'm not trying to hear that shyt.

Rick, is this you?

 

[BlackBall]

Women hate men being happy

 

[FTBS]

Its narcissism and entitlement

Its another example of female abuse that goes undetected, and an example of how women can objectify men.

They don't see you as a person that can have their calm days and relax. You are a machine that is supposed to work snd you are useless if you don't.

Like this right here:

If a man did that we'd be calling it abuse

A lot of men think like this and lead with it. It sounds no different than "alpha male", red pill propoganda.

You work to get her and present yourself as her servant to get in her good graces, how you expect her to view you? Meanwhile the dude she really wants can play video games while she works all day.

You gotta admit the chess story does sound fishy. But if you wit the nikka and he has never given you reason to think he on some shyt, you should trust him.

 

[KidJSoul]

I was with two women like this
I fixed that, they weren't like that anymore.

That's the trick, you can't give in from the get go.
If you give in at the beggining that's where you lost control, you set a standard, a baseline, a precedent.

Make that standard that you require rest and your own YOU time from the get go.
That's it, it's that simple.

You see the shyt we gotta put up with ?

And for what, really?

 

[KidJSoul]

A lot of men think like this and lead with it. It sounds no different than "alpha male", red pill propoganda.

You work to get her and present yourself as her servant to get in her good graces, how you expect her to view you? Meanwhile the dude she really wants can play video games while she works all day.

You gotta admit the chess story does sound fishy. But if you wit the nikka and he has never given you reason to think he on some shyt, you should trust him.

This, it's never deny that its partially mens fault

 

[FTBS]

I know a lot of older men like this. In the 80s/90s it was work 6 am to 6pm come home eat and go out again next morning. Sunday you go to church eat Sunday dinner and do the same thing the next 30 years.

Life is about balance. I get grinding for a while because you have to but your whole life? Whats the point of working if you never have time to enjoy it?

A lot of it is modeling. Its all a lot of older dudes know because its all they saw. I saw my pops work. I saw him have hobbies. I saw him chill. I saw him go on vacation. I saw him get in grind mode when it was necessary. All some men know is work work work, pay for shyt, collapse. fukk that.

 

[King_Sage]

Happy COUPLE longer nuptials


fukk that one-sided bullshyt.

Happy Spouse, Happy House

 

[King Poetic]

Look how they was raised and by who is the first clue

I work 40 hours a week and not only that my mom is older, so i got to run errands for her

I need my rest daily.. thats like 2 jobs

And then i got to come home and clean up and do the yard work

Thats why men are checking out of this earth by age 60 nowadays

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

So glad that I was never stupid enough or brainwashed enough to EVER get married

 

[Apollo Creed]

Look how they was raised and by who is the first clue

I work 40 hours a week and not only that my mom is older, so i got to run errands for her

I need my rest daily.. thats like 2 jobs

And then i got to come home and clean up and do the yard work

Thats why men are checking out of this earth by age 60 nowadays

Men are pragmatic. Most modern men were raised to know how to clean and cook at least basic shyt. You then factor in cleaning services and meal delivery + Porn/Escorts you have man going down a path of extreme pragmatism that the cost for a Maid every few months + Meal Delivery + Free Porn or Paying a hooker is much cheaper than the burden of a relationship. Then you have the dudes who are like yeah a chick can be a FWB at best and we not doing shyt but fukking.

 

[UpAndComing]

Is there a reason why men dont put their foot down? Seems to be a common theme.

This doesn't explain anything though. Like why stay?

Because the Woman in the relationship will unleash Government power on the man

1. Use the power of a female in distress and call the cops on you
2. Use the power of the marriage contract and divorce you to take half (or more than half) of your assets


And that is held over a Man's head. This is why most don't put their foot down