why the fukk does an ex have the need to "see how you are doing"

GollyImGully

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you gotta remember, women are emotional creatures. when they feel down or lonely they reach out. i once fell into that trap like you. had me all like "is this gonna work out?" :lupe: but remember when they feel better they may not think about your ass. two weeks later it was like she didnt even remember hitting me up and leading me on.

i swear i never felt so swagless and pitiful in my entire life. just keep them text messages mad short or don't engage at all. if she really wants soemthing she'll call and tell you straight up how she feels. i hate when bishes do that feeler stuff via text. its insulting if you ever had anything meaningful with that person.

:salute: thats pretty much what i been saying to myself. if she really cared or had something worthwhile to say she would of called me instead of texting me acting like we all good and nothing happend :aicmon:

im thinking she prob got up in her emotions and just decided to hit me up...it was just weird seeing her act like everything was fine
 

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Funny cuz I was just thinkin the same thing breh

I'm almost bout to finish school to become a computer engineer and my ex of 3yrs every now and then would hit me up on some just checkin to c how I'm doing shyt. I don't got no fb twitter or any of the social network shyt so she got no way of seeing what I'm doing with my life . I did her wrong but she stay Callin me on my bday, thanksgiving, Xmas etc... I told her one day you gotta dude now why do you persist on getting at me ; her reply " I told you I'll still care about you and I haven't ruled out in the future" .

Smh little do she know it don't work like that for me.

The good ol, "I'll always care about you trick." HA! My ex still tells me that after he lied, cheated, lied some more and then got the girl he cheated on me with pregnant. Life is amazing. :mjlol:
 

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:mjpls: Speaking from experience?

why you gotta go there? :to:

Funny cuz I was just thinkin the same thing breh

I'm almost bout to finish school to become a computer engineer and my ex of 3yrs every now and then would hit me up on some just checkin to c how I'm doing shyt. I don't got no fb twitter or any of the social network shyt so she got no way of seeing what I'm doing with my life . I did her wrong but she stay Callin me on my bday, thanksgiving, Xmas etc... I told her one day you gotta dude now why do you persist on getting at me ; her reply " I told you I'll still care about you and I haven't ruled out in the future" .

Smh little do she know it don't work like that for me.

she knows you the nikka with the future, the nikka that's gonna pay the bills and the nikka that's gonna take care of his kids.
 
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