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If both husbands and wives work full time, then y’all better meal prep, cook something in bulk that y’all don’t mind eating for the next few days and take turns coppin take out on the way home.
"Why women don't want to cook or clean for men anymore?"
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CreepyMcCreeperson
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In my opinion, yes. Now I’m not going to sit around and starve, waiting for her to cook, or see something needs to be cleaned, and not clean it, but I think the woman should do the majority of the housework, if the man is the main breadwinner, and if they share the bills, the least she could do is take care of the cooking. But, let’s say he gets home before her, he could start dinner from time to time, or take out the family for dinner.
Ezekiel 25:17
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Men should be doing any type of maintenance for the house. Gutters, mowing grass, raking leaves, garbage,
Cleaning shouldn't be that hard, just don't be a slob setting shyt down everywhere.
TreySav
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If she’s working y’all gotta share them chores. Brehs be wanting provider/leadership perks without providing/leading
Having gone to culinary school I don't need a chick to cook for me. That was my mindset going in not to be complaining about some woman cooking for me married or not.
I cook, deep clean and I've put in a dishwasher. I just wanted to be self contained.
Marriage is a partnership. I've seen it from parents and other successful black couples.
Either learn to cook for yourself or starve brehs.
Fyi pick up a Cuisinart or all clad cookware set if u have the extra bread. 2 Don't put your set in the dishwasher wash them by hand. It ain't that hard. 3. Use a rubber spatula instead of a fork. You scratch your cookware that way .
Medium heat only not high as the range can go
Look into buying some trivets you don't wanna put a hot pan on a kitchen table naked . Cleaning the set I would say bar keepers friend.
Spend a few dollars get that 20% coupon and hit up your local bed bath and beyond get a set of scrub daddy sponges.
I cook, deep clean and I've put in a dishwasher. I just wanted to be self contained.
Marriage is a partnership. I've seen it from parents and other successful black couples.
Either learn to cook for yourself or starve brehs.
Fyi pick up a Cuisinart or all clad cookware set if u have the extra bread. 2 Don't put your set in the dishwasher wash them by hand. It ain't that hard. 3. Use a rubber spatula instead of a fork. You scratch your cookware that way .
Medium heat only not high as the range can go
Look into buying some trivets you don't wanna put a hot pan on a kitchen table naked . Cleaning the set I would say bar keepers friend.
Spend a few dollars get that 20% coupon and hit up your local bed bath and beyond get a set of scrub daddy sponges.
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Married breh was being a passive aggressive fakkit. He knew WTF he meant
Ezekiel 25:17
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I don’t mind doing my own cooking and cleaning. shyt doesn’t bother me really
I'm the type of man that want to make the wife's life as easy as possible. fukk around and tell her to quit and go part time.
I don't want a tired wife. I want an energetic one because when she energetic she do things for me
I HATE when dudes get their little bullshyt fantasy of what “marriage” is supposed to be shattered and then can’t back up their opinions.
The dude that was married explained EXACTLY how his marriage worked for HIM and the other dude was blubbering and blabbering like an idiot. Couldn’t come up with any counterarguments or logical reasoning for why the other guy should feel “wrong” in how his own household is run.
The dude that was married explained EXACTLY how his marriage worked for HIM and the other dude was blubbering and blabbering like an idiot. Couldn’t come up with any counterarguments or logical reasoning for why the other guy should feel “wrong” in how his own household is run.
It’s those little things that make all the difference. Even now, I got off earlier than my girl and there’s no way I’m going to sit here and starve until she gets home to cook
As far as cooking and cleaning, if you wanna be real, this is a western problem.
Women in America act like cooking and cleaning is some box they’re being put in. Like if you do that for your family you’re somehow less of a woman. You ain’t independent and all that bullshyt.
In reality cooking and cleaning should be a matter of pride. If your house is filthy and your family is unhealthy and unfed, that’s a source of shame.
But I get it now. These days you aren’t allowed to feel shame. So go on and make up some other bullshyt to hide from that.
And I’m not saying women should just cook and clean. But in America, you aren’t even allowed to ask a woman to do that shyt or else you’re branded a misogynist.
Also, if you will allow me to troll a bit, the dude who was married (im married too btw) said that there are no roles in his marriage. They’re a team.
You ever been on a team? In anything? Sports. School project. Whatever. You know that everyone has a role, right? One plays 3rd base. Another guy takes notes. Another guy researches this. Another guy plays goalie.
Roles do exist on teams. In fact, roles are what make teams work.
Women in America act like cooking and cleaning is some box they’re being put in. Like if you do that for your family you’re somehow less of a woman. You ain’t independent and all that bullshyt.
In reality cooking and cleaning should be a matter of pride. If your house is filthy and your family is unhealthy and unfed, that’s a source of shame.
But I get it now. These days you aren’t allowed to feel shame. So go on and make up some other bullshyt to hide from that.
And I’m not saying women should just cook and clean. But in America, you aren’t even allowed to ask a woman to do that shyt or else you’re branded a misogynist.
Also, if you will allow me to troll a bit, the dude who was married (im married too btw) said that there are no roles in his marriage. They’re a team.
You ever been on a team? In anything? Sports. School project. Whatever. You know that everyone has a role, right? One plays 3rd base. Another guy takes notes. Another guy researches this. Another guy plays goalie.
Roles do exist on teams. In fact, roles are what make teams work.
The reality is the wife is the one that makes the money. Any man talking about sharing responsibility don’t have power to push the line
Same. It's like they got this template and can't understand there are different ways to go about it.
Times have changed. The old school model isn't feasible for everyone.
I know couples where the man is home all day and cooks and cleans but that's because he works remotely pulling in bank
There's couples where the wife works second shift and she does grocery shopping and makes appts. during the day when there's less traffic. Then he makes food when work is over
There's couples where they both use a cleaning service and meal prep during weekends.
There's just so many different lifestyles that I'm still surprised some people still hang on to "ROLES"
Ezekiel 25:17
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As far as cooking and cleaning, if you wanna be real, this is a western problem.
Women in America act like cooking and cleaning is some box they’re being put in. Like if you do that for your family you’re somehow less of a woman. You ain’t independent and all that bullshyt.
In reality cooking and cleaning should be a matter of pride. If your house is filthy and your family is unhealthy and unfed, that’s a source of shame.
But I get it now. These days you aren’t allowed to feel shame. So go on and make up some other bullshyt to hide from that.
And I’m not saying women should just cook and clean. But in America, you aren’t even allowed to ask a woman to do that shyt or else you’re branded a misogynist.
Also, if you will allow me to troll a bit, the dude who was married (im married too btw) said that there are no roles in his marriage. They’re a team.
You ever been on a team? In anything? Sports. School project. Whatever. You know that everyone has a role, right? One plays 3rd base. Another guy takes notes. Another guy researches this. Another guy plays goalie.
Roles do exist on teams. In fact, roles are what make teams work.
Nah I can't agree with this. A woman that loves you, even the feminist ,will do those things. Some of these broads say a lot till they meet the right man. When you that guy, you get those things without even asking.
Either they stay single or get a guy who's OK with eating takeout all the time. How many dudes ok with a woman who can't cook?