"Why you fukking me but not helping"?....you see me doing bad but don't wanna help"

[Henny and_ HotWings]

wow

This vid only further proves that a large percentage of women nowadays are:

1) full of shyt
2) have daddy issues
3) are completely un-wifeable
4) and bring literally nothing to the table other than some p*ssy

it’s crazy because I been single for a year now and I actually be WANTING to be in another relationship... I’m not captain Save a ho but at the same time I like the general idea of “being in love” but it’s like as soon as I find out what 80% of these hoes is really about deep down inside, I be like



Like most of em are really useless outside of the bedroom... some bytches really be wanting a nikka to fix their lives for em... fukk am I even keeping you around for? You’re a liability rather than an asset



“Oh, I’m letting you fukk so I need you to do this for me, or give me this or take care of x,y and z” some chicks are no different than narcissistic prostitutes



Naw.... ima just get my nut, we can kick it a bit and then ima keep it movin. Chicks like the one in this vid are a prime example of why I just continue to be a single nikka...

 

[Robo Squirrel]

In.

 

[Black Steph Curry]

@Booksnrain if you and the rest of the ppl itt are in agreeance why lead off with an emotional titangraph? Seems like you were arguing with strawmen, projecting shyt onto the situation that wasn't originally there. This thread was never about women in general wanting more than sex from the men they deal with, this is about one woman, who clearly has nothing else positive in life going on but her p*ssy (even that is in question), showing extreme entitlement towards men who have something going for themselves, expecting them to take care of her. No man worth anything is going to take a woman like her seriously, that's called throwing good after bad. She's jumpoff material; any romantic dealings she has with men are going to be of the stick n move variety unless the man is a bigger loser than her. These are the facts. You know it, i know it, everybody here knows it.

So at that point she has 4 options: continue to be taken advantage of by men of worth, lower her standards, give up on men entirely and get stagnant and bitter, or get her mind right and level up so that she gives men of worth reasons to take her serious. Love and all that comes with it, ain't out of charity. But your original paragraph makes it sound as if you're making excuses for her by turning the topic of discussion from specifically about her delusions into a "you guys hate women, we deserve love too" strawman. Feel that way if you want to, good. But ima tell you right now if you want unconditional love, call mama. But out in the world if you want something you gotta put something up. And if all you have to offer is easy p*ssy, don't expect anything but easy dikk. Can't get entitled after the fact.

If you get nothing else from my post the bolded is what's important. That is the reason why cats on yo head in here.

 

[feelosofer]

Let's be reality she's one of those women who think being cute and having a p*ssy is a life skill. It isn't no one is responsible for your wellness except you and if she's doing so bad she shouldn't expect men with their lives together to bail her out.

 

[I'm Blackman]

This why you can’t fukk loser women. Too much to lose... imagine getting one of them pregnant.

Women who have their own shyt don’t think like this.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I haven't read everything you’ve said in the thread so I’m sorry if you’ve already addressed this but caring for someone you’re sexually active with and supporting them are two separate things. This chick wants someone to support her and I don’t see how you could have that expectation simply because you’re sexually involved with someone.

If her life isn’t panning out properly, it’s on her to course correct not on the people she’s sleeping with.

I have this expectation because that’s how I move and it’s worked best for me and the women who raised me. It just makes logical sense to me, meshes well emotionally and psychologically with my well-being and has helped me minimize being used by men or getting shyt twisted.

I’m not close with people I can’t rely on or who have demonstrated a lack of care for my well-being. Hell I had a guy friend tell me he couldn’t make it to help me move, so he paid for some movers to help a sister out. We ain’t never seen each other’s crotches!
But somebody who has been inside of you doesn’t care about you in your time of need?!

I honestly don’t know how some chicks operate like this. Casual sex and hook up culture doesn’t work for me. I’d be an emotional wreck if a dude did that to me. Just thinking about it makes me sad. If both partners are cool with the dynamic, then have at it.

But this chick is obviously wanting something other than just sex. So she needs to be honest with herself about her needs and move differently. But some chicks like lying to themselves pretending they just want dykk from dudes. Knowing good and well they want more.

I’ve never woken up one day and said “I just want some dikk! I don’t even need to like the nikka! In fact if he dies three seconds after I cum I wouldn’t give a fukk.”

If I’ve been intimate with you, chances are I care about you and want you to care about me as well and have seen some semblance of that prior to us seeing each other naked. Doesn’t necessarily mean you gotta foot my car note because I know there are chicks running game too. But it does mean you are happy to be near me, care about my well-being and want to protect me and accept my love and care as well.

But that’s just me. Obviously Coli men keep running into legions of ice cold women who just down to fukk, be sidechicks, get nutted on and want nothing in return, don’t need love, tenderness and care and are A-okay with being pumped and dumped so the shyt I say sounds like Greek.

 

[Hungerpain]

These empowered, independent /bad bytches always got they fukking hands out.

Either begging on the internet for attention and money or tryna finnese meals and "help" from suckers in real life.

True leeches.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

@Booksnrain if you and the rest of the ppl itt are in agreeance why lead off with an emotional titangraph? Seems like you were arguing with strawmen, projecting shyt onto the situation that wasn't originally there. This thread was never about women in general wanting more than sex from the men they deal with, this is about one woman, who clearly has nothing else positive in life going on but her p*ssy (even that is in question), showing extreme entitlement towards men who have something going for themselves, expecting them to take care of her. No man worth anything is going to take a woman like her seriously, that's called throwing good after bad. She's jumpoff material; any romantic dealings she has with men are going to be of the stick n move variety unless the man is a bigger loser than her. These are the facts. You know it, i know it, everybody here knows it.

So at that point she has 4 options: continue to be taken advantage of by men of worth, lower her standards, give up on men entirely and get stagnant and bitter, or get her mind right and level up so that she gives men of worth reasons to take her serious. Love and all that comes with it, ain't out of charity. But your original paragraph makes it sound as if you're making excuses for her by turning the topic of discussion from specifically about her delusions into a "you guys hate women, we deserve love too" strawman. Feel that way if you want to, good. But ima tell you right now if you want unconditional love, call mama. But out in the world if you want something you gotta put something up. And if all you have to offer is easy p*ssy, don't expect anything but easy dikk. Can't get entitled after the fact.

If you get nothing else from my post the bolded is what's important. That is the reason why cats on yo head in here.

I addressed that idea because it is connected to two extremes on either end.

On one hand, you have some men who simply want to use women sexually, all while calling them hoes, sluts, and blaming them for everything wrong in the community if fukking men who don’t care about you happens to result in 70% of black children being borne out of wedlock. It’s hard to ignore that dynamic in these conversations.

On the other hand, I’m actually not an advocate of men allowing themselves to be taken financially advantage of by women either. Because just like there are men who want to use women, there are also women who just wanna use men.

So the happy medium is what I said from the get go: the woman in the OP needs to fix her self-esteem and stop dealing with men who don’t give a damn about her. And men need to stop hunting for easy p*ssy and then clutching pearls at the consequences of dealing with easy p*ssy, while trying to demonize women who may have a completely reasonable expectation of wanting the person inside them to actually give a damn about them and be there when they need something other than a dikk.

All of this is pretty common sense advice, right?! Nope. Because we currently have a culture that is so dysfunctional in gender relations and glorifies users as “playas” and I got mine mentality, but it’s killing our community. That’s been my consistent perspective. Hasn’t changed. But dudes became offended and I dismantled a few fallacies, some faulty logic and here we are.

Hope your holidays are going well.

 

[Secure Da Bag]

I'm sure there's a 2020 version of this.....

Here’s what the elders told the men in our family to do.

Only make moves with a chick who a.) can demonstrate her worth to you b.) who also appreciates your hard work but doesn’t solely see you a wallet, c.) has more to offer than p*ssy d.) that actually likes you.

Good luck. Dudes lie and say I’m a feminist but I freely admit that a shyt ton of women ain’t shyt too. Be careful and my dad told me men should keep their wallets closed and women should keep their legs closed until u see they give a damn about you.

And my mom says courtship is a two-way street. I dunno if that helps but that’s all I got.

(Actually this advice probably makes it harder)

 

[93 til]

I guarantee you that 9/10 the ones that think like this box really ain't all that to justify this mindset.

Women that got shyt going for themselves don't think like this. She just tryna get over.

 

[IShotTheSheriff]

And here is the result of society coddling these stupid bytches for so long. They develop this sense of entitlement and lack accountability. Stupid bytch, you nothing more than a nut why the fukk we gotta figure your life out

Said harshly

All facts.

 

[Deuterion]

I have this expectation because that’s how I move and it’s worked best for me and the women who raised me. It just makes logical sense to me, meshes well emotionally and psychologically with my well-being and has helped me minimize being used by men or getting shyt twisted.

I’m not close with people I can’t rely on or who have demonstrated a lack of care for my well-being. Hell I had a guy friend tell me he couldn’t make it to help me move, so he paid for some movers to help a sister out. We ain’t never seen each other’s crotches!
But somebody who has been inside of you doesn’t care about you in your time of need?!

I honestly don’t know how some chicks operate like this. Casual sex and hook up culture doesn’t work for me. I’d be an emotional wreck if a dude did that to me. Just thinking about it makes me sad. If both partners are cool with the dynamic, then have at it.

But this chick is obviously wanting something other than just sex. So she needs to be honest with herself about her needs and move differently. But some chicks like lying to themselves pretending they just want dykk from dudes. Knowing good and well they want more.

I’ve never woken up one day and said “I just want some dikk! I don’t even need to like the nikka! In fact if he dies three seconds after I cum I wouldn’t give a fukk.”

If I’ve been intimate with you, chances are I care about you and want you to care about me as well and have seen some semblance of that prior to us seeing each other naked. Doesn’t necessarily mean you gotta foot my car note because I know there are chicks running game too. But it does mean you are happy to be near me, care about my well-being and want to protect me and accept my love and care as well.

But that’s just me. Obviously Coli men keep running into legions of ice cold women who just down to fukk, be sidechicks, get nutted on and want nothing in return, don’t need love, tenderness and care and are A-okay with being pumped and dumped so the shyt I say sounds like Greek.

I agree with you actually and I think it's healthy for a woman to expect that the men she gives her body to care about her. You also summed it up when you said she's "simping with her p*ssy" I think that was eloquently put. But in the end and not to belabor the point, a woman has to earn that role and with a dude like me, it won't be through sex. If you're a ratchet hoe and every 5 minutes you're sending me nasty hoe-ish memes, always sending me ass and tit pics, always telling me you want to fukk...don't expect me to regard you as a lady worthy of protecting.

I have this ratchet chick on my roster right now and she said "Im gonna wear some thot-ish shyt around you just to see how you react" and I said "you can do whatever you want, you just won't be going out with me..." and then I hit her with the Dave Chappelle line "If you don't want people to think you're a cop, don't dress like one". If I was talking to my daughter I would give her the same advice you're giving...don't sleep or even associate with people who don't care for your well-being, I think it's great advice. BUUUUUUUUT if you want to be under the protection of a respectable man, make sure you're a respectable lady.

 

[NinoBrown]

These empowered, independent /bad bytches always got they fukking hands out.

Either begging on the internet for attention and money or tryna finnese meals and "help" from suckers in real life.

True leeches.

Man or woman, you can't be a boss or self-made if you are relying on others to prop you up...

Can't proclaim any high level status if you got a wic card, shut off notice in the mail, and a empty gas card on deck....

Society has allowed women in general to behave like children and should be handled as such...

 

[Astroslik]

Man or woman, you can't be a boss or self-made if you are relying on others to prop you up...

Can't proclaim any high level status if you got a wic card, shut off notice in the mail, and a empty gas card on deck....

Society has allowed women in general to behave like children and should be handled as such...

Facts

And youre not a boss if you dont have employees either....but thats another convo.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Yall cats really be messing with some trifling women.

On the bright side its rare to run into these types of chicks past the age of 30.

I don't agree with this. Too many times I've heard of older women rushing into relationships, trying to have kids, and marriage. You get with a woman over 30 be prepared for those questions in a span of 3 years. Best believe it'll happen. And then there's the older women who more times than not bring more baggage aka kids and baby daddies.

If you not the type to mess with younger women, 24-27 is the sweet spot.