"Why you fukking me but not helping"?....you see me doing bad but don't wanna help"

[The Realist Perspective]

She’s not wrong.
And yes I know I’m on a male forum and ya’ll want women to give up everything and expect nothing in return.p*ssy, money, submission and don’t want women to ask or expect shyt outta you except dikk and side chicks.

But yes. Her mentality is 100% correct. The problem is her not being proactive and matching her actions to her mentality. She should have had this passionate epiphany BEFORE she fukked him.


I have personally only had sex with three black men my entire life. And I knew each of them for more than 4 years of was in a serious relationship with 2 out of the 3 before I ever became intimate with them. Never had an STD, never had an OOW baby. In fact NOBODY in my family on my dad or mother side ever has.

Why?
Not because I’m stuck up.
Not because I’m unrealistic.
Not because I’m trying to shyt test men or play games or any other dumb shyt men say to get women to give up p*ssy easy.

Its because my p*ssy won’t even work if you don’t or can’t demonstrate that you give a damn about me as a person. It’s that simple. I love myself too much to allow a sorry nikka to try and finesse me into getting a few wack strokes but can’t be there for me when I need someone.

Why the fukk would sex even be in the equation with a man who doesn’t care about if I’m hungry or need help, or a kind word in my time of need? Who don’t even care if I make it home safely?

If you don’t like me as a person, a friend, a human being, then the last place you need to be is between my legs.And I don’t give a fukk if that makes you mad. Fukk you. It’s my body and my life that I have to look out for.

All that sex no strings attached and “just fukking” shyt will never be the move for me as a woman because I could care less about how fine you are, how long your dikk is or your stroke game. My p*ssy won’t even let you in if you don’t treat the woman attached to her with kindness, respect, care, romance, and love. I’ve tried this shyt before. I know what it’s like to get horny and be like “lemme try the dikk out”. But It don’t work for me and the sex isn’t even satisfying. I’m not set up to just fukk people I don’t care about who don’t care about me. And hell I don’t even need a dude to pay rent so it ain’t even about that with me. I stay blessed, but I STILL don’t want just sex with a man. Sex divorced from genuine connection is worthless. A dude’s dikk has about as much value as penny with a hole in it outside of the context of his value as a human being, friend, mutual support system that I can love and be loved by and court mutually.

Women don’t realize, you don’t have to be the finest thing in the world to apply this mentality to your life. All you gotta do is love yourself. That’s how a woman can avoid these types of Ls. And that’s why you keep seeing women in these situations. Because life has beaten them down so much that they haven’t cultivated self love.

Now as for men When some of you hypocrites start pearl clutching about OOW rates, here’s what you need to realize. Ya’ll start this shyt by looking for unstable, low self-esteem chicks in dire straights to get easy p*ssy from. MANY of you clown women with standards, get mad at women who don’t give up p*ssy easy, say they playing games. But when the consequences of messing around with chicks like these come full circle, you wanna avoid accountability. THESE are the chicks some of ya’ll love to fukk with so much.

They’ll suck your dikk for next to nothing. These are the pick mes that some like to brag about. The side chicks ya’ll love dogging out. And when these unstable bytches have a trap baby and get these sorry dudes giving up 70% of their checks for child support, THEN it’s a problem. These are the baby mamas having black babies in dire situations. So while you looking at her, also save some hypocritical finger pointing for the sorry nikkas with low self-esteem who see she in a bad place and are still willing to use her for a nut, because he feels so broken as a man that the only thing he got is dikk and broken promises to offer somebody.
That nut he leaving behind due to him not valuing himself or his legacy is being left to a broken female vessel. That nut is just another black baby aborted or another black baby that goes on to be raised in a broken home while the rest of black men and women with sense refuse to have kids at all.

Stop fooling yourself. Ain’t no chick just down to allow you to use her sexually because your dikk is sooo amazing. She trying to leverage sex for love and emotional connection. She’s alone and wants love and affection and is hoping for some type of Full Metal Alchemist type transmutation of a bussdown situation becoming a family dynamic.

Dudes know this shyt and just keep leaving nuts behind in these types of chicks raw and everybody in the equation wrong as hell.

If it’s too long to read, I don’t give a fukk. Skip it. If it makes you mad, fukk yo feelings. If I’m talking about you then tighten up instead of bytching like a hurt dog hollering whether you the chick with self esteem in the gutter or the man whose only value is in his dikk.

If you don’t do shyt like this then join me on the sidelines and watch this shyt unfold while people try and pretend they don’t know what the hell is really going on.

In short...I would guess you're around your 30's, not married and with no children. You can sit on your high horse but ultimately, die alone on it. You didn't win in any measure.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Toxic dikk denial babble. Men die over p*ssy and waste their rent paying for PICTURES of chicks they’ll never touch. Da hell u fooling.
Anything can be a commodity if there is a high enough demand for it.

Men dont typically die over p*ssy books

Chicks be lying to nikkas

And nikkas be p*ssy whipped

That kills nikkas

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

No ma'am just have your financial affairs in order. That's all. This is the real world we've all got problems, your vagina doesn't entitle you to expect someone else to take care of them for you. Especially when the best description you have of the relationship with that person is "fukkin' on a nikka". You're having casual sex with him but you want to be in his pockets like you're his wife? There are relationships for that sort of financial commitment and she's not describing one of them.

You typed all of that out to try to redeem prostitution.

Nope. As a female if I’m going to lay down with you, you need to give a fukk about me. I’ll be damned if I pump artificial hormones in my body, pay for day after pills, take on potential STDs for some wack strokes when most chicks ain’t even being sexually satisfied.

You can preach that dumb shyt other chicks. My father died but I was never fatherless.This shyt don’t work on me. Hell what you trying to finesse is WORSE than prostitution. At least hoes get paid for the risks they taking. These chicks just getting fukked by dudes that can’t stand them and wearing nut on their faces for free.

Genuine mutual love and respect or keep your dikk away from me. If we fukking we there for each other. Otherwise we not fukkin. Simple shyt.

 

[Barlow]

also im coming around on paying for p*ssy in 2020. whats the difference at this point

still probably not for me personally

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

She wants love, respect, a support system and a man who wants to help and be there for her.

That’s what everybody wants but people like to desensitize themselves to perfectly normal human wants when we wanna get something from somebody without giving anything in return.

The way we talk about poor people is disgusting. The way we justify trying to exploit them is disgusting. She needs to love herself and get some self-esteem but that doesn’t justify sorry nikkas using and kicking her while she down.

And when the stats on our community hit and everybody going nobody wants to connect dots. As unstable as she is, that’s a future baby mama that dozens of sorry dudes will go to for easy p*ssy.
People need to stop.

if this was a broke dude getting p*ssy from a more well off woman, what would you be saying?
sex is sex you are adding a bunch of bullshyt on top
no one is entitled to anything when they are giving it up

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

In short...I would guess you're around your 30's, not married and with no children. You can sit on your high horse but ultimately, die alone on it. You didn't win in any measure.

The threat of dying alone is a useless illusion and last ditch effort a lotta men use to try and convince women to take Ls. Men die before women do anyway, so a woman could fukk and suck all the men in the world or play submissive Susie Homemaker and STILL end up alone.Sooooo NOPE.

Still not down with pretending to want mediocre dikk from nikkas who low key don’t give a damn about you.
Nice try tho. I get as a man it’s your biological impetus to try anything to convince a chick to give up p*ssy while putting in minimal effort.

How many others has this worked on I wonder?

 

[KillerB88]

What she said has some merit to it but it's also a slippery slope if y'all are just smashing. If I'm messing with a dude and I'm living and eating good but he's struggling a little bit, I'd help him out on gp. But the flip side is he's not my man so that's not my obligation.

Her expecting a man to be generous with his dikk and pockets who is not her man is the problem. Don't expect nothing but dikk on these dikk appointments sweetheart.

 

[TheNig]

She felt bad after that sermon

As real as this is, and it was real. It's also a bit unreal.

As a man why would I fukk with a bytch that's levels below me anyway? That's how you get caught up.

 

[I'm Blackman]

She probably listens to megan and city girls

Facts.

 

[jay83]

The threat of dying alone is a useless illusion and last ditch effort a lotta men use to try and convince women to take Ls. Men die before women do anyway, so a woman could fukk and suck all the men in the world or play submissive Susie Homemaker and STILL end up alone.Sooooo NOPE.

Still not down with pretending to want mediocre dikk from nikkas who low key don’t give a damn about you.
Nice try tho. I get as a man it’s your biological impetus to try anything to convince a chick to give up p*ssy while putting in minimal effort.

How many others has this worked on I wonder?

So basically use your vagina to get all you can from men cause most don’t give a damn about you anyway?

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

if this was a broke dude getting p*ssy from a more well of women, what would you be saying?
sex is sex you are adding a bunch of bullshyt on top
no one is entitled to anything when they are giving it up

That’s why I said she needs to work on her self esteem and standards. Some are so sex crazed that you get offended at a woman having ANY standards when it comes to sex.

But in the next thread, people will be wagging fingers about OOW rates. You want your dikks to be liberals and pussies to be conservatives.

It don’t work like that.

 

[HARLEM AL]

No not just p*ssy. It’s her health.
Raw p*ssy. Risk. Physical vulnerability with somebody who might rape and potentially beat your ass. The potential for life and pregnancy and possibly risking your life bleeding out on a hospital table because black women die 3x in childbirth in this country. 18 years raising a child possibly alone, having hypocritical nikkas who wanted you to fukk raw knowing the risks blame you for giving them what they wanted, for a nut he is more guaranteed to get than you as a woman are.

Yeah that can be everything. And any woman with sense shouldn’t be doing that with somebody who doesn’t respect, love or even fukking like her unless she is honest about the situation and can handle it.

I know this ain’t the fun or edgy or cool answer. I know this ain’t what our toxic Lord and Savior surrogate daddy Future would sell a dope mix tape off of. I know this ain’t hoe certified by City Girls.

But you can’t look me in the damn eye or any chick you give a damn about and tell em...naw she trippin.

p*ssy ain’t everything and a woman’s value isn’t solely located in her sex. But if she doesn’t learn to say “fukk you” to dudes trying to use her then it can become her entire existence.

Her statement was why should she keep fukking if he ain’t doing nothing for her. That insinuates she only have p*ssy to offer. Which means her p*ssy is everything to her.

If she doesn’t want to get pregnant she should make him wear condoms(I don’t understand why this is even mentioned because it was never brought up in the video).

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

So basically use your vagina to get all you can from men cause most don’t give a damn about you anyway?

Or be intimate with normal men who give a damn about you and don’t just wanna fukk you and bounce?
How did you NOT come to that simple conclusion first?!

 

[The Realist Perspective]

The threat of dying alone is a useless illusion and last ditch effort a lotta men use to try and convince women to take Ls. Men die before women do anyway, so a woman could fukk and suck all the men in the world or play submissive Susie Homemaker and STILL end up alone.Sooooo NOPE.

Still not down with pretending to want mediocre dikk from nikkas who low key don’t give a damn about you.
Nice try tho. I get as a man it’s your biological impetus to try anything to convince a chick to give up p*ssy while putting in minimal effort.

How many others has this worked on I wonder?

This is deeper than just dikk. Out of all of the 3 men you deemed worthy, why did you not get married to them? You care moreso about solid connections but it still sounds like you were pumped and dumped at the end of it all. You will be astonished how long a man's long game to p*ssy can be.

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

Or be intimate with normal men who give a damn about you and don’t just wanna fukk you and bounce?
How did you NOT come to that simple conclusion first?!

sex is a mutual exchange
if she is giving it up anything else is just bullshyt
no one is owed anything after the act