"Why you fukking me but not helping"?....you see me doing bad but don't wanna help"

[EA]

This mindset is extremely dusty. If you’re an adult, no one is responsible for your financial security other than you. A person’s obligation to their partner only kicks in at the point where marriage is something to be considered and that’s only because they would become liable for any debts as a spouse.

Your ability to earn, budget, save and spend responsibly is solely down to you.

 

[semicko82]

She wants the dude she’s attracted to, also be the provider guy

 

[semicko82]

Most women know a guy who can help them out when they need it, but they won't have sex with them. The woman in the op is most likely spending more money on the guys she's dating than vice versa, and she's tide of it, but she ain't about to stop, because women have to keep their foot on nice guys' neck. They got something to prove I guess.

 

[semicko82]

You cats take women way too seriously.

Change that from women to hood rats

 

[MikelArteta]

Succubus

men are interchangeable it’s just what they can get from you suck it dry and move on

only three things a woman can hold over you, puzzy, kids And a emotional attachment

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Are men really paying bills for women they’re not married to?

 

[number21]

Only had sex with three black men, which means she mostly sleeps with no black men, yet she dikk polices brehs.

y’all going to learn about this chick

nikkas are just too hard-headed to not learn from experience and trauma.

 

[HARLEM AL]

I don't agree with this. Too many times I've heard of older women rushing into relationships, trying to have kids, and marriage. You get with a woman over 30 be prepared for those questions in a span of 3 years. Best believe it'll happen. And then there's the older women who more times than not bring more baggage aka kids and baby daddies.

If you not the type to mess with younger women, 24-27 is the sweet spot.

There's a reason for this. A lot of them are professionals. The get everything first then they want to start a family. Everything is insert_____ here, Insert_____ here. Everyone and everything is suppose to plug and play. And when it don't happen exactly when they want it they panic...... And if they fine someone they want that person to be perfect without them working on their own flaws. A lot of them have never been a healthy relationship or better yet been in a relationship period.

 

[HARLEM AL]

It’s all goes post moving and entitlement. I know women in my life right now that got they shyt together and would look at that bullshyt she typed as pitiful.

A lot of her post are projections.

 

[Gold]

If I'm messing with a dude and I'm living and eating good but he's struggling a little bit, I'd help him out on gp.

Why?

That's relationship territory imo. If ya'll just meeting up for sex, doing any extra will just confuse the situation.

 

[Ahadi]

He didn’t put a ring on it. So he’s not required to do anything lol

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

HER PROBLEM IS HAVING RELATIONS AND NOT RELATIONSHIPS.

 

[NZA]

if you want to be totally taken care of, you need to:

1) be worthy of that much care
2) look for that type of man

i doubt she has done steps 1 or 2

 

[Crayola Coyote]

And here is the result of society coddling these stupid bytches for so long. They develop this sense of entitlement and lack accountability. Stupid bytch, you nothing more than a nut why the fukk we gotta figure your life out

That is why I said p*ssy is not a down payment to other perks men can offer you such as fixing cabinets and flooring tile. The dude is brining you dikk and you brining him p*ssy. That all it is but women think that if she fukking you you owe her a relationship

 

[Crayola Coyote]

She needs to get her life together before dating/sex anybody

is that you with your cat