Woman in a marriage she describes as great wants to divorce because at 28 she just doesn't know herself yet. :jackie

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This is ain't nothing to do with no frontal lobe:russ:

This is a bird:stopitslime:

marrying her at 35 won't change a damn thing, except you wil get an old version of her
She will divorce at 45 talking about divorce is a graduation or some dumb shyt

Staywoke

Or she just won't re-marry....what in the fukk makes people think this made up shyt is mandatory?

If you look up the history of marriage it wasn't for love, it was an economic tool and would even have expiration/renewal dates after 7 years or so in some cases.

She did 10 years, starting from an age where she BARELY had any life experience of her own and despite the love between her and her husband, they do not have a shared vision on where to go in life.
 

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Or she just won't re-marry....what in the fukk makes people think this made up shyt is mandatory?

If you look up the history of marriage it wasn't for love, it was an economic tool and would even have expiration/renewal dates after 7 years or so in some cases.

She did 10 years, starting from an age where she BARELY had any life experience of her own and despite the love between her and her husband, they do not have a shared vision on where to go in life.
This was only true in some places for a small group of people. Peasants did not marry for an economic goal, they married because tradition/kids/community. they married fro practical and religious/traditional reasons.

Aristocrats were the ones marrying with economic goals in mind, making moves, creating power couples, families alliances, etc.

Of course, marriage is not mandatory anymore. It's dying...

Most of the choices in your life are done when you barely have any life experience. If you wait to have life experience, you will wait until you 50 to marry, pick up a college or a job. For millenia, people marrried young. Nothing special over there.
 

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Marriage is the problem.

We did not incarnate as sovereign souls only to be owned and restricted from experiencing everything we want to experience. These antiquated relationship templates are broken and the more people keep trying to force-fit themselves inside them the more suffering there will be.
well said brother. hoes gonna be hoes I couldn't blame Tammy- was plato level philosophy Wayne dropped on us
 

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She wants to put that thang in the streets.

We all know what it is.

She wants street meat.

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Marriage is the problem.

We did not incarnate as sovereign souls only to be owned and restricted from experiencing everything we want to experience. These antiquated relationship templates are broken and the more people keep trying to force-fit themselves inside them the more suffering there will be.
This 100%.

The woman in the video just doesn't want to be married. It's an extremely restrictive lifestyle for most that keeps a lot of people from developing themselves.

I would say a huge % of women hate being wives. That's why there are so many mean mothers and wives...shyt even the girlfriends.
 

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Marriage is the problem.

We did not incarnate as sovereign souls only to be owned and restricted from experiencing everything we want to experience. These antiquated relationship templates are broken and the more people keep trying to force-fit themselves inside them the more suffering there will be.
Stupid Satanic takes like this are the problem. Nations and communities WILL NOT survive without families. No family, a whole city, state, nation will crumble. A whole bunch of pleasure seeking single people living like Peter Pan until they die is not sustainable. Even now, your own country has rely on immigration to stay afloat, because immigrants have families.
 

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A lot of people feel they "missed out" on something when they get locked down for many years at a young age. What's out there? What did I miss? She'll learn the hard way that she didn't miss shyt out there :russ:
Actually you do miss out on a lot when you decide to put yourself in restrictive situations.

Your probably talking about sex but there is way more to life that could be explored.

My BF got married straight outta high school and is still married. That was 20+ years ago.

In that time she has had 3 kids, gotten huge, suffered severe depression and had a serious shopping addiction to the point she was hiding purchases from her husband. That's it. She even has the same friends from HS.

In the same amount of time, I got BBA, lived in 3 states, did a tiny bit of traveling, made tons of friends, got 2 different professional certifications, opened several business, have 4 different careers and then learned and currently run a multi-million dollar business.

She literally hit me up last week and told me she was jealous that I went out and experienced life and that I don't have wrinkles. I have never once envied her life. She is in one of the many couples I know that have made realize that I never want to be married.
 
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