Woman on Youtube: I hate being a Mom

[Contrefaire]

So now you’re playing semantics lmaoo. “I said a lot of women, Not MOST! “ what a pathetic attempt at juelzing.

Semantics?? Are you retarded or do you just lack reading comprehension? "Most" and "a lot" have very different meanings grammatically speaking, but the fact that you seem to see them as interchangeable speaks volumes. Nothing that I said was "juelzing" in any way.

Just admit you said some stupid ass shyt and you’re applying a random situation to most of society

Admit WHAT now?

(e.g, you saying a situation of this magnitude is VERY common, which you can’t prove nor support you moron). You don’t have to provide context about your friends because it’s irrelevant to the discussion.

It’s not VERY common or normal. You threw some shyt at a wall hoping it would stick but it’s not based in reality. That’s YOUR shytty homegirls experience. Are you an adult? I shouldn’t be explaining this

Oh wow, you literally just sat there and made up fantasies on some GoT shyt......[/quote]

 

[Astroslik]

Semantics?? Are you retarded or do you just lack reading comprehension? "Most" and "a lot" have very different meanings grammatically speaking, but the fact that you seem to see them as interchangeable speaks volumes. Nothing that I said was "juelzing" in any way.



Admit WHAT now?

Just stop. You’re embarassing yourself. I’m glad you understand basic dictionary definitions. The point is you tried to make a distinction that didn’t really make a difference to your stupid ass argument. I don’t care if you said Most, common, normal, majority, more than half or whatever the fukk. My point is that your anecdotal experience is just that anecdotal and it isn’t the NORM.


Breaking myths about black fatherhood this Father’s Day - Chicago Reporter

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr071.pdf


Statistics>> your anecdotal hoe babble. Black men are the most involved fathers compared to any other race. Apparently you must know more than the CDC. This negates all the dumb shyt you’ve said because statistics show that your argument is in the inverse. It’s NORMAL and more common for black men to be involved. Being a bum ass husband and father isn’t the norm like ya homeboy, patna.

I hope you learned something tonight. Although it seems like we can’t have a intelligent discussion because I’m talking to a wall or someone that can’t comprehend why his/her experiences don’t speak for the majority. This is a waste of time. Atleast @Booksnrain makes sense with some of the stuff she says. You on the other hand just come into threads with your Superman outfit on ready to admonish men and never hold women accountable. You need to find a new gimmick.

 

[Contrefaire]

Just stop. You’re embarassing yourself. I’m glad you understand basic dictionary definitions. The point is you tried to make a distinction that didn’t really make a difference to your stupid ass argument. I don’t care if you said Most, common, normal, majority, more than half or whatever the fukk. My point is that your anecdotal experience is just that anecdotal and it isn’t the NORM.


Breaking myths about black fatherhood this Father’s Day - Chicago Reporter

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr071.pdf


Statistics>> your anecdotal hoe babble. Black men are the most involved fathers compared to any other race. Apparently you must know more than the CDC. This negates all the dumb shyt you’ve said because statistics show that your argument is in the inverse. It’s NORMAL and more common for black men to be involved. Being a bum ass husband and father isn’t the norm like ya homeboy, patna.

"Just stop. You’re embarassing yourself."

LMAO, I agree.

 

[Astroslik]

"Just stop. You’re embarassing yourself."

LMAO, I agree.

The first step is admitting you have a problem. A second step is knowing when to concede and stop while you’re ahead of yourself, which you’ve done (e.g, you looking dumb and can’t address any points and when I hit you with some stats you fellll back) I’m happy for you. Now go outside tomorrow and touch some grass and enjoy the world. I’d hate to live in that shytty bubble you’re in with a normalcy of bum ass husbands and questionable decision making wives.

This is my last response to you. Don’t even bother replying.

 

[Dontay Flaco]

Reasons why I'll never have kids lol. Call me selfish or whatever, I enjoy my childless freedoms too much.
Being a parent is a hell of a responsibility. Salute to all of the parents!.. But yall can keep that shyt!

 

[The Fade]

Nope I know plenty of men just like him. Men don’t live with men. Many of you have no clue how entitled you can be. I’ve seen these dynamics in my own family and friends as well. Blk men may be better but many still struggle with the entitlement many men feel when they want a chick to be their personal chef, maid, nanny, pornstar that they can cheat on from time to time as well.

It’s not debatable so you can have ur views and I’ll have my views.

Debatable, many black men don’t ask for shyt and are too prideful. That’s why a lot of black men work themselves to death. Black men die standing at work. Watching my father do it and wither away before my eyes now despite my help. He watched his father do it and so on and so forth. I’m around more black people daily than most people and actually engage. Common theme is nikkas don’t feel like they deserve shyt unless he comes home Half dead. It ain’t just y’all, lot of men my age do not want to be like their fathers in that regard and don’t wanna be disrespected as well. Too many dead John Henry’s being written out of history and not respected. fukk that. The women in this community are not just passive patient saints waiting to exhale, they have their own entitlement issues along with the men.

How do I know? Because it’s both black men and women (and other groups of people) killing my father with their entitlement and neediness, betrayals and backstabbing etc despite all that he’s done.

Not everyone comes from the same circle of black people. I know too many men who go above and beyond despite working 11-13 hours a day and plus community shyt. The women are just as entitled especially the further you get into black upper class. So it isn’t just some mimesis shyt. There’s been wedge before the triangular trade and it ain’t just one genders fault