Except I didn't say "most women", I said 'a lot', but it is a VERY common/'normal' situation. And with regard to this "she should've chose better" bullshyt...we've all been friends since grade school. He's always been a solid dude in other aspects and nothing about his character hinted that he would become a lazy, "hands off" and thoughtless father and husband. He's the one who wanted marriage and kids the most in the first place and pushed for it heavy.
So now you’re playing semantics lmaoo. “I said a lot of women, Not MOST!
“ what a pathetic attempt at juelzing. Just admit you said some stupid ass shyt and you’re applying a random situation to most of society (e.g, you saying a situation of this magnitude is VERY common, which you can’t prove nor support you moron). You don’t have to provide context about your friends because it’s irrelevant to the discussion. Generally people just done flip a switch for the better or worse once they get to adulthood. I’m sure there were SIGNS but you can’t know that because it’s not your relationship. She probably saw things that made her think it was a red flag.
It’s not VERY common or normal. You threw some shyt at a wall hoping it would stick but it’s not based in reality. That’s YOUR shytty homegirls experience. Are you an adult? I shouldn’t be explaining this.
As if I haven’t already decimated your argument, I’ll just leave this here(albeit an older study but it provides context)
Breaking myths about black fatherhood this Father’s Day - Chicago Reporter
https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr071.pdf
Statistics>> your anecdotal hoe babble. Black men are the most involved fathers compared to any other race. Apparently you must know more than the CDC. This negates all the dumb shyt you’ve said because statistics show that your argument is in the inverse. It’s NORMAL and more common for black men to be involved. Being a bum ass husband and father isn’t the norm like ya homeboy, patna.
LMAO, what the fukk is this!? We just making up shyt to fit an imaginary narrative now, huh?
Says the guy who claims that his homegirls shytty relationship situation is “VERY COMMON” or normal as if that extreme example is common based in our society. A bum ass nikka who smokes weed everyday while negating his family and household duties is not NORMAL, that’s a sub demographic of bum ass nikkas. But it could be NORMAL in your circle and the people you’re around, but that says more about you than anything.
Further, you pulled some shyt from a individual anecedotal experience to come up with this narrative that these situations are common. You’re doing EXACTLY what you’re claiming I’m doing. You’re not the sharpest tool in the shed when it comes to debates
It’s a reasonable and fair question to ponder if the wife of a bum ass nikka might have questionable characteristics.
Oh wait..are you one of those bytch nikkas that don’t hold any woman accountable? Are you afraid to admit your homegirl made a shytty decision and maybe just maybe she has some blame in this?
You always come into threads bashing men and don’t have any smoke for aint shyt bytches, you’re not objective. You’re a male feminist or a woman. The worst kind though, the type that can’t even have a good faith honest objective discussion. You’re just on the opposite end of the same spectrum as these weirdo incel nikkas who bash women.
I’ve seen these dynamics in my own family and friends as well. Blk men may be better but many still struggle with the entitlement many men feel when they want a chick to be their personal chef, maid, nanny, pornstar that they can cheat on from time to time as well.
