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The funny shyt is nikkas will clown the chicks that stupidly have kids but not the dumb ass dudes who helped make the baby:dead:


It will be dudes that have kids by chicks trying to talk shyt too:mjlol:


shytty parents all around :wow:
Plenty probably in this very thread. As if both people didn't make a dumb decision. Only one of em really has to LIVE with it though.
 

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I don’t if it’s an American thing but we coddle ain’t shyt people
Don’t know the reasoning behind it

It directly ties into freedom. Freedom and individuality being rights allows people to be stupid/subpar. It's not nearly as cutthroat as it should be and standards aren't rigid. There are virtually no actual meritocracies in America, because most people know they're not nice at anything like that and would rather fake it/network there way through as opposed to put the work in.

Historically America has had fortunate outcomes because of luck, and others on the world stage playing themselves, Murica actually eas never that nice at much, the pendulum has been swinging the other way in terms of fortune and outcomes as of recent.

Remember the only thing we're #1 is brute force (ie. military), not intelligence, technology, innovation, education, etc.

If India and China peaced it up over their border disputes and made a triumvirate with Russia shyt would get spooky virtually immediately.

People won't admit Russia effectively controlled the presidency for four years. Amerikkka's the land of mirages and camouflages word to Yasiin Bey
 

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Plenty probably in this very thread. As if both people didn't make a dumb decision. Only one of em really has to LIVE with it though.
Biiiiiig facts

If you're a woman you SHOULD be strict with your boundaries. Literally one cell can completely change your life and dude can just dip and move on like nothing ever happened.

Women are at tremendous risk. Theres nothing wrong with saying no even to the superstar nikka if you ain't ready for the consequences of pregnancy and child rearing.
 

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The funny shyt is nikkas will clown the chicks that stupidly have kids but not the dumb ass dudes who helped make the baby:dead:


It will be dudes that have kids by chicks trying to talk shyt too:mjlol:


shytty parents all around :wow:


stop.
do you have a child?
if not.
just stop.


if you do not have children and not a povdrty maker.
it is just like children. Do not speak on subjects you do not know from real actualization.



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Plenty probably in this very thread. As if both people didn't make a dumb decision. Only one of em really has to LIVE with it though.

No shyt, one would think the person with higher risk/responsibility would use higher discretion, but
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This is what happens when you have kids with the wrong person or aren't mentally ready yet.

Oh well, I'm about to play some 2k before work...

#NoKidsGang
 

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Just cause the dad is there doesn’t mean the mom ain’t doing 90% of the child rearing.
I don't necessarily disagree with your sentiment, but on the flip side there are A LOT of women out there who try and project this "strong woman" narrative which calls for them to take on unnecessary burdens. For example, my wife refused to let me help her out with our children when they were infants as much as I would have preferred to. Despite me constantly reminding her "that you can't pour from an empty cup," she insisted on taking on more responsibilities than she had to. I believe this stemmed from the fact that her dad wasn't around a lot when she was a child so she was accustomed to her mother doing everything. Fast forward to adulthood and here she is trying to emulate her role model to her personal detriment. Not to mention, I feel plenty of women believe men are totally incompetent when it comes to child-rearing. While I believe the nurturing process comes to most women more naturally than most men, it doesn't mean women don't make mistakes during the process. It just seems the husband or father isn't usually around to witness these mistakes and pass judgment. The majority of humans, male or female, learn from their mistakes. It would behoove new moms to understand and embrace this fact.
 

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I have a male cousin and he in the opposite of that

He married to a Dr.
And they have 3 girls

He the 100%
His wife is always at work and don't do shyt in the house

He works full time too but he cooks, cleans and takes care of the kids

I told his ass he should have left her long ago

He found out she cheated on him during her residency after med school too


He a sucka fa love and need to file for divorce.
You can not have any argumentative or authoriative sway.
If you stay in a relationship with a cheat and you have children present. It is abuse of the highest order. That your actions or failure to act creates the loss of sway and authority as well.

That is why a mother or a father who stays with a cheat. Makes themselves powerless by proxy.
Plus creatws know no goods in the environment by proxy as well. As children are distinctly aware of virtue being present.
Plus if they are reared by someone with virtue or without.




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No shyt, one would think the person with higher risk/responsibility would use higher discretion, but
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Corny. People obviously make mistakes and are not perfect. With that in mind, the mistake affects one more than the other. Besides you are hardwired to want to fukk. The ego is just that, the ego, and it will not always win against base human desire.
 

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Corny. People obviously make mistakes and are not perfect. With that in mind, the mistake affects one more than the other. Besides you are hardwired to want to fukk. The ego is just that, the ego, and it will not always win against base human desire.

In other words your saying some people have lower discipline, discretion, and decision making skills despite an abundance of information and tools to aid them in strengthening the aforementioned, but you choose to give them sympathy anyway. Do you playa, but common sense and logic isn't corny.

I'm not going to speak on your personal life but you are telling on yourself heavily with this logic, unless you're a major empath or something.

Btw you (and others of this ilk) use mistake far too loosely. Me missing a credit card payment is a mistake. Me creating a whole ass human being unintentionally is being a reckless, impulsive, short-sighted, naive loser ESPECIALLY in 2021, but that's just my 2 cents

Be blessed breh :mjgrin:
 

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Corny. People obviously make mistakes and are not perfect. With that in mind, the mistake affects one more than the other. Besides you are hardwired to want to fukk. The ego is just that, the ego, and it will not always win against base human desire.
If youre a woman, you should have plan b on deck if the man you're messing with wants to go raw and you don't have any contraceptives like an IUD or birth control pills and you don't know for certain if he has enough control to not nut inside.

If youre a man you should have Trojans and wear that shyt. Don't leave it to chance. This ain't rocket science. Millions of people fukkin and doing so SAFELY. If you can't afford contraceptives you cant afford no damn kid :mjlol:
 
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