A lot of people ain't fit to be parents. It's a fukking disgrace. In my comings and goings, I always see how people treat their kids. Either they're not walking side by side with them in the street and letting them walk about 5 steps behind them, or they're talking filthy to them. I always see them yanking their kids by their arms and they literally don't give a fukk about the harm that they cause their children. A lot of people don't give a fukk about their kids despite what people want to say.
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Vodun
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Your right. Alot of great people in history were parents. So having kids really isn't excuse to stop being your best self and doing what you love
NaijaProdigy Redux
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This is why if you’re not ready or don’t want kids just tell people to fukk off with constantly asking you - as if they are going to contribute financially or time wise
The lack of free time honestly frightens me the most
The lack of free time honestly frightens me the most
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Scustin Bieburr
Baby baybee baybee UUUGH
Most people really don't think deeply about WHY they want kids. They think "i don't want to miss out. I dont want to live my life knowing I could have been a mom and I missed out on a huge part of life"
They don't think of the crying at 3am for no reason. They don't think of the rudeness, they don't think of the obsessive behavior some kids have(watching the same movie 3x in a row
). They don't think of the feeling of knowing your child is sick but too young to tell you exactly whats wrong. They don't think about the constant worrying about what might happen to them when they go out completely on their own and you don't know who they hanging wit. They don't think of the monetary costs.
Not everyone needs to be a parent or has the temperament, finances, intelligence or support system to successfully raise a child who won't be a problem to others. Having a child is a huge decision that shouldn't be taken lightly. 1 life can affect millions. We're living through a pandemic because someone nutted in a Chinese woman, had a child who wasn't discouraged from eating rats, bats, pangolins and shyt, and was too stupid to store and butcher those animals properly. Because of that 1 person over a million are dead.
They don't think of the crying at 3am for no reason. They don't think of the rudeness, they don't think of the obsessive behavior some kids have(watching the same movie 3x in a row
). They don't think of the feeling of knowing your child is sick but too young to tell you exactly whats wrong. They don't think about the constant worrying about what might happen to them when they go out completely on their own and you don't know who they hanging wit. They don't think of the monetary costs.Not everyone needs to be a parent or has the temperament, finances, intelligence or support system to successfully raise a child who won't be a problem to others. Having a child is a huge decision that shouldn't be taken lightly. 1 life can affect millions. We're living through a pandemic because someone nutted in a Chinese woman, had a child who wasn't discouraged from eating rats, bats, pangolins and shyt, and was too stupid to store and butcher those animals properly. Because of that 1 person over a million are dead.
god shamgod
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A co worker said this same thing in a round about way(she has a 5 & 2y/o).It’s like these chicks don’t think about this when they are lettin dudes bust in them
talking bout she needs “me time” that shyt is over until your kids are damn near self sufficient adults. this same chick who told me this 4 months pregnant right now
talking bout she needs “me time” that shyt is over until your kids are damn near self sufficient adults. this same chick who told me this 4 months pregnant right now
You crazy if you think this only applies to Americadumb ass American bytches
. Plus it seems like shes dealing wtih depression anyway.
BE A PIECE OF SHIIT BRODIES
datnigDASTARDLY
catching pigeons
It's hard out here sometimes.
You let them kids get the best of you and they will test every fiber of your being if you let em.
I love these knuckleheads of mine tho
You let them kids get the best of you and they will test every fiber of your being if you let em.
I love these knuckleheads of mine tho
I’ve actually seen this conversation before. There was confession post, set up for parents, to talk about if they regret being parents. Some people expressed that they didn’t like parenthood, didn’t like their kids, some didn’t even love their kids. In the end the vast majority said they wouldn’t change a thing if given the choice. They felt is was their responsibility to raise their children and would fulfill their responsibilities.
As I grew up I realized that my parents were party animals. Having one child was hard enough. Having second child (me) was extremely stressful to them because they had wake up every morning and pretend to be somebody they weren’t. Sometimes it seemed like their dislike for their new lifestyle was projected onto us. In the end we knew they’d tear the bones out their bodies to keep us safe. They even found happy mediums and hobbies to fulfill their own social needs.
I wonder if all parents feel like that sometimes.
As I grew up I realized that my parents were party animals. Having one child was hard enough. Having second child (me) was extremely stressful to them because they had wake up every morning and pretend to be somebody they weren’t. Sometimes it seemed like their dislike for their new lifestyle was projected onto us. In the end we knew they’d tear the bones out their bodies to keep us safe. They even found happy mediums and hobbies to fulfill their own social needs.
I wonder if all parents feel like that sometimes.
Being a parent is truly a pain in the ass, along with being a husband. Its a entire different struggle from the single life, yet it is a huge payoff is breaking the cycle that most kids are going through nowadays along with couples. Yes, we as parents desire a bit of alone time. Hence why I step out and get a breather to come back and realize that I am blessed, despite how frustrating hearing a whiny ass child and a nagging old lady
Lol thats how most single mothers/young parents think.....why u think most kids from those typa homes come out fukked up and abused? Bc they were made thru recreational sex with no love involved and their parents see them as burdens and remind them of it every chance they get.
Why u think some of these aint shyt parents are estatic to get their kids out as soon as they turn 18? They never wanted the kid to begin with and see it as a hindrance.
Why u think some of these aint shyt parents are estatic to get their kids out as soon as they turn 18? They never wanted the kid to begin with and see it as a hindrance.
NaijaProdigy Redux
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Yes, we as parents desire a bit of alone time. Hence why I step out and get a breather to come back and realize that I am blessed, despite how frustrating hearing a whiny ass child and a nagging old lady
Be fully honest. What are the biggest downsides with marriage? Truly interested in hearing from someone that is actually married as opposed to single people
Deep_Black_Conscious
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fukk that parent lifestyle
babysitting my little cousins alone was enough for me to know how miserable that shyt it is
babysitting my little cousins alone was enough for me to know how miserable that shyt it is
Steel
Superstar
Move to a 3rd world country where a live in maid/babysitter is only like $400 a month. My old coworker did.
My uncle and his was paying FOB Ghanaian woman 500 week to care for his 3 kids and be a housekeeper. Even though it came out to 2000 a month they still came out ahead of you compare daycare and maid services.