It's female nature breh.
Women are always going to do some shyt that you gotta check.
They may not even be purposely doing it..but once in awhile they'll do some stupid ass shyt that the man has to check.
She could be respecting you..it's just her nature to also test for weak spots In the frame...that's when some bullshyt will happen where you will have to reassert your position in the relationship and let her know you still got it.
It could.be little shyt like her wanting to switch the date location at the last minute. She.could be doing it on purpose or she could naturally just be that spontaneous type that does shyt on a whim...maybe you were.out into her life to keep that spontaneous shyt in check every now and then.
Sometimes a lioness will every now and then try to eat before the King and then the King has to put the paw on her because the lioness was trying to test him to see if he got softer.