Woman says it didn't last with nice guy because he wouldn't put her in her place

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Jesus Christ

 

[Geordi]

She tried to turn a good guy into a badboy and he wouldn't budge. Let him find someone more pleasant

 

[King_Kamala61]

It ain't even arguing..naturally women will just do shyt that needs to be tamed or checked.

I've been In Relationships where it was going great..not much pushback from her. Just her nature she'd always want to do goofy shyt and want me to join in...not realizing that the goofy shyt would make her lose attraction.

I would have to tell her "No I'm not doing that goofy shyt...".


You get what I'm saying?

Yin and Yang...

No lol. That woman sounds like a headache and if yall got married and you were some how incapacitated that woman would burn your kingdom without your guidance.

Yall really expect and accept this child like behavior from grown adult women????

 

[Rasille]

That’s what happens when you tolerate disrespect. Lesson learned for whoever her ex is

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

So "boss bytches" really don't want to be a boss now?

All that boss talk shyt was always just smoke and mirrors. Women want to feel protected and provided for. End of story. It's been like that since the beginning of time and a few hundred years of progressivism ain't gonna change that.

If a guy is too weak and submissive (the proverbial "nice guy")she's thinking "this dude can't protect me. As a matter of fact, he's moving like he needs me to protect him"

It's why many women will test the boundaries of nice guys and see if they can man up. If they have some sense of empathy, they'll just eventually dump the guy and move on. If they are demonic, they'll use him for his resources and entertain other men on the side.

A lot of dudes are gonna get defensive by what that woman said in the video, but she's being brutally honest.

Obviously if the woman comes from a dysfunctional background then that whole dynamic becomes even more extreme.

 

[BlaccSunrise]

I've said it a thousand times and I'll say it again...

A woman would rather be beat to death, then be bored to death.

Had to enlarge it so everyone gets it through their heads.

 

[Spence]

This why women get smacked up all the time outside the US.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

Why would a man want a woman who they always have to put them in their place? To me, thats counter productive. If a relationship is about two people coming together and building, what can you build if you got a woman who don't know what they're doing? Every time I turn around I got to check that bytch. Not saying a woman doesn't get sideways from time to time. But the woman in the clip seems like a problem and is only good for a bed buddy.

What she's saying is that she wants a man who can set boundaries for himself and protect those boundaries. I think it's related to their need for safety. If you can't set boundaries for yourself, in her mind that means you won't be able to keep her safe from danger.
Setting boundaries might come naturally for you if you're a healthy man with confidence, but you'd be surprised at the number of guys who are absolute doormats.

I get what you're saying though, some women will keep testing your boundaries because they constantly need to reaffirm that you're strong. That's typically the case with women who were abused as children and simply grew up in dysfunction.

 

[BlaccSunrise]

She's loved up with this guy who is 15 years younger than her.

Titties on the right hanging on for dear life

 

[Wildhundreds]

All that boss talk shyt was always just smoke and mirrors. Women want to feel protected and provided for. End of story. It's been like that since the beginning of time and a few hundred years of progressivism ain't gonna change that.

If a guy is too weak and submissive (the proverbial "nice guy")she's thinking "this dude can't protect me. As a matter of fact, he's moving like he needs me to protect him"

It's why many women will test the boundaries of nice guys and see if they can man up. If they have some sense of empathy, they'll just eventually dump the guy and move on. If they are demonic, they'll use him for his resources and entertain other men on the side.

A lot of dudes are gonna get defensive by what that woman said in the video, but she's being brutally honest.

Obviously if the woman comes from a dysfunctional background then that whole dynamic becomes even more extreme.

She's a dysfunctional woman obviously.. And all this "woman needs protection" talk. Need protection from what and who? Give examples please.. I need to know.

 

[Hersh]

seen 2 bird babble threads this morning already.. sheesh

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

This broad is
But we gotta stop this misconception that the “good guy” is the soft timid passive guy

That's what they mean when they say "nice guy" or "good dude".
"Nice guy" is a euphemism for soft guys who put them up on a pedestal.

They wouldn't refer to a CEO breh with self confidence and an abundance mindset as "a nice guy". Most of the "bad boys" in their romance novels are not thugs and criminals. It's rich powerful men, men who have authority of some kind.

 

[DaRealness]

If you don't immediately BUSH a chick like this permanently, you lost. Its one thing when inevitable disagreements naturally arise from time to time, because that's life. But I just refuse to deal with someone who starts conflict just to do it. That shyt isn't cute.

It ain't about not being able to check them, it's about your own peace of mind and letting go of a female who makes it a point to be a headache. No man in their right mind will deal with that. The best way is to cut her loose and let her take her bullshyt elsewhere.

 

[Software]

It's a thing. Basically it's setting boundaries and letting her know those boundaries. You can be a nice guy and still get women to maintain attractiveness to you. You just CANNOT BE A DOORMAT.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

She's a dysfunctional woman obviously.. And all this "woman needs protection" talk. Need protection from what and who? Give examples please.. I need to know.

Other men. Poverty. The elements. Do I have to spell it out for you?

If you haven't realized that woman evolved to seek protection and safety from their potential mates, then there's no point going back and forth over this.