Women and Cold Approaching

Dave24

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I got a long-time friend like this.

Used to be a badass football player in HS too.


Was benching like 315 and was getting awards from different games and shyt.

Just works, pays his mortgage and plays videogames now. Think he a virgin too. Very odd thing but he a good dude (age 30).

What job/career does your friend have?
 

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I am 35 years old and a virgin. I have social anxiety and am socially awkward/inept. To get comfortable with women and get to a point where I can sleep with them. A few people online recommended cold approaching women at stores, walmart, etc, etc. Are women receptive to being cold approached in stores, grocery stores, etc?

If so, I want to start approaching women at Wal-Mart and grocery stores.


EDIT: I want to get an escort/s in the future but currently don't have the money and still live with my mother.



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I can't say I'm disappointed because I don't know you personally, but you've been talking about this for years now and haven't made any progress based on this topic.

You are 35, still living with parents, working an entry-level job, self-admitted obese and socially awkward. That puts you in the bottom 10% of all men full-stop. Don't care about you being a virgin because that's not your biggest problem and won't be fixed even with a lay, you may pass Steve Carell's record, you may not. Social Anxiety doesn't get fixed in a weekend of cold approach either.

If you had got from behind the dish station and become a Server-Bartender, then got a second job so you're putting in 60-70 hours weekly, you would have better social skills than you have now. You would have confidence because you wouldn't be broke and have the option of moving to a better city, even if it wasn't a big city in GA like Columbus or Macon. You wouldn't have time to eat junk food and be 300+ lbs. Looks matter, in the Dating marketplace and the workplace, don't let anyone tell you different. Most women do not want to be approached by an obese man unless you have money or status you can rub off on them.

Being stagnant or making some mistakes in your 20's is acceptable but your situation is awful. I'm early 30's now and working to make clear separations from my 20's. All a High School Grad would have to do is take baby steps until age 20 to pass you up. If you aren't trolling I hope you get it together.
 

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Wanna sleep around and then companionship

You were supposed to be doing that 15 years ago. If you're just looking at women like objects, but jacking off everyday they can sense that about you. They're not gonna be looking at you as a sex object either. Slow down on touching yourself and pray that you can come across a homely chick that would be willing help you mature into a being a better man someday.
 

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Don’t cold approach breh. It’s shotty in this gen and the results ain’t great:patrice:gonna have to find a girl to smash thru mutual friends/family hooking you up/school/work
 

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Don’t cold approach breh. It’s shotty in this gen and the results ain’t great:patrice:gonna have to find a girl to smash thru mutual friends/family hooking you up/school/work
You live in Cali, you shouldn't have any issues approaching and that's crazy to miss so many potential good looking women.
 
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