Women are getting pumped and dumped too much so they’re resorting to “Shrekking”

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If an obese single mother claims she’s looking for a 6’ man who makes 6 figures, but ends up with a Coli breh who works at Amazon is that really dating down?

Most of the women doing this aren’t even settling or dating down. They’re dating the men who they’re supposed to be dating. :skip:
No it’s not

It’s just women aren’t realistic here in America and have a herd mentality on what value is over here.

If they dated not for just looks, but for whoever makes the feel happier to be alive, then they would choose better.

Instead, they choose based off of what society says/thinks is of value. What they want to be “seen” with/as.

At least, that’s what they say and why we have so many women with multiple kids/baby fathers and one select group of men in a certain area having all these kids and not taking care of any.


But they are definitely a step closer to settling into reality. A 4 thinks she is a 6 and deserves a 7 but settles with a 5 and decides to be unhappy with the decision, while bruh is probably just happy he is not with a 2 and allows himself to get treated like shyt. This isn’t just about looks either But this happens a lot though.

This sounds like they are settling in their weight class but they don’t like it
 

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A win is a win, #uglygang, we did it mayne

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In the last week I have had conversations with 2 of my gfs who in a round about way admit to this.

They both still get played. :mjlol:

Women will do anything to get a man except be a person that someone wants to be around.

Both look amazing but I wouldn't date either if I was a guy. They are clueless.

The first got dumped by a dude who looks like a gremlin. He told her he couldn't date her anymore because his mom doesn't like African American women. Only for him to then go around and date her African American friend. He didn't know they were friends.

The second had to leave a dude without a car in a parking lot because he was yelling at her to go make a stop and buy him some weed. He didn't text her after that for a month. Now she's geek that a gigantic dude bought her some chipotle.

:mjlol:

I usually don't spend a ton of time around women. I didn't know it was this bad out here.
 

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In the last week I have had conversations with 2 of my gfs who in a round about way admit to this.

They both still get played. :mjlol:

Women will do anything to get a man except be a person that someone wants to be around.

Both look amazing but I wouldn't date either if I was a guy. They are clueless.

The first got dumped by a dude who looks like a gremlin. He told her he couldn't date her anymore because his mom doesn't like African American women. Only for him to then go around and date her African American friend. He didn't know they were friends.

The second had to leave a dude without a car in a parking lot because he was yelling at her to go make a stop and buy him some weed. He didn't text her after that for a month. Now she's geek that a gigantic dude bought her some chipotle.

:mjlol:

I usually don't spend a ton of time around women. I didn't know it was this bad out here.

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In the last week I have had conversations with 2 of my gfs who in a round about way admit to this.

They both still get played. :mjlol:

Women will do anything to get a man except be a person that someone wants to be around.

Both look amazing but I wouldn't date either if I was a guy. They are clueless.

The first got dumped by a dude who looks like a gremlin. He told her he couldn't date her anymore because his mom doesn't like African American women. Only for him to then go around and date her African American friend. He didn't know they were friends.

The second had to leave a dude without a car in a parking lot because he was yelling at her to go make a stop and buy him some weed. He didn't text her after that for a month. Now she's geek that a gigantic dude bought her some chipotle.

:mjlol:

I usually don't spend a ton of time around women. I didn't know it was this bad out here.
Wasn’t expecting this :ehh:


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Edit: back to topic

Basically, a lot of women couldn’t control the “High Value Man” they might’ve been with or want, so they think they can “control” uglier men or men they view with less value…


Problem is, you can’t control any man :mjlol: . You can’t control any grown minded person, they are not your children. People should worry about controlling themselves and get with people that can do the same and are equally yolked. Listen to men that are actually trying to help you in life and ignore the ones that aren’t.


And not just help you financially, either.
 
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Women will do anything to get a man except be a person that someone wants to be around.

I want y'all to see this. Look. The entire time I have been in this board, I've been saying this and this woman has fought me tooth and nail against this point, only to finally arrive to the same conclusion after all these years. Blackpearl, I'm glad you've finally seen the light. You're still an insufferable bytch but you're learning and that's what counts. :blessed:


Wasn’t expecting this :ehh:


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I'm taking a victory lap. Any other ladies and male feminists come in here spouting this and I'm playing the lotto or something. :heh:
 

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Medium Ugly here, I’ve always eaten off this, they think oh I’ll just mess with him nobody else likes him not know that other women are thinking the same thing

:mjlol:

One of my guys eats off this as well. Meanwhile you’re increasing his market value. All he has to do is post all the “things he does” for her and he attracts even more.
 

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The first said she needs a man who can fight because her mouth is reckless.

The second said she needs a man so he can pay for all her brunches and happy hours.

:dead:

I'm thinking...this it's ya'll dating strategy?

I'm no angel by any means but damn that's some stupid ass logic. Neither of those reasons have ever inspired me to date.
 

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The first said she needs a man who can fight because her mouth is reckless.

The second said she needs a man so he can pay for all her brunches and happy hours.

:dead:

I'm thinking...this it's ya'll dating strategy?

I'm no angel by any means but damn that's some stupid ass logic. Neither of those reasons have ever inspired me to date.
Yeah I only date professional women raised in the burbs, I don’t have these problems
 
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