women cannot “love” unconditionally Like we do?

[StickStickly]

Oh my damn. A WOMANS happines is moment to moment. A mans happines is VER simple. The list of things that makes me happy is a hell of a lot shorter than most women. Women forget there is no skill in the wsy women HUNT ....men have to have a skill level to get the women that man so desires . Women wish they HAD the skill level to HUNT LOVE. Most men get sex before a women can get love ...because a women is NOT special UPFRONT in the beginning. Men are special because most of us give you a GLIMPSE of what it might be like being with us in the long hual...being a man takes a skill level women and children just need to exist.

what do men need to be happy with a woman for long term?

 

[StickStickly]

Woman 'love' too many times
The problem is Women say I love with impunity
"I LOVE Tyrone"
"I LOVE Empire"
"I LOVE those shoes"
"I LOVE Chad"
"I LOVE Idris"
"I LOVE this music"
"I LOVE my dog"
"I LOVED your wedding dress"
Even if you don't mean it the very act of saying love so many times can desensitize you to an extent.

Ladies here is some game for you. Its sad but its true.
A man will only ever truly love few women in his life, at max 3. (Aside from children)

1. His mother/Woman who raised him.
2.1st Girl he falls in love with
3. 2nd girl he falls in love with and even this is a stretch

These two or three will have his love until the day he dies. Even if he isn't married to any of them and has his own family, that love is still there.
If a man ever tells a women he loves her, she needs to dig deep and know that she has to either be Girl #2 or Girl #3 to take him seriously.
Otherwise he is lying to himself.

Women are fickle with love, you'll fall in and out multiple times with multiple people and I wont fault them for that as its an evolutionary survival mechanism that had good reason for being there. Outdated but whatever.

Men are different its those women, his family and the sport of his choosing (Basketball, Soccer, Football) that's it.

It really is the opposite of the Disney shyt they instill in our minds.

I feel for typing the word love so many times lol

So men are allowed to have sex with many women, but they only love 1-2 women till the day they die? That's pretty fukked up and backwards. But somehow that's noble , right?. "he's slept with 150 women, but he'll only really love Julia from ten years ago."

So what about those other women? Is he incapable of loving them? Why? Is he unable of love then? I've heard this saying before, and I think it's just a facade so men can say "eff women, i'm going to screw all them over till i'm 80 like that one girl did when we were 17!"

 

[Music Fiend]

The real idea here is nobody loves you unconditionally except the woman who carried you 9months and even then some mothers don't love their kids.

Men are the same way. Most of us don't know what love is hence the reason for such high divorce rates.

 

[b_priest9mm]

Came to grips with this a long time ago. Enjoy the intense highs and stimulation she gives you and don't be attached to the outcome.

Lots of women eschewing relationships these days, it's suicide to put your heart on a silver platter for anyone. You can thank hypergamy for this.

When she leaves, fukk it. On to the next one.

 

[NZA]

LOL, in general, women are more dependable than men when they actually make a commitment. men are the most aggressively self-centered group on earth. most of society's rules-even the ones that oppressed women, were actually set in place to make it so that men were forced to be at least somewhat responsible in their home lives in order to be respected. with a more liberal society, men are allowed to seek out the hedonism many would prefer over a nuclear family life and devotion to a wife. women's love tends to be more practical and durable. men are often lust first and fall more in true love after middle age.

the only difference now is that women can express more of their honest feelings, and the most attractive women are now free to make men feel bad about themselves by forcing open competition among men and very harshly letting certain men know that they dont measure up at all and that pretending to be nice or going to work at home depot every day is not impressive enough.

 

[Londilon]

It's always the broke nikkas who worry about meeting women who will take everything from them. Ironic but gives me a good chuckle. Glad I don't live that slum life. I'm building and I will never need a bytch to save me because I didn't work hard in my 20s to be set without the need of a bytch. You nikkas have it backwards get your money up, then the dimes fall in your lap.

 

[Londilon]

Chase hoes for a nut, and catch feelings, brehs.

 

[FSP]

women don't want a man they want an animal

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

The psyche and mind set of the average woman in a nutshell. (And Americans in general)

Take those same men without the ruse on any given weekend and they don't even exist to them.

Absolutely ridiculous.

 

[alpo]

Man, who the fukk hurt you nikkas. I pray yall find the love of a good chick one day. shyt is

 

[Yup]

I don't see how men love unconditionally. They leave their children at a high rate...replace women when they no longer fulfill their physical requirements. Have sex with multiple women even in relationships/marriages possibly endangering the life of their spouse and/or significant other and I am supposed to believe that a man's love is on higher plane than a woman's?

Edit: If anything...both genders can be selfish but for different reasons. A woman would most likely gravitate towards security/fiancial stability.

While a man will gravitate to a woman's beauty. But here is the caveat...beauty and being a sex fiend for a man doesn't mean he will be loyal to you or not seek other women on the side/father children outside the relationship. But for some reason men want women to be OK with this and accept it.

I am not staying with any man that is going to do this to me. Adultery is grounds for divorce. I will not hesitate to leave a man for it.

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

shyt that's why I say fukk MARRIAGE #aintsigningshytbih

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

Man, who the fukk hurt you nikkas. I pray yall find the love of a good chick one day. shyt is

U share that chick

 

[Arc]

Idk how to feel about this
Like holy fukkinh shyt

I'll never get their love for being me? Is that what you mean?

fukk this

shyt I NEVER SHOULDA TOLD THE TRUTH TO THIS bytch WHEN SHE ASKED ME ALL I WANTED WAS SEX!!!!! I shoulda fukking lied
@Emperor_ReinScarf don't get married bro

I'm #HOH fully now. I'm never opening up to women again if this shyt tru

Duh

 

[VICVALLIN]

damn i feel sorry for you unloved nikkas