Only little girls think in the short term. What happens to these women when they hit 30?
Stop responding to women and show them what's up. Alot of them are clueless.
Show a girl your planning on retiring and living well as you age. Show her that this is a life time opportunity.
If you fall into this category, your just another guy that had passed on her way to irrevelancy. Your supposed to be in control of your life direction. She will handle the home. Generally speaking.
Be the ROCK in her life. Show her that from now till 60 she's in good hands and she will thank you everyday for coming into her life and taking care of her, will providing bad boy fun, while these other girls settle on losers who take care of the essentials, but she has to cheat on to have fun.
Man IS the World.
You PHAIL when your end goal is a woman. You will always fail.
If you'd career, your life, your legacy is your goal, what do you become? Iconic. And she becomes the Lucky Lady by your side that supports and works with you to accomplish your goals and dreams.
This will not happen if you do not have goals and dreams that trump the woman.
She will see you as a sucker with no ship on a sinking island looking for his last chance at puss and love while the island sinks into oblivion. She's going to hop on the dikk of whoever has a boat and a destination.
You nikkas worried about being hard on hoes, women who you deem lower than you, that's your chief concern.
A real man, not a nikka, is thinking of the impact and the change he can make in the world. Focus on THAT and what your life means to the Black community, to society, to the world, and still have your swag and your fun, women will be lining up to eat out your hand and be bawling at your funeral.
Think bigger brehs.
Yes. Yes.



.... The perfect woman to these guys are men. Maybe the perfect men for yall.
I think we all have the capacity to love unconditionally, if we really feel deep in our hearts that the person we're handing out heart over to will never hurt us. As long as there is that little inkling of doubt it'll never happen. You guys think the pain you go through when you're heart gets broken from infatuation is bad, give someone all of you and have them do you dirty
. I think it's self preservation not to let you're commit your all. I think im close to it, and every time i think of it it scares the hell out if me cause im giving them power as well as well as heart. Do i trust them not to abuse that power is the conundrum .