women cannot “love” unconditionally Like we do?

[Beerus]

and you're never going to love her the way that you love yourself.

This chick in college who I liked me, but I was too shy at the time to get at. Well I kinda tried but it was too late and I fukked up. I always told myself if she needed a kidney transplant n there was only enough of whatver to put one of us in a coma with the medicinal shyt that I'd let them take my kidney with no anesthetic to save her. I still think about her to this day even tho its been 8-9 years. She was the epitomy of everything I wanted in a girl. .
But Now I realize she never woulda loved me like I did anyways
Corey and Topanga aren't real

 

[Youseenmywork]

This is kinda what I'm struggling to understand right now. Everytime I've been with a girl and only care about her it's like they lose respect for me and think "he's not going anywhere anyway...". It's like they feel like they got some kind of leverage over me even though I'm not even simping, I just simply stop entertaining other girls at all . Whereas in situations where she knows that other girls want me she looks up to me and respect me. It seems like you have to create a balance where she knows that you could cheat, but that you wouldnt. I dont fukking know.

nikka....nvm breh

 

[ReturnOfJudah]

Unconditional love? What kind of dumb ass shyt is that. Even marriages have vows & conditions. Yall keep saying dumb shyt like "Unconditional love

 

[MoonGoddess]

Women man I swear to GOD ....it is simple biology. It called natural selection is the science term. You sound like you threaten by the "thought" of competition . The funny thing women have said what you said to me about being jealous but still try to make men jump threw hoops thoe...funny how how life is. And as my therapist would say jealousy is in the same ...pipeline as being insecure. Most people that is jealous or are jealous have some form of insecurities...but fukk it what do I know .

Im well aware of my insecurities sir.
I know where my jealousy stems from.
Ya'll nikkas aint the only ones that been hurt, that been through shyt to make you view the opposite sex differently. It's really not about me being scared of competition(which i will admit i am) it's about giving someone what you can of yourself and them still choosing the other over you. It's happened to me and i would like not yo ho through that again. It's a headache, and there men that like to throw shyt like that in your face to have you jump through hoops to try to keep them.
I just want peace and to be happy, all that emotional turmoil aint for me.

 

[FSP]

Unconditional love? What kind of dumb ass shyt is that. Even marriages have vows & conditions. Yall keep saying dumb shyt like "Unconditional love

What other type of love is there

Marriage isn't love never has been.

Like I said, true love is only really between the fam. Like father & son or mother & daughter type shyt. Anything else falls short

 

[Prince Mongo]

People are weird like that, i don't know why some people put more value in a person when they are wanted by everyone else. I never got that, im to emotional and jealous for that shyt, i want piece if mind. I'd be perfection happy with no one but me wanting my man......

Jealousy and being overly emotional is very unattractive. Either way you on that fairly tale, romantic movie fake shyt. Why y'all can't keep it real?

 

[Youseenmywork]

I find it AMAZING that all the real nikkas in this thread are TRYING to SELL the TRUTH but women prefer a PRETTY lie. I just don't get it man...

 

[Raptor]

Noplsdont

Rue is that you on ur avi,
I thought you were a black south african

 

[ReturnOfJudah]

What other type of love is there

Marriage isn't love never has been.

Like I said, true love is only really between the fam. Like father & son or mother & daughter type shyt. Anything else falls short

There is love with CONDITIONS. If you fukking nikkas all in my house while im at work im not going to love you. I would be a damn fool to tell a evil bytch, "I love you no matter what you do.". You are setting yourself up to get played for telling a chicken head "i love you unconditionally"..

 

[Rue]

Rue is that you on ur avi,
I thought you were a black south african

 

[MoonGoddess]

Jealousy and being overly emotional is very unattractive. Either way you on that fairly tale, romantic movie fake shyt. Why y'all can't keep it real?

If you knew me in real life you wouldnt say that. Im well aware that it's not attractive and im far more able to handle my emotions and jealousy than when i was younger. Besides i learn that when you show a dude that your like that, they will use that against you, play on your insecurities and basically use the the shyt out of you sucking your emotions dry until your heart is a desert. The way i explain things may seem like im on that romantic fairytale shot,, i can assure you when it comes to love i have my feet firmly grounded in reality. I've learned alot and whatever lovey dovey shyt i used to believe in are buried deep. Im not gonna lie it's hard keeping them buried now a days

 

[Raptor]

 

[Gold]

This thread has really exposed how some of you brehs and brehettes think . I thought some of you were more... grown up than this.

Its time to turn off the soaps, turn off the lifetime movies, and put down the love novels.

Your view of reality is fukked up if you think there is such thing as unconditional love between a man and a woman.

 

[FSP]

There is love with CONDITIONS. If you fukking nikkas all in my house while im at work im not going to love you. I would be a damn fool to tell a evil bytch, "I love you no matter what you do.". You are setting yourself up to get played for telling a chicken head "i love you unconditionally"..

I don't think you are wrong. There are multiple ways to look at it.

I don't consider love anything less than unconditional. Maybe that's the Christian still in me from childhood. I don't love anyone unless you're related by blood. Because I know that's unconditional for me. All that other shyt, you can be sold a lie if you love based on their personality or mutual respect which can be gotten and lost which isn't love, if it's a lie. I feel like it isn't love if it can be changed.

 

[Rue]

Is this real life