women cannot “love” unconditionally Like we do?

[ReturnOfJudah]

I don't think you are wrong. There are multiple ways to look at it.

I don't consider love anything less than unconditional. Maybe that's the Christian still in me from childhood. I don't love anyone unless you're related by blood. Because I know that's unconditional for me. All that other shyt, you can be sold a lie if you love based on their personality or mutual respect which can be gotten and lost which isn't love, if it's a lie. I feel like it isn't love if it can be changed.

I love my son but i will kick him out the house if he does some shyt that would get my house raided. Love sometimes can be "evil" to someone else. I love my son but im not going to treat him "nice". Im going to tell him to get his shyt and get the fukk out. When he decides to "do right" then he can come back. Love aint always a smile, gift, or treating somebody kind. Love can be harsh, and make others pissed off.

 

[Gold]

I don't think you are wrong. There are multiple ways to look at it.

I don't consider love anything less than unconditional. Maybe that's the Christian still in me from childhood. I don't love anyone unless you're related by blood. Because I know that's unconditional for me. All that other shyt, you can be sold a lie if you love based on their personality or mutual respect which can be gotten and lost which isn't love, if it's a lie. I feel like it isn't love if it can be changed.

That's not even a Christian view. Christianity teaches that only God can love unconditionally and all human forms of love fall short.

So going by that men still wouldn't love women unconditionally and vice versa

 

[Diondon]

I think true "love" is actually a very rare thing for both men and women.
I value respect and loyalty far more than "love" anway
I've seen women that swear they "love" their husband, while meeting strange men in motels.
I've seen women with bummy dudes that wont give the time of day to another nikka
It's a crap shoot really

 

[Youseenmywork]

Im well aware of my insecurities sir.
I know where my jealousy stems from.
Ya'll nikkas aint the only ones that been hurt, that been through shyt to make you view the opposite sex differently. It's really not about me being scared of competition(which i will admit i am) it's about giving someone what you can of yourself and them still choosing the other over you. It's happened to me and i would like not yo ho through that again. It's a headache, and there men that like to throw shyt like that in your face to have you jump through hoops to try to keep them.
I just want peace and to be happy, all that emotional turmoil aint for me.

....Honestly thats what relationships are its a game or war and all is fair in love and war .

 

[Mordith]

at the tag.

 

[FSP]

I love my son but i will kick him out the house if he does some shyt that would get my house raided. Love sometimes can be "evil" to someone else. I love my son but im not going to treat him "nice". Im going to tell him to get his shyt and get the fukk out. When he decides to "do right" then he can come back. Love aint always a smile, gift, or treating somebody kind. Love can be harsh, and make others pissed off.

Yeah but that doesn't mean you don't love him does it. I have been kicked out of the house many times by my parents over the years.

We always found the energy "the love" to reconcile because that's what love means, right? You don't just burn the bridge over anger or resentment. Love is supposed to be stronger than the other emotions

 

[MoonGoddess]

This thread has really exposed how some of you brehettes think . I thought some of you were more... grown up than this.

Its time to turn off the soaps, turn off the lifetime movies, and put down the love novels.

Your view of reality is fukked up if you think there is such thing as unconditional love between a man and a woman.

How you just gonna call out the women when there are men on the front page agreeing with the quote and acting like they out here loving every woman they been with unconditionally?

 

[Gold]

How you just gonna call out the women when there are men on the front page agreeing with the quote and acting like they out here loving every woman they been with unconditionally?

.... ok those men are stupid too.

Sorry I'll edit my post

 

[Bless't]

LOL, in general, women are more dependable than men when they actually make a commitment. men are the most aggressively self-centered group on earth. most of society's rules-even the ones that oppressed women, were actually set in place to make it so that men were forced to be at least somewhat responsible in their home lives in order to be respected. with a more liberal society, men are allowed to seek out the hedonism many would prefer over a nuclear family life and devotion to a wife. women's love tends to be more practical and durable. men are often lust first and fall more in true love after middle age.

the only difference now is that women can express more of their honest feelings, and the most attractive women are now free to make men feel bad about themselves by forcing open competition among men and very harshly letting certain men know that they dont measure up at all and that pretending to be nice or going to work at home depot every day is not impressive enough.

Good post.

 

[ReturnOfJudah]

Yeah but that doesn't mean you don't love him does it. I have been kicked out of the house many times by my parents over the years.

We always found the energy "the love" to reconcile because that's what love means, right? You don't just burn the bridge over anger or resentment. Love is supposed to be stronger than the other emotions

Like you said thats because we are blood. But relationships is different. Would you take your significant other back if she said, " im not going to let random nikkas run a train on me anymore... i've changed" ?


Most people use that "unconditional love" BS when it comes to relationships

 

[wet landscapes]

unconditional love is stupid
if a woman ignored every flaw in a person to stay in a romantic situation, she'd just be considered a woman with poor judgement

plus how do you even stay in love with someone who does shyt you hate lol what is the point of that

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[FSP]

LOL, in general, women are more dependable than men when they actually make a commitment. men are the most aggressively self-centered group on earth. most of society's rules-even the ones that oppressed women, were actually set in place to make it so that men were forced to be at least somewhat responsible in their home lives in order to be respected. with a more liberal society, men are allowed to seek out the hedonism many would prefer over a nuclear family life and devotion to a wife. women's love tends to be more practical and durable. men are often lust first and fall more in true love after middle age.

the only difference now is that women can express more of their honest feelings, and the most attractive women are now free to make men feel bad about themselves by forcing open competition among men and very harshly letting certain men know that they dont measure up at all and that pretending to be nice or going to work at home depot every day is not impressive enough.

You mean until those looks fade and then they wanna come running back to the stable but less impressive guy, with their tail between their legs, hoping they'll be taken back and married with kids & family & white picket fence. Got you. Sounds like the problem there

 

[Prince Mongo]

If you knew me in real life you wouldnt say that. Im well aware that it's not attractive and im far more able to handle my emotions and jealousy than when i was younger. Besides i learn that when you show a dude that your like that, they will use that against you, play on your insecurities and basically use the the shyt out of you sucking your emotions dry until your heart is a desert. The way i explain things may seem like im on that romantic fairytale shot,, i can assure you when it comes to love i have my feet firmly grounded in reality. I've learned alot and whatever lovey dovey shyt i used to believe in are buried deep. Im not gonna lie it's hard keeping them buried now a days

Now reread what you just typed. Its essentially the female equivalent of what Dr X be posting as far as saying that showing your true emotions to a man will cause him to mistreat you. That's ironic considering you're shytting on dudes on here for their insecurities and opinions on women? If I knew you irl I'd already be turned off at your insecurity. You sound like you have a mentality like a few girls ik. You know the type of girls in high school that dated popular seniors when they were freshmen and expected the senior dude to be committed and loyal. Then when he inevitably cheats its back to "all nikkas are dogs." Come to think of it, y'all girls on this website think all nikkas dog girls out and are unfaithful just like dudes on this site think that all girls are hoes

 

[FSP]

Now reread what you just typed. Its essentially the female equivalent of what Dr X be posting as far as saying that showing your true emotions to a man will cause him to mistreat you. That's ironic considering you're shytting on dudes on here for their insecurities and opinions on women? If I knew you irl I'd already be turned off at your insecurity. You sound like you have a mentality like a few girls ik. You know the type of girls in high school that dated popular seniors when they were freshmen and expected the senior dude to be committed and loyal. Then when he inevitably cheats its back to "all nikkas are dogs." Come to think of it, y'all girls on this website think all nikkas dog girls out and are unfaithful just like dudes on this site think that all girls are hoes

Yet they stay sending some of these dudes nudes and shyt. I even heard ya'll was catching plane tickets to ride out to other cities just to fukk.

Then I heard shyt was worse on the Ill Community. Ya'll are out here