women cannot “love” unconditionally Like we do?

[Raptor]

Is this real life

How did you know

 

[MoonGoddess]

Now reread what you just typed. Its essentially the female equivalent of what Dr X be posting as far as saying that showing your true emotions to a man will cause him to mistreat you. That's ironic considering you're shytting on dudes on here for their insecurities and opinions on women? If I knew you irl I'd already be turned off at your insecurity. You sound like you have a mentality like a few girls ik. You know the type of girls in high school that dated popular seniors when they were freshmen and expected the senior dude to be committed and loyal. Then when he inevitably cheats its back to "all nikkas are dogs." Come to think of it, y'all girls on this website think all nikkas dog girls out and are unfaithful just like dudes on this site think that all girls are hoes

Yeah you def got me misconstrued.
My first boyfriend had a cataract and was facially ugly. Bit i can understand why you have formed this opinion of me. I don't think ive shytted on anyone in here just tried to explain things from my perspective from what i've been through.

 

[Prince Mongo]

Yet they stay sending some of these dudes nudes and shyt. I even heard ya'll was catching plane tickets to ride out to other cities just to fukk.

Then I heard shyt was worse on the Ill Community. Ya'll are out here

I'll be damned if I do some shyt like that. What I look like tryna meet up with a girl 100's or 1000's of miles away from me?

 

[mcdivit85]

For the most part when a woman tells you she loves you take it with a grain of salt, its easy to love when everything is going right, you have a job, a car, and are in good health. You can't test anyone until circumstances are not in your favor.

The same woman that loves you do and feels such warmth for you, can be as cold as ice tom morning.

like 12 women have told me they loved me, ive only loved 3 women in my life.

Out of those 12, 11 aren't even in my life anymore, prob don't care if i'm breathing or not. But I won't put they were so in love, and would rather die than live wihtout me

People throw the word "love" around very easily, especially women. In many cases, people use that word as a way of disarming a person as a means to an end. The end could be marriage, a relationship, a gift or something more sinister.

I've had conversations with women I've dated who said they loved me and wouldn't know what to do without me. I would thank them, but I would know that it's vanity. I truly believe that the only true love one can experience is that from their parent(s). And even that is not guaranteed since many trifling people have children they resent and don't even like.

Chicks will say some "If we don't work out, then I'm just done with dating." And then you break up and 6 months later, she's dating somebody else.

Peace

 

[iBrowse]

who is this and why is he all over the innanets

 

[Rue]

How did you know

Did a scanning of your posts, to see which poster the texts belong to and

 

[Gold]

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who is this and why is he all over the innanets

Nick Young swaggy p

Played for the Lakers breh

 

[Youseenmywork]

Im well aware of my insecurities sir.
I know where my jealousy stems from.
Ya'll nikkas aint the only ones that been hurt, that been through shyt to make you view the opposite sex differently. It's really not about me being scared of competition(which i will admit i am) it's about giving someone what you can of yourself and them still choosing the other over you. It's happened to me and i would like not yo ho through that again. It's a headache, and there men that like to throw shyt like that in your face to have you jump through hoops to try to keep them.
I just want peace and to be happy, all that emotional turmoil aint for me.

 

[Arithmetic]

@J-purp with another plat

 

[MoonGoddess]

 

[Gold]

If you knew me in real life you wouldnt say that. Im well aware that it's not attractive and im far more able to handle my emotions and jealousy than when i was younger. Besides i learn that when you show a dude that your like that, they will use that against you, play on your insecurities and basically use the the shyt out of you sucking your emotions dry until your heart is a desert. The way i explain things may seem like im on that romantic fairytale shot,, i can assure you when it comes to love i have my feet firmly grounded in reality. I've learned alot and whatever lovey dovey shyt i used to believe in are buried deep. Im not gonna lie it's hard keeping them buried now a days

Sounds like you just need a good guy who wont use your emotional past against you. Does that mean that he will love you unconditionally? No.

But you can make it work, and you can enjoy it.

Maybe its time to switch up who you go after?

Lord knows I had to

 

[iBrowse]

Nick Young swaggy p

Played for the Lakers breh

I really only watch boxing :totheeastside:

 

[Prince Mongo]

Yeah you def got me misconstrued.
My first boyfriend had a cataract and was facially ugly. Bit i can understand why you have formed this opinion of me. I don't think ive shytted on anyone in here just tried to explain things from my perspective from what i've been through.

I apologize if I got you wrong but its kinda how you came across. Just seems like both genders are quick to shyt on each other on here when we both express the same concerns from our respective standpoints

 

[MoonGoddess]

Sounds like you just need a good guy who wont use your emotional past against you. Does that mean that he will love you unconditionally? No.

But you can make it work, and you can enjoy it.

Maybe its time to switch up who you go after?

Lord knows I had to

Honestly im in a relationship right now and i think(hope) we are really good for each other. We both have been hurt in the past, the only difference he isnt bitter and i've learned from him how to let shyt go. It's hard and i can be annoying. He isnt a very emotional person so i dont know if that balances us out or what it is, but it's working so far.

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

Do you even know what love is
You dum bih
You just want the clubbin
The public


- blackierobinson