women cannot “love” unconditionally Like we do?

[Neuromancer]

Ironic. My grandmother always told me and my female cousins to get a man that loves us more than we love him because mens emotions are feeble and here and gone.

My aunt said to get a fatter nikka or one with low self esteem so it'll be hard for him to replace you.

Even more ironic, both these women have been married, grandma for over 53 years, auntie for 28, and have husbands who will die for them.

Sounds potentially emotionally abusive.

 

[feelosofer]

A lot of you guys and girls are too fukking young to be this bitter.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

The thought is out there.

That men are the true "lovers".

Men mostly love a woman for who she naturally is.

Women love men based on surrounding circumstances(social standings) & attachments(Money, cars etc..)

Which isn't really a big deal if a chick chose a nicca and stayed with him.Problem nowadays, they're always looking to "upgrade" or, even worst, they try to reverse the game.They wanna be the ones with the social standings/attachments.


Some gigolo minded, puzzy ass niccaz fall for this and get stuck in a rut.Depending on the girl for food, clothing, shelter, and transportation.

The modern "independent" female is comfortable with that situation.They feel more in control of the relationship.If he needs me, he won't leave me as quickly.Plus a lot of these chicks have kids, so they don't mind having a nicca who's willing to stay home and babysit.

You especially see that type of shyt going on in hood areas.The chick will be on section 8/utilities aid/EBT---paying like $100 total for rent & lights.No daycare bill because her man stays home to watch the kids--food covered by EBT---she'll get her a lil telemarketing job---her man dabbles in lil nickle & dime hustling--selling a lil weed here & there

And they'll be living ghetto fabulous.They'll have more discretionary income than people making 70-80,000 a year

Damn. I just threw up on my throat. That what goes down in the hood. These nikkas are truly raised to be females.