Women express their hatred for nice men
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Nah, but he did come off weak and he will continue to suffer with women until that changes.
Bytches ain't shyt, never have been shyt, and never will be shyt 
The issue is that I already said there is no such thing as a nice guy. It’s used as a catch all—either describing a nerdy awkward guy that is perceived to be nice because he’s a nerd that’s smart and doing well financially but that doesn’t necessarily translate to how he is as a partner and then there are the ugly gang guys who call themselves nice because they don’t get women, and then there are the men who for whatever reason believe they are nice men but if you ask women who’ve dated them, depending on the woman he wasn’t a good partner. And then I’m assuming the man who pulls on my heart strings is supposed to be the emotionally unavailable dude that looks good but doesn’t give me attention, the thug/bad boy who has a mouth piece and swag, the pretty boy who is a player and cheater and gets a lot of women so he won’t commit… do I have all those stereotypes right lol?
I’ve dated the pretty boy type(my son’s father) with the caveat that he did commit to me, I’ve dated the attractive but emotionally unavailable smart successful guy when I myself was unavailable and wanted a shallow relationship lol. And I’ve dated Brehs that are in between. I’ve never dated the thug/street guy. I’ve never dated ugly gang. I’ve never dated a nerd. What made me want to date the men I have once I got past the attraction and vetting was how they made me feel. Whether it be lust, intrigue, mentally stimulated, admiration, etc. but all of them were considered “stand up” men by others based on how they lived their life, treated loved ones, etc.
I have friends who’ve dated ugly gang and nerd gang, and there weren’t any major differences in their relationships with these men versus mine. All of them came with some form of bs it was just different kinds.
Now if what your really asking is about would I choose the attractive cheater/player who pulls at my heart strings versus the loyal nerdy man? If both men were equally attractive and I have the same connection to both, I would obviously choose the one who didn’t cheat. But life is hardly ever that black and white when it comes to that particular situation. And water always seeks its own level so in most cases the women is choosing one man over the other based on where she’s at(mentally, emotionally, spiritually). So on a subconscious level, I would most likely choose the one who is at the same point in their journey as I am in mine, if I chose the bad boy then it’s likely for a reason—we both have the same low vibrations.
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Ozymandeas
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If he has no girl I’m sure he’ll take any moderately attractive woman.
Problem is, those City Girl type broads are the majority now
Me? I can easily get them type of broads as long as you show social clout, new trendy clothes, and a borrowed whip. I figured it out completely a whole decade ago, and only do so sparingly because its exhausting. At least, for me as an introvert.
This but do anything out of something I would of already done for myself and adding a guest at this point is doing too much for a bytch imo, doing anything other than spending minimal time before a smash, validates to some degree she in aggregate is worth effort. Whores aka (city girls/meg/cardi/kadashian following types), which span different levels of socioeconomics aren't worth pursuing on any level. I ALREADY KNOW you're a whore so either give it up quick or foh. Body language/choosing signals make this easy to discern
Low End Derrick
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Ugh....there's so much in there to touch on..
I'll mark this for later.... I need sleep lol
Just look at the Dani Leigh and Da Baby situation. She even admitted the internet warned her and she went and had a baby by the dude anyways. They'll probably go back and forth and kick out a couple more babies.
Or just look at Will Smith's track record with women.
If you're too nice you will get treated as a pushover
Or just look at Will Smith's track record with women.
If you're too nice you will get treated as a pushover
It means putting up with bullshyt and expecting moral behavior from the woman.
Women are natural line steppers. You have to understand you'll be checking her every now and then to keep things together. You think cheating is the worst thing to worry about.
O you gon learn.
