Women express their hatred for nice men

[LiveFromLondon]

I learned not to judge a person by who they introduce or present themselves as, and observe their actions and interactions wisely.
I feel that by improving my own self I will be in alignment with someone exhibiting similar values. And at least have better discernment

That being said when it comes to vetting a man, once I get pass attraction and if there’s a connection and chemistry, i look at a man’s character, what he stands for, how he treats people, his principles and values, and how he treats me and how I feel when I’m with him. I like men with integrity and with a good strong character

Both responses similar and though fine and dandy i feel are unintentionally disingenuous because they don't align with what I've seen and more about what about wanting to pushback against the narrative. I say this because women are moved by emotion and want to be emotionally tugged and pulled reveling in the excitement that comes with it which a so called nice guy isn't able to induce. Certain both of you know women in your lives that have given more play to the guys who treat them not so nice in their mind as opposed to the average breh just tryna date with no bs.

So with that said in both your scenarios with all the vetting and discernment. Who is going further with "yall" or the average female the nice guy thats comes with no bs or the supposedly not so nice guy thats tugging your emotions and has you wondering and has R&B songs written about.

Answer truthfully please

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Both responses similar and though fine and dandy i feel are unintentionally disingenuous because they don't align with what I've seen and more about what about wanting to pushback against the narrative. I say this because women are moved by emotion and want to be emotionally tugged and pulled reveling in the excitement that comes with it which a so called nice guy isn't able to induce. Certain both of you know women in your lives that have given more play to the guys who treat them not so nice in their mind as opposed to the average breh just tryna date with no bs.

So with that said in both your scenarios with all the vetting and discernment. Who is going further with "yall" or the average female the nice guy thats comes with no bs or the supposedly not so nice guy thats tugging your emotions and has you wondering and has R&B songs written about.

Answer truthfully please

Some women think of men like wild horses. There is no thrill in getting on a horse that might not throw your ass off. The aim is to change a flawed man, to break him like you would a wild horse and get him to behave how you want, but he shows you signs that he's not with it and will lash out from time to time to remind you he still has some rawness in his spirit.

Its boring to date someone who from the jump wants commitment and will reciprocate loyalty. Its boring to have compliments readily given. Its more meaningful if he compliments her randomly than if every other day he has something nice to say. For some of them, they don't want a man that will cheat on them, but one that CAN. Knowing you've got a man other women want is a huge ego boost for women. Men of all races typically report women flirting with them more when a girlfriend is in the picture. He'll I've experienced it myself.

I find the response to the man in the op funny for a different reason. Its basically "he wants to treat us with dignity and respect and expects that out of us too. What a fakkit " then those same types turn around talmbout "why are men toxic and afraid to be vulnerable?"

 

[semicko82]

Delete

 

[Yinny]

So i should not be nice to the women im trying to fukk?

Make it make sense

Fred

I’m not referring to that and genuinely don’t care.

I meant this label of nice gets thrown around incorrectly- a person who has an ulterior motive behind their actions isn’t “nice”-it’s only when you treat someone who you cannot benefit from and from whom you want nothing that you’re a “nice” or “kind” person.

But the context was dating, I again don’t care so can see myself out. Didn’t watch vids in op.

 

[brandy]

Lol @ people saying he should go for women like him.

His whole point is that women like him aren't interested in men like him. They wanna try the toxic men too and they have easy access to them.

What do yall have for men like him when he sets his sights way low and still gets curved

Most dont think that far ahead when they wanna offer that played out advice that men like him done heard a thousand times.

Its funny to roast him but by doing so those women are proving his point. They're making fun of a man whose aim is to commit instead of throwing yall on a roster. Hes a nerd because he wants a woman to be loyal to him. Make it make sense

In their defense, if I met a guy and went on his social media and he has 15+ videos with rants like this, I would be creeped out. He seems like a nice guy, but if his social media is only this, he is scaring women like him away.

 

[semicko82]

Some women think of men like wild horses. There is no thrill in getting on a horse that might not throw your ass off. The aim is to change a flawed man, to break him like you would a wild horse and get him to behave how you want, but he shows you signs that he's not with it and will lash out from time to time to remind you he still has some rawness in his spirit.

Its boring to date someone who from the jump wants commitment and will reciprocate loyalty. Its boring to have compliments readily given. Its more meaningful if he compliments her randomly than if every other day he has something nice to say. For some of them, they don't want a man that will cheat on them, but one that CAN. Knowing you've got a man other women want is a huge ego boost for women. Men of all races typically report women flirting with them more when a girlfriend is in the picture. He'll I've experienced it myself.

I find the response to the man in the op funny for a different reason. Its basically "he wants to treat us with dignity and respect and expects that out of us too. What a fakkit " then those same types turn around talmbout "why are men toxic and afraid to be vulnerable?"

You want a good laugh you should read the tik tok comments

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

The homely looking woman can be on that toxic shyt too. It's just the IG, stripper, thot woman tend to be more honest about being toxic

They just lying for the internet. Same women swiping left on a guy for a hair outta place online, would barely be able to make eye contact with men irl.

But not to worry. Natural selection will humble those without self awareness.

 

[Wild self]

Lol @ people saying he should go for women like him.

His whole point is that women like him aren't interested in men like him. They wanna try the toxic men too and they have easy access to them.

What do yall have for men like him when he sets his sights way low and still gets curved

Most dont think that far ahead when they wanna offer that played out advice that men like him done heard a thousand times.

Its funny to roast him but by doing so those women are proving his point. They're making fun of a man whose aim is to commit instead of throwing yall on a roster. Hes a nerd because he wants a woman to be loyal to him. Make it make sense

We been to the point of no return. These women been raised to be the 5th bytch from a dude with massive social clout, over the main broad of a man that is committed.

Even a couple of female posters already said it on here, that they happy with being some jumpoff with a socially cool dude over "bitter" dudes. That is why @skeetsinternal gets play from those same female posters.

 

[mag357]

Both responses similar and though fine and dandy i feel are unintentionally disingenuous because they don't align with what I've seen and more about what about wanting to pushback against the narrative. I say this because women are moved by emotion and want to be emotionally tugged and pulled reveling in the excitement that comes with it which a so called nice guy isn't able to induce. Certain both of you know women in your lives that have given more play to the guys who treat them not so nice in their mind as opposed to the average breh just tryna date with no bs.

So with that said in both your scenarios with all the vetting and discernment. Who is going further with "yall" or the average female the nice guy thats comes with no bs or the supposedly not so nice guy thats tugging your emotions and has you wondering and has R&B songs written about.

Answer truthfully please

Spit that shyt

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

So i should not be nice to the women im trying to fukk?

Make it make sense

Fred

If you are walking around crying about how you’re a nice guy, you should probably be a nice guy to everyone. And not just those you can get something out of that you want. Cause that just makes you nice for profit. Aka a whore.

 

[DropTopDoc]

Lol @ people saying he should go for women like him.

His whole point is that women like him aren't interested in men like him. They wanna try the toxic men too and they have easy access to them.

What do yall have for men like him when he sets his sights way low and still gets curved

Most dont think that far ahead when they wanna offer that played out advice that men like him done heard a thousand times.

Its funny to roast him but by doing so those women are proving his point. They're making fun of a man whose aim is to commit instead of throwing yall on a roster. Hes a nerd because he wants a woman to be loyal to him. Make it make sense

I get what you are say, but this is the fallacy that both sides play into, thinking you have to be “a nice guy” is like women thinking because she’s visually appealing she’s a catch. It’s a lot of women you just won’t catch because your build or height or money or access, and you have to make peace with that. Its nikkas dream is to bag the dime like ho’s dream to bag a Russ or Lebron, you aren’t going to convince women to deal with you because you are nice, women are trying to fukk the same 5 nikkas ( figuratively speaking) so if you not visually appealing and or rich you can hang it up, it’s cool to treat a woman you date right but ain’t nan broad gonna be like damn I should have dated you, i knew you’d open my door and bring me flowers every day

bottom line, if a chick into you, you don’t have to be half the shyt they spout, you just gotta treat them right, and they gon think you god

 

[SunZoo]

When u handsome
U good regardless

Im not nice to mafukkas at all
Women love me at all times

Not true.

I have a lil homie who is a handsome guy, but he's also needy as fukk. Soon as women get a wiff of that (all you gotta do is peep his social media) they are repulsed by him. If he ain't fishing for compliments he's complaining about how the girls he does get always start acting funny with him...

I've known this nikka since he was like 10 years old and even I had to unfollow his whiney and entitled ass.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Men who are only nice to women they want to fukk or date are not “nice men.”

Women are waaaaaaaay worse

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

When guys bring up how woman mess over nice guys their rebuttals is “what’s your definition of a nice guy” very similar to when guys bring up a woman being a hoe they respond with “what’s a hoe?”

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Not true.

I have a lil homie who is a handsome guy, but he's also needy as fukk. Soon as women get a wiff of that (all you gotta do is peep his social media) they are repulsed by him. If he ain't fishing for compliments he's complaining about how the girls he does get always start acting funny with him...

I've known this nikka since he was like 10 years old and even I had to unfollow his whiney and entitled ass.

I literally said im not nice

If u a handsome lame
U might as well be ugly